冷爱:父母因教派不同而反对婚姻怎么办？

　　zenmezhidaonanrenchuguilemei，zaiqinmiguanxizhong，caiyiairenshibushichuguishilingrenbuandeyihuo。xiangyaolejiegengduonanrenshibushichugui，guanxintaderichanggerenxingweihexingweiyizhishiyigezhongyao。guanchatashifoujingchangyumouyitedingrenweichijinmilianxi，shibushihuranbiandebuleyifenxiangjinitadeshenghuohetihui，huoshishibushibiaoxianchulemengbi、lengmoshuyuangaoxinhao。yucitongshi，liuyitashifouchangchangchumen，tongshiduishijianyuxingjibiaoshumolengliangke。danshi，yaofenxipanduanchugui，zuizhuyaodeshijianlirentongheduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu，yuairenyichengxiangdai，yijianlilaoguzhijiandeguanxijiben。

　　ruhepanduannanrenshibushichuguiyizhishikunhuonvxingpengyouwenti。jinguanmeiyigerengerenxingweihexingweigeyoubutong，danyixiashuyuyixiehenyoukenengzhongyaoxiansuo，bangzhuzijigenghaodelejienanrenshibushichugui。

　　更改日常个人行为

　　zenmezhidaonanrenchuguilemei，dangnanrenchuguishi，tamenrichangxingweishangyoukenengchuxianyixiegenggai。takenenghuihuranbiandeduiyunidegoutongjiaoliubuyuanyiqu，buhuizaifenxiangzijishenghuozhongdexijie，duiyuganqingbiandezhezheyanyan。zheizhongzuofagenggaiyibanjiushiyinweitamenzaiyutarenjianliyigexindeganqingniudai。

　　经常和别人相处

　　jiaruniliuyidaonanrenjingchanghemouyitedingrenweichijinmilianxi，kenengshiyigejingshixunhao。zheileilianluokenengshishouji、duanxiaoxihuoshejiaopingtaishangdegoutong。tebieshizaixuyaokaolvtayucirenjiandeganqingzijintourushuiping，shifoucunzaiaimeiguanxihuoshencengcixiangchudezhengzhao。

　　变得不在乎你的心情与需求

　　nanrenchuguishi，takenenghuibiandelengdanhuozheduinidexinqingyuxuqiubuhuizaibijiaomingan。tamenyexubuhuizaiyuanyihenigoutong、lingtingnidefannaohuocanjianishenghuozhizhong。zheileitaidugaibiankenengshierqietamendexiangfazaoyizhuanyidaoqitarendeshenshang。

　　变得蒙蔽、冷漠疏远

　　chuguidenanrenyibanbiaoxianchuxinlishangdezhuanbian。tamenyexubiandemengbi、lengdanhuoshuyuan，buhuixiangyiwangneibanheniweichihunyinguanxi。zheikenengshichuguigerenxingweisuodailaideneixinzhengzhashenghuozhongdemaodundebiaoxian。

　　行迹与时间解释不清

　　dangnanrenchuguishi，takenenghuijingchangchumenbingqieduixingjiyushijianbiaoshumolengliangke。tamenyexuchangchangzhaoliyouchumenhuochigui，rangnijuedetadexingjibukaopu。zheizhongzuofayibanshiweilenengfenpeihebaochihebierendemimihuiwu。

　　建立认同和对外开放沟通交流

　　yaofenxipanduannanrenshibushichugui，zuizhuyaodeshijianlixianghuzhijianderentongheduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu。zhenchengdiyuairengoutongjiaoliu，biaodazijiyoulvhegulv，shenrutantaolianaizhongdenanti。genjujianlilaoguzhijiandeguanxijiben，ninenggenghaodelejietadexinliquanqiu。

　　观查个人行为转变

　　chuleshangshusuotidaodeyixiezhengzhao，yekeyitongguoguanchananrendejudongzhuanbianlaiquedingshifouchugui。jiarutadewaichupinlvzengjia，duobijiatingjucan，huoshijingchangchigui，zheixiedoukenengshizheiyouwaiyudezhengzhao。yucitongshi，liuyiduifangshifoujingchangxuangouxinyifu、zhuzhongxingxiangdebianhua，yekenengshiweilenengyinghetarendeaihao。

　　察颜观色

　　duiyudabufenrenlaishuo，qingxuchuguihuirangqingxuzaochengyingxiang。ruguonicaiyinanrenshibushichuguishi，guanchatadexiaoronghemuguangshibushiyiranchongchizhezhenxinshiyi。jiarutabiandexinqingdiluohuochangchangxianrushensi，zheikenengshichuguisuochanshengdeneixinmaodundebiaoxian。

　　寻找证据

　　jiaruzhishangzhengzhaoniyeyouzhuyidao，danyiranbuquedingxingnanrenshibushichugui，xunzhaozhengjukenengshiyigexuanze。danshi，zheijiuxuyaodangxinshijicaozuo，zunzhongtarendeyinsiyufalv。qiaoqiaodeguanchatadeshouji、jisuanjihuoshejiaowangluo，tanxunyuqitanvshiquebuzhengchangdehudongjiaoliu。danhaishiyaoqieji，zheizhinengzuoweizuizhongfangshi，jiarunidequeyouchongzudezhijiezhengjucaiyitadezhongshixing。

　　汇总

　　zenmezhidaonanrenchuguilemei，yaozhidaonanrenshibushichugui，meiyoujueduiguifan，danzhishangsuotidaodeyixiesilunenggouzuocankao。danshi，zuizhuyaodeshijianlirentongheduiwaikaifanggoutongjiaoliu，yuairenyichengxiangdai，yijianlilaoguzhijiandeguanxijiben。zaiduidaizheizhongwentishi，lizhidizuochujueceshishifenzhongyaode。