冷眼观爱：别过于贪恋对方给予的情绪价值

　　yourentouchang、beipanyumengpian，zheishiyigexiangguanhunyinzhengduogushi。zaiqingganshangdemiwuzhizhong，zheigewentibeimingquetichu：beizhelaogongchuguiyicinengmanyibeizima？womenjiangyaotaolunchuguizhihouyanzangyuhuanghuachengben，jieluchuneileizuichuyouhuodetanxian，jiqijianfuhenyoukenengdedaijiadailaidexinliyali。yuzhixiangbanshizhi，nengfoushizhongruyidibaochihunyin，huoshiyicibeipanjiuzhudingyishengshenfuzheiyimimi？shiwomenshencengciyanjiuwaiyushenhoudekunraohexuanze。

　　一瞬间的迷途

　　hunyindelubingbushiyizhipingzheng，youshihouyinyouhuiqiaoqiaodedaolai，yinqileneiyigerangrenxinlvluanbengdexiangguanwenti：beizhelaogongchuguiyicinengmanyibeizima？zaiyishunjiandemituzhong，shiwomentaolunzheigewentishenhouyinzangzhuduoqingxu、daodeyuxinlishangdezhengtuo。

　　beipanshiyizhongjihuigerenxingwei，queyoushirendebenxingzhongwufadidangyouhuo。dangyinyoulailindeshihou，renmentongchangfangmanjiaobukaolv：jiushixuanzezhongchenghunyin，haishiyicibeipanzhongshizhecijixingdeweidao？zheizhongxintaidezhanzhengjingchangbianchengmitudekaiduan。

　　隐秘的诱惑

　　yubeipanxiangbanshimengpian，zheishiyizhongweileweihuzishenmimisuocaiqudexingwei。chuguiderenzhujianbianzhihuanghua，weizhuangzijiweifanhunyinchengnuodejudong。yucitongshi，tamenyaomianlinneixinshenchudewentigongzuoyali，liangxindeqianzeyuziqiqirendebianbodanxinjiaocuo，manmankunraozhexinlingshenchudeqixidedifang。

　　承受的代价

　　beizhelaogongchuguiyici，henyoukenenghuizaiyishunjianchanshengcijixing，danqisuozaochengdehouguoyoukenengshiwufahushide。chengshishouxinshihunyindezhicheng，ermengpiannaishiwaiqutadejiegoudehuimiezhe。beipandemimikenengshenruhunyindegegelingyu，huihuaixinlai、yinqicaijihedanxin，congerdaozhiqinmiguanxidefenlie。

　　心里涡旋

　　beipanhemengpianbudanshanghaidaohunyin，haiduibeipanzhexinlidaozhilenanyixiangxiangdewaishang。neiyigeshenfumimiderenkendingyouyukuijiu、jiaolvhekongjuerxianruneixinshenchudewoxuan。duiyutameneryan，meiyigeguoqudehuiyidouhuibiandetongchu，meiyigeshixiayuweilaidouyijingbeishenfenxubaosuolongzhaozhe。

　　秘密生命

　　beizhelaogongchuguiyicidemimi，nengfoumanyibeizi？zheigewentibingwudinglun。youyixiemiminenggoubeianzang，beishijiandetuiyisuomochu，danshiyouxiemimiquefangfowenzhuan，riyijuda，zuihoukongzhibule。zaizheiyangyigemimideshengmingli，beipanzhexuyaoyingduiriyichixuzengzhangdefengxianyugongzuoyali。

　　复建与悔恨

　　zhenduibeipanhunyinderenlaishuo，fujianguanliandelubingfeiyishi。chengxin、zhenzhihehuihenshizhonggouqinmiguanxidegenji。beipanzhemodadeyongqi，mianweizijidexingweibingfuzeren，binghebeibeipandelingyibanyiqitanxunfujianhunyindejiejuefangan。zheixuyaoyiduanshijian、nuliyubicizhijiandeshiyong，danbingbushibutaikenengwancheng。

　　紧紧围绕的代价

　　beizhelaogongchuguiyicinengmanyibeizima？buguanzenyanghuiyingzheigewenti，beipanhemengpianzhongjiangchanshengzhongdadebuliangyingxiang。hunyindezhongyaoqiantijiangshoudaosunshang，airenzhijianderentongheqinmiwujianjiangshoushanghai。beipanzheneixinjiangdelekuijiuhetongku。yiner，zaimianduiyinyoushi，shenzhongkaolvbingmingjizheizhongbuliangyingxiang，yexukeyifangzhishenxianzheiyichangmitulidewoxuan。

　　beizhelaogongchuguiyicinengmanyibeizima？zheigewentimeifajiandanhuida。meiyigerendeqingxu、daodeyukuijiudoubuyiyang，zheiqizhongsuoyunhandedaijiayejieranbutong。yiner，buguanxuanyongnazhonglumian，douyaoquanfangmiankaolvdao，bingweizijidexingweichengdan。hunyinshiyigebaoguideqiaoliang，zheiqizhongdekeshouhechengshishouxinhenzhidesisuo。