恢复破裂婚姻

 jiurumayilisuoshuo，lianaisuiyi，hunyinbuyi，qiexingqiezhenxi。hunqiandexingshenghuomohulelianaihehunyindejiexian，danshiliangzhehaishiyouzhemingxiandebutong。congzhuguangmeiguibianchengchaimiyouyanguowanpiaopendepingdanhewuqu，conglianggerentianmiwenxindeshijiedaosangejiatingdeweihu，duozhongdeshehuijiaosechangchangrangnimenfenxin，shuhuduibicijishideguanxin，yizhiyurangaiqingdefangxiangyuelaiyuedan，congeryinfawentibuduan。

 yincidangnikaishichajuedaonimenzhijianburucongqian，fachouruhewanhuihunyindeshihou，bufangtingtingwanhuixueyuandaoshimendeyijianhejianyi。

1.控制好自身情绪

 henduorenzaifaxianhunyincunzaiwentihuoyudaoganqingweijideshihou，zongshijiaozaobuan，jiyuniuzhuanxingshi，congerhulveleweijideshashangli，zuochuxuduoguojidexingwei，heliaoxiaxuduopianjideyanyu，baqingkuangnongdegengjiananyishoushi。suoyibuyaojizheyicimianduimiandetanhuajiunengbawentijiejue，buyaoyiweizijitaodaoshuofajiunengjiejuewenti。yueshizheizhongshihou，yuexuyaonaixinhelengjing，cainengbimianchucuo，bawentijihua。

2.不依赖冷战

 bushaofuqizongxiguanzaizhengchaoguohouxuanzelengzhan，huozhegechuyidi，yihuoquqingxuhuanchongshijian，yiweizheiyangkeyipumiezhanhuo，xiufujumian。shubuzhizheiyangzhishizaitaobiwentidecunzai，gengshizaijiazhongwentidemanyanqi，duiliangrenguanxiyiduanxiufubangzhudoumeiyou。yinci，napaganggangchangmiannaodeyouduojiang，shuangfangqingxulengjingxialaihou，douyaozhenxishijian，jishiderangbuhegoutong，bawentizaidangxiajiejuediao，erbuyiliu。

3.正确的开展危机评估

 zaizuoweijipinggudeshihou，shouxianyaoyishidao，meiyou100fendelingyiban，zhiyou50fendelianggeren。meiyourendehunyindoushishiquanshimeide，zhiyouyiqinulicainengshizhigengmeihao。yincibuyaoyinweiyiciweijihuozheshigoutongshangcunzainandian，jiufoujueduifang，foujuezheiduanhunyin。ershiyaolizhidekandaiwenti，kaolvqisuofanyingdebenzhiwentishishenme？zijisuonengbaorongdejixianyoushishenme？nengbazheigewentijiejuedekenengxingyouduoda？dengdenghou，zaizuochunidepinggujueding。

4.正确使用换位思考

 yueshizaibiciduizhideshihou，womenyueshihuiguanxingdezhanzaizijijiaoduchufa，kaolvzijidesuodesuoshi，neixindeganshou，shenzhishicongzijideshijiaoquchuaiceduifangdexiangfahexingwei，ranhouduiqijiayibiaoqian。danzheibingfeishizhengquedehuanweisikao。shishishang，duifangbuzhiqing，yebingmeiyousilvzheimeduo，youzheimeduodexiangfa。huanweisikaodeyongyishizaiyuni，congzijideshijiaozhongtiaochulai，gengkeguandekandainimenzhijiandexiangchu，congerdadaogengjialijieduifanghebaorongduifangdexiaoguo。