冷眼观爱：用“社交突破法”培养更多的可发展对象

　　laogongchuguikanyetizenmekan，dangmianduilaogongchuguizheiyinantishi，yexuwomenkeyishiyongyetidetexingshenrusikao。yetiyouzhitedingtexing，liutongxingshizhizhuomobuding，erqingxiduqueyoukejieluneizaishiqing。yiyang，danglaogongchuguishi，womenkeyizixiguanchatayantanjuzhidegaibian，jiyudajiazhijiandegoutongshibushishunchangyuquantouming，laichajuechutadechuguixingwei。yexu，cankaoyetidetediankeyibangzhuwomengengzhunquedikanchuanlaogongchuguidezhengzhao。

　　藏匿的真相

　　laogongchuguikanyetizenmekan，zaihunyinzhong，danglaogongchuguichengweidajiabuyuanmianduideshishishi，renmenchangchangcaiyihebuan，xiangzhaodaoyizhongfangfaqufaxiantachuguixingwei。yexu，womenkeyiyikaoyetidetedianqukandaizheizhongqingkuang。

　　流动欺骗

　　yetideliutongxingcushitamenjubeibianhuamocedetezheng，erlaogongchuguiyechangzangnizaigeleiyanzangshenhou。womenkeyiconglaogongdeyantanjuzhizhongzhaodaoweixiaodezhuanbian，guanchaduifangshifoupinfandebikaishiye、buyaohedajiazaochenglijijiechu，zheikenengshitachangshiyanshizijidongyin。yiyang，yetibiaomianyoushihouyehuizaochengxiweideqifu，duiyingdaohunyinzhong，laogongkenenghuizaisahuangshifashengjieba、yanshenshanshuodenganjianxiansuo，zheizhongxiweidongzuoyexunengjieluchutadechuguixingwei。

　　透明色诚信

　　yetideqingxiduweiwomentigongledongxineizaijiyu。zaihunyinzhong，nengtongguogoutongjiaoliulaiyanzhengtadechengxindu。jiarulaogongduiyuwomendetiwenhuidafuyanleshi，shanshuoqici，neikenengbiaomingtazhengniezaoshishi。erfanguolai，jiarutaxiangyaozhenchengdihedajiagoutongjiaoliu，jiyutiaoliqingxidemiaoshu，neiyanghuoxubingmeishenmekecaijidedifang。

　　结合的手感

　　yetizaijinyibujiagongguochengzhongjingchangyuqitahuaxuewuzhironghezaiyiqi，chanshengxindehuaxuewuzhi。zaihunyinzhong，womenkeyishizheyulaogongkaizhangengshenrudejiaoliu，genjugongtongdegerenaihao、gongtongmubiaohesixianglaitigaofuqijiandeqinmigan。jiarulaogongduiyucishimeishenmexingquhuozheyuwomenjianxingjianyuan，huoxukeyikanzuotazaixunzhaoyutarenqingxujiehe。

　　液体的分离

　　yetizaiteshutiaojianxianenggoufenlichubuyiyangchengfen，erlaogongchuguiyehuidaozhifuqijiandefenli。womenkeyizhuyilaogongshibushipinfandeyuelaiyueshengshu、duigoutongjiaoliubierbujian，zheiyinggaishizaiwaibianzhuiqiuleqitadeqinggandejituo。yucitongshi，womenhaikeyizixiguanchazijidexiangfaheqingganlaipandinghunyinzhongshibushicunzailiefeng，jinerjinzaofangfanfenlidechansheng。

　　得出结果

　　laogongchuguikanyetizenmekan，jinguanyetiyulaogongchuguizhongjiancongweiyouguolijideguanlian，danwomenkeyicongyetidetexingzhonghuoquyixieqidiyusikao。genjuzhuyilaogongyantanjuzhidegaibian、tuidongchengxindejiaoliu、tishengaiqingdejiehejiqijingtihunyindefenli，dajiahuoxukeyigengweiminruidifajuelaogongchuguidezhengzhao，weilezuochushidujiejuecuoshihequeding。zhongjiu，hunyinlidechuguishiyichangmengliedeyetihuaxuebianhua，womenyinggaizaizheilizhaodaoxiangduiwendingdejunhengdian，weichihunyinwendinghemeihao。