冷眼观爱：因为内向，我没法敞开心扉接受任何人

　　jielulaogongchuguidezhengzhao15tiao，benwencongjihuidejiexianjiechuxiashou，shenrufenxibuyiyangdezhengzhaoheanjianxiansuo。zheizhongzhengzhaohenyoukenengcunzaigerenxingwei、yancihexintaibianhuazhong，tongguofenxihedangxinzheizhongzhengzhao，womenkeyigengyouxiaodifenbianairenshifoucunzaiwaiyuquxiang。jinyouzhangwocunzaidewenti，cainengzhenzhengdelijicaiquyouxiaocuoshi，baohujiatinghemuhegerenxingfu。

　　tansuohunyinlideanchao zhengzhaojielushiqing

　　1. 交际圈的增长

　　laogongchuguidezhengzhao15tiao，bansuizhelaogongwaiyukenengyoudeyaoqiuhexingquaihaodegaibian，tajiukaishijingchangcanyuxiuxianhuodong，bingzengjiazijidejiaojiquan。

　　2. 与男生的亲近

　　niliuyidaolaogongyumouxieyixingjingchangxiangchu，danzheizhongchupenghaoxiangyuanyuanchaoguoleyibanyouqingdefanwei，kenengshigezhengzhao。

　　3. 缺失责任感

　　laogonghuranduiyujiatinggangweizhizebuhuizaiyongxin，duijiatingwentibuwenbuwen，zheiyexuxianxianchutadexinsizaoyizhuanyizhiqitadifang。

　　4. 外出经常且神密

　　changchangjingchangxingqiewaichuqianquequelianpaihejieshi，laogongjinihuifumohubuqinghuoshanshuoqici。

　　5. 平常冷淡淡定从容

　　heguoquduibi，laogongduinizhanshichulengmodexintai，qianquegoutongjiaoliuhehuxiangdiaokan。

　　6. 忽然改变容貌和形象

　　laogongchuxianyiwaigaibianchuanyifengge、shejifaxing、yundongjianshenhuoshiyongyigexindedanxiangshuideng，zheikenengshizhuzhongziyidexinfengmaolaixiyinbieren。

　　7. 手机的使用信息保密

　　laogongzainiyanqianjingchangyinzangshouji，qingchutongxunjiluheliaotianxinxi，biaomingchusimideguoduniai。

　　8. 经济发展花费的很大变化

　　huranchuxianqiancaidaliangliushihuohuaxiao，danshiqueweizhaodaohenmingquedebiaoshuhuokexuedejieshi。

　　9. 夫妻生活的改变

　　laogongzaifuqishenghuofangmiandebiaoxianchuhenmingxiandegaibian，kenengshigongzuopinlvjiangdi、fangfazhuanbianhuozheduixingshenghuomanmanshuyuan。

　　10. 无端加班加点或过夜外宿

　　wuduanjingchangshangyebanhuoguoyewaisu，bunengtigongkexuedejieshihuoheniweichiwuyingoutongjiaoliu。

　　11. 暧昧短消息和电子邮箱

　　fajuelaogongyubierenjiandebiaobaiduanxinhuodianziyoujian，yingyongmolengliangke、jueryixingdebiaoda。

　　12. 爱惜物件的改变

　　laogongzhujianguoduguanxinheaixiteshuwujian，rushoujishang、qianjiahuoqichehe，kenengshiweilenengyanzangyixieyinhen。

　　13. 不合理谎话和托词

　　laogongzhujianjingchangsahuang，xugouguaiyideliyoulaimiaoshutadexingjiyuxingwei。

　　14. 情感距离与冷淡

　　nitihuidaoyulaogongjiandeganqingjianjubianxiao，taduinideguanzhutiexinmingxianjiangdi，zuiwennuandehunyinguanxizhujianliekai。

　　15. 判断力和第六感的警告

　　hunyinlidepanduanlihediliuganduinishuo，laogonghenyoukenengyijingwaiyu，suiranqianquequezaozhengju，danshizheishixuyaokaolvdezhuyaozhengzhao。

　　laogongchuguidezhengzhao15tiao，genjuduizheizhongzhengzhaodefenxiyusikao，ninenggenghaodilejielaogonghenyoukenengwaiyudegailv，binglijifuzhuxingdongqusikaowenti、quebaozijidequanyiyuweihuhunyinshenghuodepingwen。