冷眼观爱：如何建立同理心

　　wulunshifengyanfengyu、shejiaowangluohuoshiwaibudeyouhuo，zheigeshijieshangcongmeiyouguoyifenqiangyoulihetongnenggoubideguo“zuiyouxiaodelaogongchuguibaozhengshu”。zheishiyifenchengnuo，yigenanrenduiganqingzhongshixuxiadenuoyan。zheizebaozhengshuyouzhejiandingdeyizhihegewaidechengxin，zhiliyuweihuhunyinshenghuozhongdechunzhenhelaogu。yikaota，womennengxiangrenmenzhengshi，aikeyibaituoyiqieyinyou，shouweihunyindejishi，jiangwomendeneixinjinmixianglian，yongyongyuanyuan。

　　维护婚姻详细许下的诺言

　　zuiyouxiaodelaogongchuguibaozhengshu，zaizheiyangyigeshunxiwanbiandeshijiezhong，hunyinguanlianmianlingezhonggeyangyinyouhemolian。weileweihuhunyindewanhaoxing，yongyouyifenwufatidaidejingshenzhichiqudongli。zheibianshilaogongchuguibaozhengshu。tashiyizhonghetong，yifenzhengzhongdefuwuchengnuo，zhiliyubaozhenghunyinlianxidechunzhenhelaogu。bulunshireqingdichulianqingrenhuoshizhangjiudehunyin，zheiyifenchuguibaozhengshudoujuyoujijideyiyi。tabujinshiyizhongjiandingdeyizhi，gengjiashiduilingyibansuozuodezhongshengfuwuchengnuo。

　　守卫真爱的坚如磐石

　　hunyinwendingbixulianggerengongtongfendouhexinlaidejishi。laogongchuguibaozhengshubianshiyimianjianrupanshi，baohuzhezhenaidelaogufangyu。taxiangrenmenchuandichuyigejiandanyouhenqianghandexinxineirong：buguanwaibuyudaoshenme，womenjiangzishizhizhongzhongchenghunyinyubanlv。zheiyifenbaozhengshudejingshencaifukeyiranghunyingengwending，weifuqijianchuangzaoyigeanquanxing、anxindehaigang。

　　创建牢不可破情感纽带

　　qingganniudaishihunyinlizuizhongyaodeyihuan。laogongchuguibaozhengshuzaifuqijiangoujianqiyizhonglaobukepolianluo，weiqingganshangdeshenhuafazhantigongbaozhang。zheiyijianluoxuanshengtiandebaozhengshujiangliangrendexinjinmixianglian，shitamenrenweinenggouyiluzoudaoyongyuan。bulunshishenghuosuosuidekunraohuoshiwaibudeyingxiang，zheiyifenbaozhengshudoubeifuzhebicizhijianqingganshangdefuwuchengnuo，shifuqizhijiandeguanliangengweiqinmiwujianhelaogu。

　　鼓励婚姻长久的自信心由来

　　hunyinshiyichangzhangqilvcheng，bixushuangfanggongtongzouguofengyu，qieerbushe。laogongchuguibaozhengshubianchenglenvshidezixinyoulai，rangtamenxiangxinzijitiaoxuanzhengque，hunyinnenggouzhangjiu。zheiyifenbaozhengshujilizhewomenfuqizhijiandexinrenyuzhichi，rangtamengengweinulideququhehuzheiyifenbaoguidehunyin。zixinxindenengliangnenggoukefuyiqiekunnan，ranghunyinzaijuedifengshengzhangqibaochihewanqiang。

　　共同构建幸福婚姻的基石

　　laogongchuguibaozhengshushixingfuhunyinlideyikuailaokaojishi。tadaibiaozhebicizhijiandegongtongfendouheyongqi，goujianqiyigeqianghanerxiangduiwendingderonghe。zheiyifenbaozhengshubujinjinshiduizhongshidebaozhang，gengjiashiziwoyueshuhefanshengdexiangzheng。jinyoulianggerenzaihunyinzhongganshouzheiyifenbaozhengshudenengliang，cainengzuodaozhenzhengchuangzaochuyigexianghulijie、dalizhichiheaixidejiatingfenwei。

　　结束语

　　zuiyouxiaodelaogongchuguibaozhengshu，laogongchuguibaozhengshuyinqijiandingdeyizhihewuqiongdechengxin，shouhuzhehunyindewanzhengxingdangdechunjiexing。zheiyifenfuwuchengnuobujinjinshiduihunyinshiyongjiazhiderenke，gengjiashiduilingyibanaiqingdexiangduigaoduzhongshi。tabeifuzheyiduanaiqingdemengxiangyuxiwang，bianchenglehunyinzhongbukehuoquedeyibufen。buguanwaibudeyinyouzenyang，laogongchuguibaozhengshudoushiaidebicijiandinglixiangxinnian，jianghunyindejishigoujiandegengjiaquanmianhezhangjiu。