面对老公出轨，四招挽回老公的心

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde？zheishiyigebeishouzhumudehuatitaolun。zaibiaomianshang，tamenyoukenengshiwenxindejiaren，danneixinquexianrumimanghemaodun。tamenqipanxinxianganhecijixing，queyoudanxinsunhaihunyinguanxi。zheizhongxintaifenzajingchangyoubunengmanzudejingshenxuqiuyuziwotanyusuotuidong。tamenwangwangchangshimibuneixindekumen，xunqiureqinghezanyang，danquehulvelezhenzhengyiyishangdeaiyuzhongchengqijiazhi。zaiyuwanghehouhuimojibianyuanpaihuai，zheizhongnanrendeneixinfanmen，beifuzhezishenzeguaiyuzhengtuo。yiner，zhangwoyuzhichineiyangxinlizhuangtaizhenduiweichihunyinguanxihexunqiujiejuefangfayouweizhongyao。

　　内心的疑惑：寻求神秘感与安定感矛盾

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde，zaidangjinshehui，jingshenchuguichengweileyigejingchangchuxiandeqingkuang。zheixieshenxianzheiyixingweidenanrenzaibierenkanlaiyoukenengshichijiadehaolaogong，danneixinquechenjinyumimanghemaodundangzhong。tamenyifangmianqipanxinxianganhecijixing，lingyifangmianyoubuyuanshiqujiazhongzugoudeanquangan。zheizhongxintaifenzajingchangyoubunengmanzudejingshenxuqiuyuziwotanyusuotuidong。

　　zheizhongnanrenhenyoukenengjuedeshenghuozhongderichangsuosuirangtamenshenxinpibei，zhenduijiatingzhongshiminggandaoyalizhongzhong。takaishixiwangdedaoyigexindedecijijidong，xunqiuduanzanzishenchengjiuganlaipingfuneixindekumen。danshi，tamenbingqieyedanxinyuairenzhongjiansuochanshengdemaodunhesunhai。

　　自我愉悦的贪欲：追寻本人冲动与忽略关联使用价值

　　jingshenchuguinanrenneixindefenzahailaiyuanyuziwoyuyuedetanyu。tamentongchangchangshimibuneixindekumen，xunqiureqinghezanyang，yucitongshihulvelezhenzhengyiyishangdeaiyuzhongchengqijiazhi。tamenqipanzaiguanlianyiwaixunqiuyigexindegailv，zhuixunbenrenneixindeyuwangdadao。zheileitandewuyanxinlizhuangtaiposhitamenchixutansuowaibucijixing，qiebukaolvdaoairenyujiatingdexuqiu。

　　danshi，zheileiduanzanziwoyuyuetongchanghuidailaigengduonantiyutongku。takenenghuihouhuimojitamendexingwei，renshidaozijiduilingyibandaozhilesunhai。neijiuzishenzeguaijingchangchengweiwomenneixinjuewangdeyibufen。zheileizaluandeqingganzhuangtaijinyibujiajuletadeyihuo，buzhidaogairuhejiejuezheileichongtudeyuwangfuzuigan。

　　寻求接受并满足：探索解决方案必要性

　　zhangwoyuzhichijingshenchuguinanrenxinlizhuangtaizhenduiweichihunyinguanxihexunqiujiejuefangfayouweizhongyao。duiyuzheileinanreneryan，xunqiugengzhuanyedezhichihegulizhiguanzhongyao。tamennengtongguoyuxinlizixunshigoutongjiaoliulaitanxuntamenneixindexiangwang，ranhouzhaodaogengjiajiankangbingmanzudefangshiqumanzuzijiyaoqiu。yucitongshi，yuairenjinxingquanfangweidejiaoliuyulijieyeshifeichangzhongyaodeyibu。chuangjianduiwaikaifangyuzunzhongdeduitan，shenrutantaozenmemanzubicizhijiandeguanlianyaoqiu，tishengqinmiwujianlianjie，jinerdajianlaoguerxiangduiwendingdeguanlian。

　　jingshenchuguinanrendexinlishizenyangde，jingshenchuguinanrendexintaishifanzabingqiechongtude。zaifenxitademimanghejuewangdeyucitongshi，womenhaixuyaotixingtamenyishidaolezhenzhengyiyishangdeaiyuzhongchengdebiyaoxing。genjuchulineizaimaodun，chuangjianjiankangyuxiangduiwendingdeguanlian，zheizhongnanrenhaiyoujihuishiqizishen，bingqiezaiyujiatingbanlvguanxizhongxunzhaozhenzhengdekuailebingmanzu。