冷眼观爱：脱单的终极秘密是扩大社交圈

　　laogongmanzubulezijichuguile，danghunyinlichuxianbunengmanzuzishendeqingkuangshi，youderenkenenghuimaixiangchuguidelu。zheizhongzuofayushizhetamenzaimuqianguanxiligandaokongxuhebumanzu。chuguitongchangshiyizhongxunqiudadao、ziworentonggandexingshi，tamenxiwangyonghebierenzhongxinjianliqinmiguanxilaimibuneixinshenchudekongque。zheileipanbianbudanduilingyibanxingchenglesunhai，haidaibiaozhetamenzaiyewufachengshoudangshirenweijianghuishishenghuodangzhongxiangxilingyibanbukeyimanzuzijicunyou。bumanzudeqingganxuqiutongchangshipanbianweifaxingweidedongji，erxiufuhunyinderenkebingmanzujiuxuyaobicigongtongfendou。

　　婚姻不顺心，情绪寻求

　　laogongmanzubulezijichuguile，zaiyiduanhunyinzhong，ruguoganjuezijideyaoqiuwufamanzu，youderenkenenghuimaixiangchuguidelu。zheiyixingweishenhouyunzangzheduihunyinzhongmoufangmianqiangliebumanheqipanhuodegengduodeqingxudadao。danwomenyeyaoqingchu，chuguibingbushichuliwentidehaobanfa，tazhishiyizhongduanzantuolixianshidexingshi。

　　寻求一个新的刺激性与刺疼

　　hunyinlidejiandanzhangqiwendingtongchangshirenchanshengqingganshangdeyanfangan。dangshenghuoyuelaiyuekuzaodanquefareqingshi，dajiaqipanzhaodaoxindecijixing，xiwangkeyizaiciganshounongzhongdeqingxu。chuguichengweileyizhongxunqiuxincijidexingshi，erwangwangyehuidailaiduanzandadaoyushenshendisunhai。

　　坚持自我价值与归属感

　　yixierenmenzaihunyinzhongjuedegerenjiazhiheguishuganbugou，tamenxiwangyonghebierenzhongxinjianliqinmiguanxilaimibuzheileiquekou。zhenduineixiehunyinzhongjuedebeihushihuomishilezijishenfendereneryan，chuguitongchangchengweileyizhongfujiangerenjiazhidejudong。

　　不满足的情感需求与叛变个人行为

　　chuguigerenxingweibeihouchangchangyunzangzhebumanzudeqingganxuqiu。dangairenmeifamanzuzijiqidaiheqipanshi，yixierentiaoxuangenjutanxuntarenlaimibuzheileiquekou。danshi，zheileipanbiangerenxingweibudanduilingyibanxingchenglesunhai，zeyiweizhetamenzaiyewufachengshouairenbukeyimanzuzijicunyou。

　　重建信任与寻求婚姻达到

　　dangchuguifashengdeshihou，airenjianderentonghehunyingenjidoushoudaobijiaoyanzhongdesunhai。neiruguobicixiangyaogongtongfendou，fujianhunyinliderentonghedadaobushibukeneng。zheijiuxuyaokaizhanzhenchengdegoutong，lejieduifangdexuyao，bingtanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。fujianhunyindeluhenyoukenengchongchizhejianku，neiruguobicizhijianzhenxinchengyiqinfen，haikeyiranghunyinzaicirongguanghuanfaguanghui。

　　自我反思与婚姻发展

　　zhenduichanshengchuguideyifangeryan，ziwofansishibukequeshaode。bixushendusikaohelijieduifangweishenmehuitiaoxuanchugui，haiyouzijiduihunyindeqidaiheqipan。hunyinlidejiongjingdoushishuangfanggongtongchengzhangyuyouhuadejiyu，shuangfangnenggoubangzhuxiqujiaoxun，gewaizhenxihetourudaolehunyinzhong。

　　婚姻里的沟通与达到

　　hunyinlidegoutongyudadaoshiweixiguanxidezhongyaojichu。genjuzhenchengdigoutongyulejieduifangdexuyao，fufunenggouchongfenmanzubicizhijiandeqidaiheqipan。erbumanzudeqingganxuqiujiuxuyaobicigongtongfendouqumibuhechuli，yifangzhichuguidechansheng。

　　结束语

　　laogongmanzubulezijichuguile，danghunyinlichuxianbunengmanzuzishendeqingkuangshi，chuguijianghuichengweimouxierendetiaoxuan。danshi，chuguizhishiyishidejiejuefangan，tananyijiejuebenzhiwenti，zhihuijiazhongsunhai。weilenengzhongjianxinrenbingmanzu，fufubixugongtongfendou，kaizhanzhenchenggoutongyuziwofansi，bingtanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。weiyouruci，hunyincaiyoukenengzaicihuanfahuoli，chengweibiciyiqichengzhanghexingfudeyuanquan。