怎样做才能成为石头男的女神？

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　　1. 应对厚重的发觉

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　　2. 探索真相决心

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　　3. 真诚沟通的意义

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　　4. 寻找技术专业支持和鼓励

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　　5. 自我反思与彻底改变

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　　6. 再次拉近关系或离去挑选

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　　7. 自身恢复与新的起点

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