冷爱观点：情绪价值在恋爱关系中的重要性

　　nvrenchuguiduinanrendeshanghaishiyizhongshenkexinliyinying，tabudanzaijingshenshangrangnanrenjuedebeipanheshiwang，gengweiguanjiandeshiduinanrenzizunxinhexinrenxingchenglezhimingxingdeyanlidaji。zheixiesunhaibudanxianyuganqingzhongdetongchu，haihuidaozhinanrenduizijidejiazhidezhiyiheduiyuweilaiguanlianweizhidekongju。nvrenchuguibujinjinshiyizhonggerenxingwei，yeshiduinanrenxinlingshenchudesunhai，bixushijianhejinglizhiyuhefujianxinren。

　　心疼选择：接受不了的背叛

　　nvrenchuguiduinanrenlaijiang，shiyizhongwufajieshoudebeipangerenxingwei。dangtafaxianzijishenaidenvrenbeipanlehunyin、shanghaidaoaiqing，xinzhongdetongkuwufayanyu。taganjuebeiqipian、beiyiqi，meiyigexinrenheyuedingdouhuazuoyunwu，yiqiedouyuelaiyuexuwupiaomiao。zheileixintengxuanze，shitaxianrucongweiyouguodetongkuhechenmowuyan。

　　自尊心坠落：人格特质和意义的否认

　　nvrenchuguiduinanrendeshanghaiyuanyuanbuzhiyuqingganshangdeliekai，shencengcideyinggaishitazizunxinhezixincanhai。tahuizhujianzhiyizijifengcai、yingxiangliheshiyongjiazhi，ganjuezijibunengmanzulingyifangdexuyao，yizhongnongliedezibeixinliyiyuyanbiao。tadeshenfenrentongzaoshouhuaiyi，xinlimimanzheshiluoganhebugan。

　　信任坍塌：黑影深深地悬架

　　nvrenchuguijinanrenzaochengdeshanghaizhuyaotixianzaiduiyuweilaiguanlianweizhidekongju。dangxinrenyicicibeibeipan，nanrennanyizaicixiangganqinghehunyinxinhuaiqidai。fushangdeneixinhaosiposuideboli，wufaxiubu。meiyicizhuiyiyusikaodourangrengandaotongchu，ruhezhongxinjianlixinrenbianchengtaneixindemingandedifang。

　　复建自身：治愈和从头开始

　　jinguannvrenchuguiduinanrendeshanghaijida，danzhiyuyufujianzishenshichizaodeshiquanguocheng。nanrenbixujieshoubingchulizijidexinqing，shifangchulaineixinshenchudetongkuhenaonu。ciwai，jianlizhongduanruanjian、xunzhaoxinlishudaohuocanyuhunyinzixunyeshifeichangzhongyaodefangshi。genjuqingtu、jieshouyulijie，nanrenkeyimanmanbaituotongkuyinying，bingzhongshiziyidezizunhezixin。

　　婚姻重构：建立一个新的桥梁

　　jinguannvrenchuguiduinanrendaozhilejidasunhai，danzheibingbuyiweizhehunyindejieshu。yiduanhunyindezhonggoubixubicizhijiandeqinfenhegoutong，suirantongkuwufamochu，danshitongguozhenchenghexianghuzhichi，nanrenyunvrenhaiyoujihuizaicijianliqihunyinlideqiaoliang。zaijiaoliuzhong，biciyaobaochiduiwaikaifangxinlizhuangtai，lingtingduifangzhenshitiyan，binggongtongfendouxiubuhunyindeliefeng。

　　自我提升：恢复后的新生

　　suirannvrenchuguiduinanrendaozhilejidasunhai，danyenengchengweiyigeziwotishengdehaojihui。kunjingzhong，nanrennenggoufanshengziji，zaicizuohuizijijiazhiheshijiyiyi。tanengtongguochongshiziwo、fazhanxingquaihaohetigaojineng，shizijigengjiachuse，jianliqigengweiwanshandulideneizai。zaihuifuhou，nanrenbianyizhanxindemianmaoquyingjie，zaicizhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。