老公五十多岁也出轨！

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　　确定同房的时间也：复建信任和沟通平衡

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　　复建信任的一个过程：包容和努力

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　　心理准备的必要性：自我疗愈与接受

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　　交流和的共识：充足表述需求与顾忌

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　　重新开始：重连和幸福创建

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