花镇原创：女生送男友礼物的基本原则

　　laogongzijijiejueshibushichugui，zaiganqingli，zaichuxianyilvhemeiyouxinrenshi，yizhongpubianxiangfashirangzhangfuzixingjiejueshibushichugui。zheiyiniantoutongchangweiraobicizhijiandexinlaijibenjinxing。dangbeizhizeshi，zhangfunengfoujijifuzhuxingdongjiejuezheigewenti？zheishejidaozixinxin、zerenxinhegoutongxiediaonengli。danshi，chulichuguiwentibicigongtongfendou，erbudandanqujueyuyigerendenuli。zaizheiguochengzhong，bicilijieyuzhichicaikeyigoujianqigengweilaoguzhijiandeguanxijiben。

　　zhangfudegerenxingweidaozhileyisiyilv，rangwokaishikaolv，shifouchuguilela？zheigewentirangwoxianruyizhongkunhuodeqingxuzhong。tazonghuihuashijianyuyigetongshigoutongjiaoliu，pinfandefaxinxi，haichangchangyebuguisu。zheizhongzhengzhaorangwogandaojiaolvhejiaolv，wojianjianyiweitashifouyoulewaiyule。

　　担心的情绪

　　woguanchataduiyuwoyuelaiyuebushihenguanzhu，buhuizaixiangzhiqianneiyangguanzhuyutiexin。taduiwodequedianbumingshuo，shenzhiyoushihouyongyumolengliangke，zheiyufajiazhonglewodejiaolv。wochangshiyutagoutongjiaoliu，dantazonghuifuyanleshidishuo，fangfowanquanbuxiangchulizheigewenti。zheiyangdetaidurangwozhujianyiweitashibushizhendechuguile。

　　找线索

　　weilenengmingquezijidecaiyishibushichuangli，wojianjianzhankaidiaocha。wozhuyidaotadeshoujijiesuomimafashengbianhua，youshihoushenzhijiangshoujiliuzaishenbian，congburangwopeng。tajiujingchangshandiaotongxunjiluheduanxiaoxi，zheizhongxingweijinyibujiashenlewodecaiyi。wojianjianqiaoqiaodechaxuntadeshejiaozhanghao，faxianleyixietaheneiyigenvtongshideaimeiguanxipinglun。zheiyiqierangwogengweixinrentachuguidegailv。

　　知难而上

　　yingduizheigewenti，wodasuanyaolaogongzijijiejueshibushichugui。woxuanzelecaiyongwanshandefangfa，zhenchengdiyutajinxingjiaoliu。wotichulewodeyilvhefajue，yutayiqitantaoliangrendeguanxijiqiduiyutadeqidai。woxiwangtayongxinyingduizheigewenti，jichuyigefuzerendehuida。

　　重建信任

　　buguantadehuidazenyang，womendouyinggaiqinfenzhongjianxinrenhezaicigoujianqilaoguzhijiandeguanxi。jiarutachengrenzijidewenti，womenyinggaiyiqimianduibingchuliwenti，tanxunbaituokunjingdebanfa。jiarutafourenchugui，neimewomenyingtongguogengjinmidejiaoliuhechuangjiangengduoxianghuxinrenlaijianshaoyilv。

　　思考与发展

　　zheiyiqinshenjinglirangwoyishidaole，yigejiankangdehunlianguanxikeyijianlizaibicixinrenyuzunzhongdeqiantixia。wulunzuihoujieguoruhe，wohaixiwangcongzhonghuodejingyanjiaoxun，gewaizhenxizijideqingxu，jiqixuehuiziwobaohu。bulunshilaimianduichuguideshishi，huoshimianduiyigebingmeiyouchuguiweilaidefazhan，wojianxinzheidoushiwozijituibiandejiyu。

　　结果

　　laogongzijijiejueshibushichugui，zheigewentikunraozhewo。genjulengjingfenxiheyonggandemiandui，womenjiangzhaodaohuida。buguanzuihoudejieguozenyang，zheiyiqinshenjinglidoushihuirangwogengweiwanqianggengjiachengshu。zuizhongyaodeshi，woxiangxinnizijidepanduanli，weihuzijideqingxu，bingxunzhaozijizhenzhengdekuaile。