danliangbushiyushengjulaide,youxierendanqie,danliangxiao,zheiduiyushenghuohegongzuoduoshaohuiyoudianyingxiang。danxiaozenmeban?zheiliyoukefudanqiedeshiyongzhaoshu。
一、怎么克服胆怯
1、树立自信心
danqietuisuoderenwangwangshiquefazixinderen,duizijishifouyounengliwanchengmouxieshiqingbiaoshihuaiyi,jieguokenenghuiyouyuxintaijinzhang、jujinshideyuanbenkeyizuohaodeshiqingnongzaole。tishengzixinshikefudediyibuzhou。
2、了解自己的优缺点
chongfenlejiezijideyoudianhequedian,zhaoxiexiaokapianbatamenfenchengliangzhongyanse,yizhongdaibiaoquedian,yizhongdaibiaoyoudian。meizhangkapianxieyigeyoudianhuoquedian,ranhoujingxiaxinlaipingjiayixiazijidenageyoudianhaimeifahui,zenmequfahui?nagequedianshikeyihulvebujide,bingbazheizhongquediandiudiao。zheiyangzuonijiubuhuiguofenfoudingziji,erqienihuifaxianzijideyoudianbiquedianyaoduo,nengshinijizhongfahuizijideyoudian,kefudiaozijidequedian。
3、不逃避勇敢面对
youjinzhangxianxiangderen,zaishejiaochanghexia,wangwanghuibiaoxianchutaobixintai,haipazijihuichuchouerbuqumiandui。qishi,taobibingbunengxiaochujinzhang,xiangfan,tahuishinigandaozijidenuoruo,shinizebeiziji,yizhixiayicihuigengjiajinzhang。
二、孩子胆小怎么办
1、放手磨炼孩子
jiazhangyaoganyufangshourangzijidehaizizaishenghuozhongdedaoduanlian,qianwanbunengbazijidehaizidangchengxiaobaobao,dongbudongjiushuo“nibuxing”“nihaixiao”zheixiehuayu。nidezheixieyuyanhuijianjieyangchenghaizidanxiaopashidexingge,quefadulidejingshenheyingbiandenengli,yifanlikaifumujiubuzhisuocuo。
zaihaizidechengzhangguochengzhong,shidangdecuozhehemolianshibiyaode,jiazhangqianwanbuyaoboduo,yinggairanghaiziziyouquwanshua,biruhaizixihuanwanniba,nijiubuyaoguantazenmewan,banibaniechengshenmeyang,nijiurangtazijiwan,rangtadulisikao。
2、树立正面的榜样
jingchangjihaizishuoyixieyingxiongrenwudegushi,huozheyoukongdeshihougenhaiziyiqikankanyingxiongdeyingshipian,maiyixiezheifangmiandemanhuashujijihaizi,rangyingxiongdeyanxinglaiqianyimohuadiyingxianghaizi,zheiyangyihouhaizizaichushifangmianjiuhuixuexiyingxiongdejingshen。
tebieshinanhaizi,nanhaiziyibanshizijidefuqinweiouxiang,henchongbaizijidefuqin,suoyizuoweifuqinjiyaoshulihaobangyang,duoyuhaiziyiqiwanshua,yaoshibabameikongdehua,zuoweimamamayeyaogenhaiziduotaolunyixiababa,rangfuqindegaodaxingxiangliuzaihaizidexinzhong,yudaokunnandehaipadeshihou,jiuhuixiangqizijidefuqin,huidandaqilai。
3、放大孩子的闪光点
jiusuandanxiaodehaizi,youshihouyehuiyouyixiedadandejudong,zuoweifumujiuyinggaiyaoqufaxianzheixieshanguangdian,bingjishizuochubiaoyangheguli。duiyuhaizideweisuoxingwei,buyaosuochutaiqiangliedefanying,biruhenduojiazhangzaihaizibuganhuahuati、tiaobengchuang、shuohuashengyintaixiaodeshihou,jingchangjiuhuihuomaosanzhang,shenzhihainaqitahaohaizidebiaoxianlaimazijidehaizi。
4、训练孩子锻炼胆量
duiyudanxiaodehaizi,jiazhangyekeyishidangdijinxingxunlian,birushuoweilenengranghaizizaikerenmianqianganshuohua,jiushixianjiaotajijuhua,zhunbeihaochashui,tiqianyanlianyixia,dengdaokerendaolaideshihou,jiugulihaiziyongganquzuo,dedaokerendebiaoyangle,tajiujuedeqishimeishenmedabulede,xinlijiuhuimanmanzixinqilai,yihouzaiyoukerendaolaideshihou,jiunengdadanyingchoule。
只要你鼓励孩子走出第一步,并及时肯定,接下来的第二步、第三步就好办了,所以有必要对胆小的孩子进行正确的训练。
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