冷眼观爱：夸奖男友的话术公式

　　laogongchuguizhixifuyinggaizenmeban，dangzaoyulaogongchuguizhixifudekunraoshi，womenyinggaishenzhongkaolvzenyangtuoshanchuzhizheiyifanzadejiatingweiji。zheiyangdeshiqingbixulixingerlizhitanrandimiandui，shouxianyaoyulingyibanzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，lejieduifangdezhenshitiyanhekanfa。yucitongshi，yudangshirenhunyinguanxiyeyaojieshouxianshi，xunqiujiejuefangfa。chukaineibujiegoujiatingzhuyaochengyuandezhichi，jishuzhuanyezixunguwenhuoqingganzhuanjiadezixunyeshifeichangzhongyaode。genjulingtingbicidexuyao，xunzhaogongpinghemujiejuefangan，caikeyizuidachengdudixiufufujianjiatingchengyuanguanxi。

　　dangmianduilaogongchuguizhixifudekunjingshi，womenyinggaiyilizhiqingxingdexintaiqujiejuezheiyifuzawenti。yixiashuyuyixiefangfayujianyi，keyibangzhujiejueyuchulizheizhongjushi。

　　了解彼此之间的情感和动因

　　laogongchuguizhixifuyinggaizenmeban，zaiduidaizheizhongqingkuangshi，shouxianlejiebicideqingxuhedongyin。laogongchuguihezhixifubeipanbian，doujingliguolejidazaochengdeshanghai。yiner，yubicitanchengxiangjiandeduitanyouweizhongyao。lingtingtadetihui，lejiezijidedongyinhekanfa。zheiyouzhuyuxunzhaojiejuewentitujing。

　　寻找婚姻咨询师及专业指导

　　xiangyaozaizheiyijiannanshikededaojishuzhuanyedezhichi，kaolvdaoxunzhaoyiweishiyidehunyinzixunshijizhuanyezhidao。neiyangdezhuanyerenyuankeyitigongzhonglidejianyiheyindao，xiezhufuqibicigenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuhewentidegenyuan。tahaikeyiweifuqijiyufangfahejiqiaozhuanyonggongju，yibangzhuqizhongjianxinrenhehuifujiatingchengyuanguanxi。

　　复建沟通交流和认可

　　zaiduidaizheiyiwentidehuanjiezhong，fuqibiciwubifujiangoutongjiaoliuherenke。chuangjianzhenchengdeduitan，gongxiangbicizhijiandetiyanheyijian。yucitongshi，caiyongjijizhudongdexingweizhengmingzijichengnuoheyongqi，yizhongjianxinren。zheiyexuxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，keshitongguobuduanjianchibuxiedenuli，fuqiguanliannenggoumanmanhuifuhetigao。

　　设置健康的生活界线和期待

　　zaiduidaizheizhongqingkuangshi，shezhijiankangdeshenghuojiexianheqidaizhiguanzhongyao。fuqibicibixuyitongshangyi，jinyibumingquehuafentamenduilingyifanggerenxingweideqidaijiyaoqiu。yucitongshi，weilenengbimianzaicifashengleisishijian，baozhengfuqishuangfangzunxunzheizhongjiexianheqidai，binggongtongfendouwanchengzheigemubiao。

　　寻求家中支持和倾吐

　　zaizheiyangyigejiannandejieduan，fuqibicihejiatingzhuyaochengyuandezhichishishifenzhongyaode。xunqiujiazhongzhichi，xunzhaonenggouqingtuderen，birubabamama、xiongmei、haopengyoudeng。zheizhongrennengjiyujingshencengmiandezhichiyulijie，bingxiezhufuqibicijianlixindelaogujiatingjiben。

　　解决自己的心情和身心健康

　　zaiduidaifuqiwaiyuzhixifuqingkuangshi，yexuyaogaoduzhongshizijidexinqingheshenxinjiankang。xunqiuzhuanyexinlizixun，canyushenxinjiankangzhichigongzuozu，huoshixunzhaobiedeshiyidefangfaqujiejuezijidexinqingyuyali。jinyoubaochiwendingxinlizhuangtai，cainenggenghaodejiejueyuchulizheizhongkunjing。

　　laogongchuguizhixifuyinggaizenmeban，tongguoshangshusuotigongdefangshihejianyi，dajiakeyigenghaodejiejuelaogongchuguizhixifuwenti。jinguanzheishiyiduanjianxinlvcheng，danshitongguoxianghuxinren、miqiegoutonghebuduannuli，fuqiguanlianyujiatingnenggoufujianbingzhongxindedaojunhenghexingfu。