冷眼观爱：男友嫌我保守是为什么呢？

　　weishenmeertaihoulaogongrongyichugui，ertaihou，yigejiatingdeyalifuzaizengjia，fuqizhijiandezhuanzhulitongchanggengduodedoujizhongzaixiaohaishang。yinweidaihaizideyaoqiuzengjia，yubanlvdehudongjiaoliushizhangjiangdi，fuqijiandegoutongyugoutongjiaoliuyeyoukenengshouyingxiang。zheizhongchangjingduiyuyixiebenshenjiuyoucezhongyuwaiyudenanxingeryan，keyitigongyigedaliangyouhuohebiaodaneixindeyuwangjiyu。chucizhiwai，qinmiguanxidehulveheshuligan，yehuidaozhitamenxunzhaozaibiechudedaoganqingdadao。yiner，shenghuoyalidezengjiahefuqijiandeshuliganshizaochengertaihouzhangfufeichangrongyichuguidezhuyaoyuanyinzhiyi。

　　生活压力和负载增加

　　weishenmeertaihoulaogongrongyichugui，ertaidelailin，gengshijiyigejiatingdeyalifuzaizengtianleyicimengliedichongjixing。chukaixuyaogengduojingjifazhankaizhiheewaijinglizhaoguxiaohai，fumuhaiyaoyingduigengduojiawuhuoshiwuguanlihelingsuidejiazhongfenpei。zheileijiawuhuochengdandezengjiakenenghuishifumumenganjuepibeihebuan，zaochengfumiandeqingxu。dangxinliyalihendashi，gerenhenyoukenengzhuanyizhitanxunbiedechurukoulaishifangyali。yeweilaogongfeichangrongyichuguitigongleyigejiyu。

　　精力和时间安排失调

　　zaiertaihou，fumudejingliyibanhuiduoyixiedicezhongyuzhaoguxiaohai，tebieshibijiaoxiaodebaobao。zheishihouyinqifuqizhijiandezhuanzhuliheshijiananpaideshidiao。fumuyehuifaxianzijibunengyougengduodeshijianyukongjianqulejiebanlvdejingshenxuqiu，kenenghuidaozhiheduifangdegoutongyuhudongjiangdi，congerjiazhongaiqingdeshengshu。eryixienanxingmianduineiyangdeqingxukumenheqipan，kenengxunzhaozaiwaitanxunanweidadao，cushichuguidegailvzengjia。

　　亲密关系的忽略和疏离感

　　bansuizheyigejiatingdekuozhang，fuqijiandehunyinguanxitongchangrongyibeihulve。duiyuyixiebenjiucunyoubumanzuganheshuligandenanxingeryan，ertaidelailinkenengjinyibufangdafuqizhijiandejiedi。bijiaoshaodeshizhanghejiyuyulingyibangongdushiguang，henyoukenengjiangdilexianghujiandeaiqinglianxiheyouhaodu。zheileishuliganheqinmiguanxidehulveqiantixia，yixienanxingkenengxunzhaozaibiechudedaoganqingdadao。zheibiantichulezhangfufeichangrongyichuguidehaojihui。

　　对新鲜感和刺激的游戏追寻

　　youyixienanxingzhenduixinxianganhecijixingyongyougenggaoyaoqiu。erhanyoupohuaixingdeertaishengyuguochengyujiatingjidadezhuanxingkenengjianshaopingdanwuqidehunyinshenghuozhongdecijixingyuansu。zheishihou，yixienanxingkenengtansuoxindeqingxutiyanhefangsong。zaiwaimiantanxunqingganyudetanxianhenyoukenengjizijidailaiduanzanxingfenhechengjiugan。danshi，zheileicijideyouxizhuixunbiranhuidaozhilizhihouhuihenxingshanghai，jiganqingdaozhiwufawanhuideliekai。

　　本人经济压力和环境压力

　　ertaidelailinzhenduijiatingjingjiqingkuangyongyoumingxiandeweihai。chulexuyaozengjiayishizhuxingdehuaxiao，yeyoukenenghaixuyaochengdanxiangyingdejiaoyuyuyiliaofeidengfangmianyali。zheizhongewaijingjifudankenengduinanxingdexintaizaochengyidingdechongjixing。zairuciyalizhixia，yixienanxingkenengxunzhaowaibudeanweidadao，cushichuguidegailvzengjia。

　　结束语

　　weishenmeertaihoulaogongrongyichugui，jinguanertaihouzhangfufeichangrongyichuguideqingkuangcunyou，danbushisuoyoujiazhongdoumianlinzhezheizhongqingkuang。baochishentijiankangdefuqiganqing、zhenchengdejiaoliuhexianghuxinrenshijianqingzheixiewentidezhongyao。fuqiliangrenyaogongtongfendou，goujianheweichiyigepingwenrongqiadefuqiguanxi，gongtongmianduishenghuoyaliyutiaozhan。