冷眼观爱：爱情由俭入奢易 由奢入俭难

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，dangguimifaxianzijizhangfuchuguishi，taqingxuxianeryijian。zaizheiyangyigejiannandeshishikeke，zuoweihaoyouwoshenganrenwujianju。woxiangyirenzhihezhichiweizaiti，yongwennuandehuayuhezhenchengdeshouhou，qinfenbangtazouchuyinying。bulunshilingtingtadetongku，huoshijiyujijizhudongdetiyi，womenjiangzishizhizhongzaitashenpang。genjuhetayiqimianduizheiyikaoyan，wojianxinwomendeganqingyehuigengjiawujianbucui，tayehuimanmanzhongshiguishuyuzijideaiqing。

　　爱和支持：协助闺蜜走出阴影

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，fajueguimidezhangfuchuguishiyigerangrenbeishangdekeguanshishi。zheishi，zuoweiwodehaopengyou，womenyaojiyutaaihezhichi，bangtaduguozheiyiduanjiankudejieduan。dangduiyuzheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，yixiashuyuyixiefangfalaishudaoguimi，bangtazhongshixingfukuaile。

　　1. 聆听她的痛苦

　　dangguimixiangniqingsuduifangdeganshouhebeishangshi，zuizhuyaodeshilingtingta。jiyutachongzukongjianheshijian，rangqibiaodazijixintai。fangzhiqieduanhuochangshichuliwenti，fanershizhenzhenglejieduifangdeganshou。baozhengtazhidaonijiushitakeyiyikaodepengyoumen，erqienihuiyizhizaitashenpangzhichita。

　　2. 给予积极主动的鼓励

　　zaizhengxiangdezhichihegulixia，guimiyoushilizaicixingchengzijiderichangshenghuo。zanyangtayoushiyuzaojiu，rangqitihuidaozishenjiazhi。gentashuobieyinbierendebuzhengqueerbiandiziji。gulitajijizhudongyingjietiaozhan，zhuixunzijideaiqing。

　　3. 给予实质上的协助

　　chukaijingshencengmiandezhichi，womenyekeyitigongyixieshizhishangdexiezhu。bangtashulizijidexinqing，gulitacanjiayixiexinlizhiliaofangfahuoquanweijigoudezhidao。jitazhaodaoyixiefensanzhuyilihuodong，rangqizaicizhaodaoshuyuzijidekuailehexihao。yucitongshi，dajiahainengbangzhutajiejueyixieshenghuozhongdenanti，rubanxinjia、falvzixunfuwudeng。

　　4. 塑造积极主动的个人形象

　　dabufenchuguishijianhuirangshouhairendezizunzaochengjidadeyanlidaji。womenyaoxiezhuguimijianlixindejijizhudongdegerenxingxiang。gulitazhaoguzijishentijiankang，changdaojijizhudongdegerenxingxiang。daitameifadian、meirongdianhuomaidongxi，tigaotadexinxin。erqie，womennenggulitacanjiaxiuxianhuodong，yuqitahaopengyouyiqiduguokuaileshiguang。

　　5. 时时刻刻守候，但维持适当间距

　　zaitaxuyaodeshihou，yaosuishishouhouzaitadeshenbian。jinliangjiyubangzhuhezhichi。danshitongshi，yexuyaojiyutasirenkongjianheshidangjianju。rangtabenrenquedingshenmeshihouhenazhongcengmianshangzaicifuchuganqing。womenyinggaijiyutashijianhejingliquanyuxinsui，erfeijiqiecujintakaishiyiduanxindeganqing。

　　6. 寻找技术专业协助

　　jiaruzhuangkuangyuelaiyuetaifuzahuoguimimeifaziwodiaozheng，womennengqianglietuijiantaxunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu。tongguozhuanyexinlixuezixunshihuoxinlizixunshisuotigongdejishuzhuanyezhidaonenggoubangzhutanenggougenghaodijiejueqinggankunraohefuzaguanxinanti。

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，buguanzenyang，zuoweiguimi，womenyinggaijiyutazuidadeyigezhichiheguli。genjuaiyupeibanlejie，bangtazouchuyinying，bingqieweitadeweilaizaojiuyuelaiyuemeihaodegailv。