相亲屡战屡败有些什么原因？

小惠是个80 后，  zaiwaidapinduonian，zhongshendashichichibuding，jialirenyetingtitazhejishanghuode，chenzheguonianhuijia，jizhepaizheshijianyaorangtaquxiangqin。qishibieshuoshijialiren，xiaohuizijiyexinji，yankanburuerlizhinian，lianaishijihuyipiankongbaidetaqueshiyoudianbuzhisuocuo。suoyijialirenyitidaoxiangqindeshi，xiaohuihengliangyifan，meiduoyouyujiuqule。

 zaizhichangshangfengyunchichaduoniandexiaohuizaojiulianjiuleyishenzixin，yushangyouxingqudenanxingziranbuyuanyifangguo。xiaohuijuedezijitingxingyunde，diyigexiangqinduixiangjuranshizijizuixihuandekuan：wenzhibinbin，wukuangyanjing，tantusiwen，luojiqingxi。xiaohuizuixihuanzheizhongsiweiminjietantuyoulideduixiang，ziranyidakaihuaxiazijiushoubuzhule，genduifangkankanertanqilai，huiquzhihouxinxinmanman，meixiangdaodiertiandenglaidequeshinanfangtongguojieshaorenweiwandichuandabuheshidexiaoxi。

 xiaohuihenkunhuo，buzhidaoweishenmezuotianhaigentaliaodehaohaoderen，juranhuijuedetaliangbuheshi，tajuedetingheshidea，zheimeliaodelai，nalibuheshile？daizhezheiyangdexinqing，xiaohuiduihoumiandejichangxiangqinyouxiexingzhiqueque，genrenshuohuameijingeryejuezhezaimeiyudaoxiangdiyigexiangqinduixiangneiyangdenanrenle，ziranhoumianjichangyedouyishibaigaozhong。

 guonianhouxiaohuimamayemeixianxia，yiyouziyuanjiutuijixiaohui，rangtachougeshijianjiangemian，xiaohuigangkaishihaixingzhibobozhunbeichongfen，jingliyicicishibaihou，quekaishiyouxieqiechangle。xiaohuizongjiechulai，nanrenkenengdoubuxihuanaishuohuade。zhichangchizhafengyundexiaohui，zailianaimianqianquehaishigemengdongwuzhideshaonv，youlezheiyangderenzhi，zaixiangqin，xiaohuiziranshixiaoxinyiyi，lianhuadoubuganduoshuole。keshishouxiaoshenwei，xiaohuidexiangqin，yiranmeinengchenggong。

 kandaozheili，henduorenxiangshuoxiaohuiyidingshiyanzhibugou。danqishi，xiaohuizhangdesuiranbushineimejingyan，queyeshixiaojiabiyurerenlianaide，biedebushuo，dandanshibaixidepifuheheiliangdedayanjiuyijingshengguobushaonvqingnianle，neime，daodishiweishenmerangxiaohuidexiangqinlukankebuyilvzhanlvbaini？

qishi，zaixiangqindeguochengzhong，dazhiyousixiangjianfenxiang，huirangnanrentuibisanshe，sixiangruxia：

1 、热情过头，目的性太强，让对方觉得你是一个结婚狂

 xuanzexiangqindenannv，henduodoushijiyuqiucheng，xiangyaoshenglvezizhurenshilianaidebufen，zhijiedadaojiehundemude。nvxingtaiguoreqingyinqie，huirangnanrenjuedenikenengshigekongbudejiehunkuang。

2 、太拘谨放不开，不懂得展示自己，让整个约会死气沉沉

 zaiyuehuiguochengzhongxiandetaiguojinshenxiaoxin，wanquanbudongdezhanshizijiyoudiandenvren，henrongyirangzhenggeyuehuixiandejixieyouwuqu，haowulequkeyan，zheiyangdefenweizhihuirangduifangxiangyaojinzaojieshuyuehui，chenggongshenmedejiubieshuole。

3 、习惯先入为主，一旦不满意对方的第一印象就开始心不在焉地约会

 henduonvshengtebiezaiyidiyiyinxiang，yinweidiyiyandebujiaganjuejiufoudinglezhengciyuehui，xianruweizhu，duixiangqinduixiangguozaoxiajielunkebushishenmehaoxiguan，zheiyanghenrongyicuoshijizijiheduifangyigeshenrulejiebicidejihui。

4 、故作清高，喜欢高高在上端着架子故作矜持

 henduonvxingxiangqindeshihouzongxihuanbaijiazi，xiandezijigaorenyidengdemoyang，maodundeshi，jishiruciqinggao，quehaishiyuanyilaixiangqin。qishi，qinaide，meiyourenqiannide，xiangqinbenlaijiushiyichangniqingwoyuandeboyi，chengle，jiedahuanxi，baile，neijiujianghubujian。jirandouxuanzelexiangqin，neijiugaifangxiashenduan，paoqineigaisidejinchi，zheizhihuirangduifanggengkuaidifoudingzheicixiangqin。

 congshangshudejianfenxianglaikanxiaohuideshiqing，shibushijuedexiaohuixiangqinshibaizheijianshiqishiyebushineimenanyilijiele？xiaohuizheiduanshijiandexiangqin，yijingchufanlesangejianfenxiang，guore，guoshen，xinbuzaiyan。

 shouhuoganqingburongyi，tongguoxiangqinshouhuoganqinggengburongyi，suoyiqishiyinggaibaochijiankangxintai，yizuiwanmeidezhuangtaiyingjiexindeganqing，shouhuoyifenshuyuzijideai。