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一、父母对孩子的爱你留意了吗
1、父母眼里你永远是个孩子
fumudeaishiyizhibanidanghaizi,kenengzaifumuyanzhong,womenmeigerendoushiyongyuanshizhangbudadehaizi,yongyuanbuchengshu、yongyuanxuyaobeizhaogu,zheihuoxujiushifumuzhiaizuishenkedehanyile。jugezuichangjiandelizi,yinweinixihuanderenlinijiayuan,fumujiubutongyinimen,liyouwufeijiuliangge:paniyuanjiachikui;palaiwangbubianzhaogubushangni,bingshitushuofunijiuzaibendizhaogerenjiehun,jiuzaitamenyanpizidixiashenghuo。
jiuqiyuanyin,qishijiushiwuzhihongde“juying”lilunzhongshuode:wulunniduodanianji,zaifumuyanli,niyongyuanshigeyinger、yongyuanzhangbuda、yongyuanxuyaozhaogu。
2、父母帮不上们其实他们很伤心
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fumuzhishiwomendeyibufen,womenqueshifumudequanbu。womenkenengyilaiwuzhi、shiye、lixiang、aiqingheshenghuo,dandaduoshufumu,zinvshizhichengtamendeweiyiliyou。
fumuzaoyixiguanle100%defuchu,zaoyixiguanlenideyilaihechongbai。hurannayitian,nichibangyingle、gaofeiyuanzoule,fumuzaiyebangbudaonile,tamenchulexinwei,gengduodeshishiluo、wulihemimang。
3、享受父母的爱
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erxuehuijieshou、leyuxiangshoufumudeai,zheicaishixintaicengmianmiaobukeyandezuijiaxiaoshunfangshi。xinhuaiganendishidangkenlao、kenwanyouyiqiaomiaofangshifanbu,zheiyeshixiaoshundezhengquezishi!tamenhuijiaoaodijuede,haizizhongjiushilibukaiziji。
二、父母的爱这样才对孩子好
1、父母的爱是有所行动
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haodeguanxisaiguoyiqiejiaoyu,zaihaizideyounianqi,yaojihaizijinkenengduodepeiban,peiyanglianghaodeqinziguanxi,ranghaizizhidaozijihenzhongyao,henshouguanzhu,zheiyangyouzhuyuxingchengjiankangderenge。
2、父母的爱要懂得适度放任
在这个灵魂相互独立的过程中,父母的责任更大一点。因为孩子在成长的过程中,在社会性的东西进来的过程中,他自己有一个独立的过程,有些东西他喜欢了接受了,有些东西他会拒绝。这样一种态度,他的这种态度的形成在很大程度上是和你的家庭教育有关的。
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