老师原创：同样是美女，为什么追我的都是花花公子？

　　duichuguinanrendezuijiachulifangshi，zaimianduichuguinanrenshi，dajiaxuyaocaiquzuihaodechulifangshi。zheijiuyiweizhewomenyinggaiyijianjuejiandingbuyidexintaimianduizheiyishiji，erqiecaiyongqiuzhenwushidexingwei。bulunshitiaoxuanzhenchengduihua，shouzhudixian，haishixuanzeleliquzheiduanganqing，womendouyaojinzhuaziyidezunyangerenjiazhi。genjujiandingbuyideweihuzishenquanyiyuqingganshenxinjiankang，womenkeyixiangquanshijiezhengmingzijiwanqiangyudanliang。

　　背叛的苦楚：面对出轨男人的内心挣扎

　　zaiaiqingdeshijieli，beipanshiyizhongrangrenkubukanyandezaoyu。zaiwomenmianduichuguinanrenshi，zijidexinlingchongchizhezhengtuohedanyou。dajiaxianruqingganshangdemijingzhong，buzhidaogairuhejiejuezheiyiqingkuang。danshi，duiyuzheileisunhai，womenbuyinggaiwujikeshi。dajiayidingyaozhaodaozuihaodechulifangshi，zhongxinhuifuziyidezunyankaixin。

　　保持冷静：击败情绪变化的关键所在

　　mianduichuguinanrendebeipan，dajiatongchanghuishenxianqingxudimizhong。naonu、nanguo、xinhandengfuzadeganqinghuijiaozhizaiyiqi，shiwomenwufalengjingfenxi。danshi，baochilengjingshijiejuezheixiewentidezhongyao。zaizheigejieduan，womenyinggaijizijiyixieshizhang，rangwendingqingxuchulai。jiandinglixiangxinnianhelianghaodexintaijianghuichengweidajiajibaiqingxubianhuadedongliyuanquan。

　　重新审视：思考关联的实际外貌

　　mianduichuguinanren，womenyinggaizhongxinshenshiliangrendeguanxi。zheibujinshiduinanrendeneirongjinxingsikao，yeshiduiquanbuguanliandeshijiwaimaokaizhansikao。womenyinggaiwenyixiaziji，zheiduanganqingdaodizhibuzhidewomenzaitouru，shifoumanzuduiyuganqinghezizunxindezhuixun。genjukeguandepingding，dajiakeyigenghaodekanqingxianshi，weizijiderenshengzuochujueceguanlijuece。

　　真诚对话：探寻解决问题机遇

　　zaimianduichuguinanrenshi，zhenchengduihuashiyizhongjiweizhongyaodejiaoliufangshi。jijiyunanrenkaizhanduiwaikaifangerzhenchengduihua，womennengtanxunjiejuewentijiyu。zaiduihuazhong，womenyinggaichuandizijidexiangfaheqidai，erqiezhengqiunanrendemiaoshuhesikao。genjuxianghuzhichihejiaoliu，dajianengzhaodaochulishiqingfangxiang，huoshiquedingshifouyoubiyaokeshouzheiduanganqing。

　　维护保养自尊：守住底线的必要性

　　buguanwomenzuizhongxuanzeleliqushifou，weihuzijizizunshishifenzhongyaode。womenyaokeshouzuorendedixian，burenshouyiqieduiyuwomendeshanghaimieshi。buguanchuguinanrenshibushigaiguozixin，womendouhuilixingdiquedingweilaiderensheng。jinyoujiandingbuyidebaohuhaozijidezizun，cainengzhenzhengdeguozheziyoumeihaodeshenghuo。

　　自身复建：找到新的逐渐

　　mianduichuguinanrendebeipan，dajiaxuzhongxinzhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfuyukuaile。zheishiyigejianxindanbixudequanguocheng。womentongguozhaodaoxindeganqing，zijintourugongzuohuogerenaihaozhongzaicixingchengzijiderichangshenghuo。fujianzijineixinqiangjinghexinxinshidajiazouchuyinying，yinglaimeihaomingtiandeguanjiansuozai。

　　汇总：

　　duichuguinanrendezuijiachulifangshibujinjinzhishijiejuemianqiandejiongjing，yeshiweiledajiazijichengzhanghemeihao。genjubaochilengjing、zhongxinshenshi、zhenchengduihua、weihubaoyangzunyanzishenfujian，womenkeyibaituobeipandejiongjing，zhonggouweilaiderensheng。jilao，buguanzaodaoshenmeyangdebeipan，dajiadouzhidegoumaiwanmeideaiqinghemeihaodeshenghuo。