冷眼观爱：一见钟情是一种怎样的体验？

　　laogonghemeimeichuguilewogaizenmeban，danghuranhuozhizijidelaogongyuqinmeimeizhijianchanshenglebukeraoshudewaiyuguanlianshi，dajiajinbuzhuxianrushenshenditongchudangzhong。duiyuzheiyangdebeipan，dajiabuzhidaoruheyingdui，xinlichongmanzhemimanghebengkui。danshi，xianshishenghuozhongzonghuiyoujiejuedefangfa，bulunshimianduikunjinghuoshixintongdebeipan，womenxuyaodeshiyilihewanqiangdexinliquzhimianwenti，tongshihaiyaoxunzhaowaibudezhichiyujianyi，yicongtoukaishiziyideshenghuo。

　　背叛与复建：再次找回自己的能量

　　laogonghemeimeichuguilewogaizenmeban，yingduizhangfuhemeimeijiandebeipan，dajiaxianruwujinmimanghekunanzhong。zheiyangdeshiqingshiwomengandaowuli，danshiwomenwubixiangxin，jibianjingliguozheizhongbeipan，dajiayirannengzaicizhaohuizijidenengliang。yixiashuyuyixiejutizhidaoyujianyi，bangzhuzijizaineiduanjiankudelvchengzhongfujianziyideshenghuoyuxinli。

　　1. 接受和接受现实

　　danghuozhizhangfuhemeimeidebeipanhou，zuizhongyaodeyibushijieshouheyingduizheigeshishi。jinguanzheiyiguochenghenyoukenengchongchizhetongchufennu，danshizhiyouzhimianwenticainengjinxingzhihaodequanguocheng。xunzhaozhichibinghenizhidexinlaiderengongxiangnideqingxu，zheiyouliyuhuanjieneixindeyali。

　　2. 空出私密空间，独自一人冷静分析

　　zaiqingxubengkuihuojiejueqifendeqingkuangxia，qingxingdedanaotongchangshidajiahaopengyou。jizijiyixieduchudeshizhang，bikaiyushiqingyouguanderenyuhuanjing。zaizheigejieduan，ninengfansiguoquzhijiandeguanxi，bingshenshizijizhenzhenzhengzhengxiangyaodeweilai。zheiyeshizaicizhaohuizijideguanjiansuozai。

　　3. 寻找技术专业指导和支持

　　zheizhongbeipanshifeichangdadexinliyinying，bulunshigerentishenghuoshixiufuxinlai，xunzhaogengzhuanyedezhidaohezhichishishifenzhongyaode。xinlixuezixunshihuohunyinshenghuozixunguwenkeyibangzhunilejiezijidexiangfa，jiejuefuzadeganqing，bingxiezhuniyizhizaijianxindeqingxingxiazuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　4. 昂扬斗志，维护自身的利益

　　qinshenjinglizheizhongbeipan，niyidingyaomingquezishendeliyihejiexian，bingdongdeweihutamen。bulunshizaifalvfaguifangmianhaishirichangshenghuozhong，caiquxiangyingdeliuchengbaozhengzishenquanyihuodeweihu。zheiyangkeyibaohanxunqiufalvyuanzhu，zhongxindiaozhengjingyingqingkuang，baozhengweilaiderenshengkeyimianshouyingxiangdizaici。

　　5. 和别人重新建立支持互联网

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，heqitarenzhongxinjianlizhichihulianwangshishifenzhongyaode。yuqitajinglilexiangjinjingliderengoutongjiaoliu，womenjiangjuedegengweirenzhihezhichi。canyuzhichigongzuozu、tianjiashejiaomeitituanduihuotanxunhudongjiaoliuxiaoqu，yubierenfenxiangzijidexiaogushibingcongtadegongzuojingyanzhongjiquliliang。

　　6. 翻开新的篇章，迈向未来

　　zuihou，dajiabuyaorangzheizhongbeipanjiedingwomendeyisheng。suiranjianxin，danxuehuiyuanliangbingwangjiguoqushiziwotishenghefujiandeguanjiansuozai。fankaixindepianzhang，quyingjiedejiyuhegailv。zaicitanxunzijidexingfu，binghexinlizhenzhenzhengzhengzaihuniderenyiqiqianxing。

　　laogonghemeimeichuguilewogaizenmeban，dangmianduizhangfuhemeimeidebeipanshi，zijidexinlingheqingganjinglilejidadechongji。danshi，yinweiwomenangyangdouzhizaicizhaohuizijidenengliang，tanxunzhichiheyindao，womenkeyimanmanquanyubingcongtoukaishiziyideshenghuo。jinliangjilao，nibingbugudan，bingqiebeipanbingbushinishiyongjiazhidegainian。fujianziyideshenghuo，bingxiangqiantuijin。