花镇原创：姐弟恋是个雷区

　　laogongchuguiwoyinggaizenme，yingduilaogongchugui，woyinggaizenmekandai？zheishiyigezhuduofushangnvshixinlideyihuo。zaimianduizheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，dajiashouxianyaopingjingxialai，lingtingneixinshenchu，suihoujijixunzhaojiejuewentifangfa。yexukeyitiaoxuanzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，xunzhaoqingganwanhui，yihuozheshilikai。buguanwomenzuochushenmeyangdequeding，zuizhuyaodeshiweihuzijideaiqinghezizun，weizijiderenshengzaicipuzhuanglumian。

　　应对婚姻里的叛变

　　laogongchuguiwoyinggaizenme，panbianshisuoyouhunyinlizuitongkudejinglizhiyi。zaiwomenfajuelaogongchuguishi，renmenchangchangjuedenaonu、nanguo、bengkuihedanyou。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，ruheyingduizheigexianshi，zenyangfujianzijihehunyindeshenmeguanxi？

　　1. 思考与情感上的冷却期

　　zaiwomenyingduilaogongchuguideshishishi，xinlichongmanzheshiwangheyoushang。danshi，chongdongfanyingkenengzaochenggengduosunhai。yiner，womenyinggaiweizijiyiduanshijianlailengjingfenxi。zheiyiduanshijiannenggourangwomenzaijingshenshanglveweiquyuwending，shulizijineixin，bingzuochugengkeguanxingmingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　2. 倾吐和寻找适用

　　zaizheigejiannandeshike，dajiaxuyaorenlailingtingwomenzijidetongchufennu。zheinengshiqinjinhaopengyou、qinren，huoshigengzhuanyedeqingganzhuanjia。gongxiangwomenzijidetihuikeyijianqingxinliyali，tongshiyongyoubierendedalizhichihetiyi。

　　3. 真诚交流和探寻缘故

　　yidandajiapingjingxialai，womenkeyikaolvdaohezhangfukaizhanzhenchengdeduitan。zaizheigehuanjiezhong，womenkeyilejietaweishenmeyaoxuanzewaiyu，shibushichuxianrenhehunyincunzaidewentiyaojiejue。zheileizhenchengdeduitannengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejiebicizhijian，tongshiweihunyindegaizaochuangzaoletiaojian。

　　4. 自我反省和自我医护

　　dangmianduilaogongchuguidebeishangshi，womenhaixuyaofanshengzijizaihunyinzhongderenwuyuzeren。womenkeyisikaowomenshibushihushilehunyinzhongcunzaidewenti，shibushiqianqueguanxinhejiaoliu。chucizhiwai，haixuyaoxuehuizhaoguzijideshentijiankang，zhenshiziwochengzhangyumanzufangshi。

　　5. 作出决策和考虑到将来

　　zuihou，womenyinggaijizijiyuwomendehunyinzuochuguanlijuece。womenkeyikaolvdaoyuanbuyuanyijiyuzhangfudiercijihui，shifouyoukenengfujianbeipanbianderenke。danshi，womenyeyinggaiqueli，dajiayouquanzhuixunxingfudeshenghuoyujiankang。zaizuochujueceshi，womenyinggaiyijuzijidejiazhiyijixuyaolaishensishulv，weizijiderenshengpuzhuangyigexindelumian。

　　复建希望和个人价值

　　laogongchuguiwoyinggaizenme，yingduilaogongchugui，womenyinggaijieshouxianshi，yucitongshiyebiewangji，zaizheigetongkudejinglizhong，dajiayijiushiyoujiazhiyusuiyixuanzederenqun。wulundajiazenmekandai，fujianxiwangyugerenjiazhishishifenzhongyaode。genjuxunzhaoneixindeningjingbingweichijijidexintai，womenkeyimanmanzouchuyinying，zaicizhaodaozijidexingfukuaile。