情感咨询：男友选择了前女友，我该如何挽回？

　　chaojianaofenshouhounanpengyoubuzhaowo，chaojianaofenshouhou，wohenqidainanpengyoudezhiqianhefuhedeqinfen，ranertaxuanzelezhuanglongzuoya，buhuizhudongzhaowo。zheirangwokunhuobuyihexintong。wokukusisuotamendexingweishencengyuanyin，jiushitazaoyichedifangxialelianggerendeganqing，haishixuyaoyiduanshijianlizhiyusikao？zheiduanganqingshibushiyijingshizhongdian？woxianrufenqiyubuanzhong，qipanjiechuzheiyiyituan，danshiwoyemingbai，goutongyulijiejiushidajiazaiciqudelianxiheguanliandeguanjiansuozai。

　　愧疚的沉默无言

　　chaojianaofenshouhounanpengyoubuzhaowo，liangrendeguanxizoudaolechakou，chaojiadezhanhuofenfeizaikongqizhong，zuihouwomenxuanzelefenshou。beitongyujuewodianjizhe，huoxunanpengyouyehuizhudongzhaowo，biaoshutadekuijiuhehuiyi。danshi，riziyitiantianguoqu，keshitayizhizhuanglongzuoya，buhuizaizhaowo。zheirangwoxianruyihuoyutongkudangzhong。

　　思索理智

　　yexunanpengyoudechenjidaibiaozhetaxuyaoyiduanshijianlizhiyusikao。zaineiyicichaojiahou，dahuoerqingxudouchuzaijiduanhuazhuangtaixia，kenenghaixuyaoyiduandujudeshijianquzhongxinsikaoheziwofansitamendexingwei。zheishihou，poshitazaicikaiqiguanliandamenkenengbururenyi。huoxuzhiyoudengdaotaneixinshenchudeneijiudanxinjiekai，tacaihuijijiyuwomenlianxi。

　　愤怒和猜疑

　　danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，xinlidefennuhecaiyiyemanmanyouranersheng。tashibushiyijingchedifangxialelianggerendeganqing？shibushiyujianlegengzhongyaodeshishitabuhuizaizhaoguwo？zheixiewentixiangtengtiaoyiyangzaiwodexinlijiuchanbuxiu，rangwonanyishihuai。

　　沟通的意义

　　zaizheiduanganqingzhong，goutongyulejieyuelaiyuezhiguanzhongyao。womencengchaojia，fenshou，keshifangxiazizunhezenghen，zuozhelaijiangjiangyexucaisuanshichuliwentidehexin。zhenduinanpengyoudechenmowuyan，womenxuyaobiaoshuwomengbiyutongku，zhengqiutadeneixindeneixinxiangfa。huoxuneiyangcainengfaxianbicizhijianfuhexingdegailv，huozheshuoquelifenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，maixiangfenbieweilaidefazhan。

　　自我反省和成长

　　dengdainanpengyouxingdongqinei，yerangwoyoukongsikaodajiacongqiandexiangchumoshihezishendewenti。huoxuchaojiajinjinbingshanyijiao，dajiazaipingchanggongchuliyeyouzhuduobuhemudedifang。genjuziwofanshengyuchengzhang，wonengweiyihoudeaiqingchongfenzhunbei，buguanyunanpengyoufuhexinghuoshizhaodaoxindezhujian。

　　面对现实与学会放下

　　suiranxiwangnanpengyouhuizhaowobingfujianlianggerendeganqing，kewoyefaxianlehenduoshiqingshimeifakongzhide。meigerendouyouzijidexuanzeyuqueding，jiarutazhendebuyuanyizaizhaowo，womenxuyaojienazheigeshishi，xuehuishihuai。shenghuohaidejixu，zaikunanzhongzhaodaozijidexingfuyukuaile。

　　与未知的未来

　　buguannanpengyoushibushizhaowo，buguanwomennengfouzaicizoudaoyiqi，doudemianduitiaozhandebuquedingyinsu。huoxuzheixiejinglihuirangwobiandeyuelaiyuewanqianggengjiachengshu，huoxuwonengpengdaoyigegenghaoderen，huoxuwonengduziyirenduguoyiduanshizhang。buguanzenyang，woqingxiangxin，buguanfashengshenme，yiqiedoushishangtiandeanpai。

　　chaojianaofenshouhounanpengyoubuzhaowo，buguannanpengyoushibushizhaowo，zheixiejinglidoushiwozijituibiandeyibufen。suiranmianqiandezhuangkuangrangrenkunhuohexintong，danshiwoxiangxinshizhanghexinxinkeyirangwobaituokunjing，yinglaigengmeihaodemingtian。