花镇精选：如何正确提供价值维持长久情感关系？

　　nanrenweishenmehuichuguini?yuanyinyounaxie?，weilenengrushifanyingnanrenzenmehuichuguijiqichuguidezhuyaoyuanyin，benwentaoluntongguofenxiqibeihoudexinlizhuangtaidongji、shejiaoguanxi、gerenxuqiudengduogefangmianyaosu，bingtongguozheizhongcengmianjiduzhetigongyigeshenrudelejie，bangwomengenghaodilejienanrenchuguideqingkuang。

　　1. 满足欲望和神秘感：duiyuyouxienanreneryan，zaizhangqihunyinshenghuohuoxiangduiwendingdeguanxizhong，takenenghuiqipandedaoyigexindecijixingbingmanzuyigexindechongdong。chuguijianghuichengweiyizhongxunqiulequdefangfa，yishiyingtamenneixinduitanxianhefangsongdexiangwang。

　　2. 自我肯定和自尊：yixienanrenkeyitongguoyuqitanvshichuangjianguanxilaixunqiuziwokendingbingmanzuzizun。tamenxiangdedaogengduoguanzhu、zanyanghejuedezijideyouhuoli，zheileiziwokendingganzaichuguizhongdedaodadao。

　　3. 社会思想和生存压力：shehuifazhanduinanrenderenwujiaoseheqidaiwangwangshiqianghan、lengkuwuqingde，yaotamenzhanshichuxiaonanzihanxingxiang。duiyuyixienanreneryan，chuguihenyoukenengshiyizhongtaobishehuiyalifangfa，rangtamenhaiyoujihuitaochujushu，zhonghuoziyoubingmanzu。

　　4. 婚姻生活/关系难题：suiranchuguidezhizebukechediguiyinyuairen，daneryixienanrenchuguishizheixierenzaihunyinshenghuo/guanxizhongpengjianlenanti。hunyinlidequeshaogoutong、fuqishenghuodebupingheng、qianquegongtongdemubiaodengduozhongyinsuhenyoukenengcujinnanrenxunqiubierendeanweidadao。

　　5. 本人心理健康问题：yixienanrenkenenghuiyouxinlijiankangwenti，liruqingxukumen、meifakezhiyuwanghuoziworentongkunjingdeng，gezhongwentikenengzaochengtamenbujihouguodixunqiuwaibudadao。

　　6. 引诱和机遇：nanrenchuguiyeyoukenengshitamenmianlinyinyouhejiyu。dangtashenbianfashengyinrenzhumuderenerqiehaiyoujihuihetamenchuangjianguanxishi，tamenhenyoukenenghuishenxianchuguidenitan，meifadiyuyouhuo。

　　7. 自我掌控和使命感：youyixienanrenchuguijiushiyinweitamenbingmeiyouweizijidexingweichengdan，qianqueziwodiaokongheshiminggan。tamenyexumeiyishidaochuguiduilingyibanyujiatingdailaideshanghai，huoshitamenduizheizhongbuliangyingxiangbuzaihu。

　　nanrenweishenmehuichuguini?yuanyinyounaxie?，nanrenchuguideyuanyinshiyinweigezhonggeyangde，meiyigeziwodezhuangkuangyeshibuyiyangde。zhangwozheixieyinsunengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejienanrenchuguideqingkuang，jiqizenyangtongguogoutongjiaoliu、lajinguanxibingmanzubicizhijiandeqingkuanglaiweichishenxinjiankangxiangduiwendingdeguanxi。yucitongshi，nanrenyeyaoziwofansihechulizishenwenti，yitigaoziwoyueshunengliheshiminggan，congerjianshaochuguidechansheng。