我怀上了前男友的孩子

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，dangbuduidelaogongchuguishi，qizijingchangxianrujuejing。mianlinhenduofuzadeganqinghemaodun，tamenkenengjuedeshiwang、naonu、wunaihedanyou。tamenbudanxuyaochulineixindetongchu，yebixuyingduibuduijiazhongteshukaoyan，biruzhangqifenlichulai、yangejilvhezerendeng。chulizheigewentideguanjianshigoutongyulingting。qiziliyingyingyongjieshouxianshi，tanxungengzhuanyedehunyinzhidaohezhichi。yucitongshi，zhidingquelizijidedixianhejiexian，weihuzishenquanyi，bingheshouzhidexinlaiderenfenxiangzijikunhuo。qiziyeyingdangsikaobenshen，zhenshiziwochengzhangyudandudefangshi。zongeryanzhi，yingduibuduidelaogongchugui，qizibixujiandingxinnianbingzhudongxunqiujiejuefangfa，yifujianzijiyujiatingxingfu。

　　家庭危机：部队的老公背叛外遇

　　1. 内心深处的剧烈疼痛

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，jiazhongshixuduorenxinlingdeguisu，danshi，dangbuduidelaogongchugui，qizijingchangzaoyuneixinshenchudejulietengtong。tamenderenkebeipanbian，qingxuzaoshouyanzhongsunhai。xinhan、shiwanghexiaochenjiaozhizaiyiqi，qizigandaowulihedanyou。tamendexintaibianhuawuchang，sixuhunluanerkunao。zheishiyiduankunkudejieduan。

　　2. 英勇接受现实

　　zaibuduiyigejiatingdedutechangjingxia，qizibixuyingyongjieshouxianshi。guanjianzaiyububitaobihuohuibiwenti，ershiyinggairenqingta。zhegaihuohulvechuguishijianzhihuizengjiatongkuyukunhuo。qiziyaomianduizijidexinqing，bingyuairenzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu。yuqishuomobuzuosheng，bibushanglingtingduifangdejieshi，quanmianlejieshencengyuanyin，xunqiujiejuewentidefangfa。

　　3. 寻求技术专业支持

　　zaiduidaibuduidelaogongchuguishi，qizikenengjuedeguliwuzhu。zheishixunqiujishuzhuanyezhichihehunyinzhidaoshishifenzhongyaode。jishuzhuanyexinlizixunshinenggoutigongqingxuzhichiheyindao，xiezhuqizijiejuemaodunyuxinlidekuchu。hunyinzhidaohaikeyibangzhufuqiliangrenzaicigoujianqirentonghegoutongjiaoliu。biezaiyouyu，jiandingdimaixiangjishuzhuanyexiezhu，zheiyouzhuyuhunyinweilaidefazhan。

　　4. 建立道德底线和界限

　　qizizaimianduichuguiqingkuangshi，yingdangweihuzishenquanyi，zhidingquelizijidedixianhejiexian。daibiaozhebugairenshouchixubuduandepanbiangerenxingwei。tantaoguanliandegaizao，yiquedingbicibixuzunshoudexingweiguifan。zheibujinyouliyuzhongjianxinren，erqienengweihunyintigongyouzhideqianti。

　　5. 寻求倾吐和支持

　　yingduibuduidelaogongchugui，qizixuyaoyushouxinlaidehaopengyou、qinrenhuohunyinzhidaoshimenfenxiangzijikunhuo。qingtuhexunqiuzhichinenggouhuanjietongchu，yekeyihuodelaiyuanyubierendelijietiyi。zhichiwangluoyushequnyingxiaoyeshiyigebucuodexuanze。heyouxiangjinjingliderengoutongjiaoliu，gongxiangbicizhijiandekuchuyuchengzhang，youliyuqizizhaochugengduodezhichiyuzhihui。

　　6. 对自己成长独立开展思考

　　chuguishijianshitongkudejingli，danshiyeshiyigesisuobenshenhehunyindehaojihui。qizinenggoufanshengzijizaihunyinzhongderenwuyuzeren，bingtanxunyigerendechengzhangdulifangshi。zhuixunxinzhongdemengxiang、chongshiziwo、tishenggerennengliyuziyuan，jiangyouzhuyuqizizaijiatingweijizhongxunzhaoxinlijianqiangzhichi。

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，dangmianduibuduidelaogongchuguishi，qiziwubijiandingxinnian，xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu，bingjijixunzhaojiejuewentijihuafangan。fujianzijiyujiatingxingfuxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，danqizideqipoyuxinxinwuyishigenggaijushideguanjiansuozai。zuihou，genjuzhanshengkunnan、xietongpeihehexiufuxinlai，qizihetadelaogongyouxiwangyitongbaituokunjing，zaicigoujianqixingfumeimandejiatingguanlian。