laogongbuzaijiawochuguilezenmeban,dangzaoyulaogongbuzaijiashi,nicaifaxianzijixianruchuguideyihuo,buzhidaoruhejiejuezheiyijiankudezhuangkuang。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong,womenjiangyaotaolunchuguidezhuyaoyuanyin,sikaozijideqingxuyaoqiu,tongshitigongyixiejianyi,bangzhuzijiyingduizheiyijiongjing,fujianxinrenhehuifuguanxi。wulunzainali,womendouhuiweizijidexingweichengdan,yongyumianduinantibingxunzhaochulidexingshi。
深陷引诱:一时之错
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思考原因:搜寻内心深处的要求
zaiyeshenrenjingdeyouhuozhong,wojianjiansikaozenmehuitaruzheiyitiaochuguidedaolu。huoxu,zhangfuzhangshijianmeizaijiajilebushaoguduhewuqu,lingwoqipantanxunyizhongnengmibuneixinkongxudechengjiugan。youhuoxu,guanxizhongqueshaolereqinghehudongjiaoliu,lingwohenkuaibeitarenjiyuxinxiancijixingshenshenxiyin。zheishihou,woxuyaorenqingzijineixinyaoqiu,xunzhaojiejuewentifangshi。
接受现实:英勇接纳自己的过失
chuguibingfeijiejuewentifangfa,tafanerhuirangnantigengfuza。rujin,wobudebuyonggandequmianduiziyideguoshi。zhenchengdihezhangfugoutongjiaoliu,gentachengrenzijibuzhengque,biaoshuneixinshenchudehuihenheneijiu。jieshouxianshishiyizhongyongqizhuyaobiaoxian,tabudanshixunzhaokuanronghetigaoguanxi,yeshiweileziwotishenghesikao。
探寻处理:复建信任与修复关系
zairencuodeyucitongshi,woxuyaocaiyongjijizhudongdexingweilaifujianxinrenhehuifuguanxi。zuixian,woshizhongbaochizhenzhihehuoda,yiyantanjuzhizhengmingzijibianhua。cizhi,woxiangtishengyuzhangfuzhijiandehudong,xietongpeihe,tanxungongtongdegerenaihao,tishengbicizhijiandelijieyuxinren。yucitongshi,xunzhaoqingganzhuanjiadezhichiyeshiyigebucuodexuanze,tamenyoujingyanyuzhuanyejineng,nenggouyindaodajiabaituokunjing,zaicigoujianqizhashideguanxijiben。
自我反思:重新思考价值观念与行为规范
cicichuguiyaowoshenkefansheng。woxuyaozhongxinsikaoziyidexingweiguifanhesixiang。shishenmerangwoxuanzefangqiduihunyindezhongxinhefuwuchengnuo?shishenmerangwoganjuechuguishiyigejiejuewentifangfa?woxiangyuzijiduihua,zhaodaocuowudegenbenyuanyin,bingyicixiqujiaoxun。jinyouzaicigoujianqizhengquederenshengguanhexingweiguifan,caiburongyizaidushenxianneiyangdejiongjing。
重构婚姻:坦诚相待,提升关系
zuihou,zhonggouhunyinyeshiwomendegongtongdemubiao。genjuzhencheng、renzhihexianghuxinren,womenkeyizaicigoujianqilaogudeguanxijiben。woyuanyongshizhangyuxingweizhengmingzijidebianhua,yexiwangzhangfunengdaijiwobaoronghexinrendehaojihui。jinyoubicigongtongfendou,hunyincaikeyizaidubengfachuguangxian。
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