老公隐瞒婚史 我该和他离婚吗？

　　chuguiduifanglaogongzhaoshangmenlaizenmeban，mianduiwaiyulingyifangdezhangfushangmentaogongdao，womenyaoyizhenchenghelijiedexintaijiejuezheiyijiongjing。zuixian，shencengcifanshengzijiweifaxingweideyuangu，rencuo，tongshixianglingyifangyuzijideairendaoqian。cizhi，baochilengjingyuzunzhong，lingtingbinglejieduifangdeshiwanghesunhai。yucitongshi，jijizhudongxunqiujiejuewentifangfa，keyikaolvyaoyuefuqiliangrenyiqicanjiahunyinzixunjixinlishudao，yixunqiuhuifuhefujianxinrendelujing。zuizhuyaodeshizhangjiudenulihejianchi，genjuzhenzhihegenggaigerenxingwei，xunqiuduifangyuanlianghejianlixindefuqizhijiandexinrenyuaiqing。weiyouruci，cainengzhenzhengdeyitongmianduibingbaituozheizhongjiongjing，weijinhoudefuqiguanxidaxiajianshidejichu。

　　看待出轨的发展心态

　　chuguiduifanglaogongzhaoshangmenlaizenmeban，dajiadeqingxuzaifuqiguanxizhongnanmianhuiyudaoqifu，youshihoushenzhichuxianwaiyudezhuangkuang。dandanglingyifangdezhangfuzhaoshangmenlai，womenyinggaiyichengshuhelixingdexintailaimianduizheiyijiongjing。mianduizheiyangdezhuangkuang，womenyaoyizhenzhihetanchengdexingshimianduiziyideguoshi，bingzhudongcaiquyixieduicelaijiejuewenti，jinerxiufufuqiganqingdepinghenghehemu。

　　思考他们的行为

　　zaimianduilingyifangdezhangfuzhaoshangmenlaishi，shouxianwomenyaobixusikaotamendexingwei，duizishendechuguichengdan。zheibujinshiyizhongziwofansideyigeguocheng，yeshiweiletigaodajiazaichuliwentihoudechengxinheyongqi。womenyaoyishidaozijidebuzhengque，yiquebaolingyifangzhangwodaozijidehuigaizhixinyuneixinshenchudegenggai。weiyouruci，lingyifangcaihuigengjianenggoujieshouwomenzijidedaoqian，bingqieweifujianxinrendakaixinfei。

　　给对方与伴侣道歉

　　daoqianshifujianxinrendezhongyaoyihuan。lijimianduilingyifangyubanlv，dajiayaoyizhenchengdexintaidongxiangtamendaoqian。dandaoqianbudandanshikoukoushengshengdebiaoshu，gengxuyaogenjuxingweilaiyanzhengwomenzijidechengxinziwogaibian。womennengzhidingyixiliejutijihua，yibiaoshidajiabencidaoqiandechengzhixingheyongqi。

　　保持冷静与尊重

　　mianduilingyifangzhangfudeshiwanghesunhai，womenyaobaochilengjingyuzunzhong。suiranduifangdeganshouhenyoukenenghuigengxingfen，danshiwomenbixuyipingjingdexintaiqulingtingyulijietadeqingxu。bubizhengzhihuobianbo，fanershiyingyilizhiqingxingdexintaiquhuifutadehuaiyihechize。zheizhongxingweigengnengtixiandajiaduiyutadezunzhongyuduiwentigaijindezerenxin。

　　寻求婚姻咨询和心理疏导

　　ruguoduifangdezhangfuzhaoshangmenlaiyihou，womennengjijizhudongdixunqiugengzhuanyedehunyinzixunhexinlishudao。zheizhongzixunjizhidaokeyiweiwomentigonggengshenrudeyanjiuhejiejuewentidebanfa。hunyinzixunshinengbangzhuwomenshulixinxu，xunzhaodaozhiwaiyudezhuyaoyuanyin，yucitongshizhengqueyindaodajiazaicigoujianqifuqizhijiandexinren、goutongjiaoliuyuhudong。xinlifudaoshinengbangzhuwomenjiejuezijidexinqing，huanjiexinlideyali，yigengjialianghaodexintaiqumianduijiongjing。

　　长久的努力和坚持

　　huifuhefujianfuqizhijiandexinrenshiyigemanzhangdeguocheng，xuyaodajiazhangjiudenulihejianchi。womenyinggaizhenzhengyiyishanggenggaitamendexingwei，zunxunduilingyibanchengnuo，bingjijizhudongdijiarudaofuqixingshenghuozhong。weiyoutongguozhenzhihejianshoudeqinfen，cainengzhenzhengdemanmanhuifuduifangxinren，bingqieweifuqiganqingdefujiandaxiajianshidejichu。

　　chuguiduifanglaogongzhaoshangmenlaizenmeban，zaimianduiwaiyulingyifangzhangfuzhaoshangmenlaidekunjingshi，womenbuyinggaitaobihuoduobi，fanershiyingyichengshuhelixingdexintaiqumiandui。weiyoutongguozhenxinshiyidaoqian、xingweizhengshi、baochilengjingyuzunzhong、xunqiujishuzhuanyezhidaojiqizhangjiudenulihejianchi，cainengzhenzhengdexiangzhefujianxinrenhexiufufuqiganqingdezongtimubiaomairu。