冷眼观爱：和男友相处久了感觉自己越来越不自信

　　laogongchuguizijimeimei，zaizheiyangyigebuxingyiyangdegushili，yigenvrenfajuerangtashenshoudajideshishi：tashenaidelaogongjuranbeipanta，tongshimubiaojuranjiushitaqinmeimei。zheileiwaiyubeipanrangtadexinshunjianbengkui，tabuzhidaogairuheduiyuzheiyangdebeipanyutongku。quanbujiatingsuoyibeiwushengwuxisipo，qinqingyuaiqingdejiexianyuelaiyuemomohuhu。zheigegushizhongchangzhanxianchudetongku、shanghaibukewanhuifensui，rangrenxixubuyi。

　　背叛家庭的汹涌

　　laogongchuguizijimeimei，　　womenzijidejiangshudeshiyigehaoxiangputongxingfukuailedejiatingzhong。danshi，maijinzheixiekansiningjingbiaomianzhixia，queyunzangzheyiduanlingrenchijingdeyinmi。neigebeixianghuxinrendelaogong，juranbeipanletazuiqinjinderenzhiyi─qizidemeimei。

　　家人之间的联系

　　　　hunyinshenghuo，beichengzuoliangrenxinlingshenchudemiqiexiangrong。danshi，zheiyijiatingdejiegouguanlianquegengjiadanxinfanza。qiziyulaogongdemeimeimiqielianxi，jiejueairendemaodun，queweicengxiangdaozheiyiguanlianjingchenglezuiweizhimingdefabingyuanyin。qinqingyuaiqingdejiaocuo，jishizheiyijiatingqianghandenianheji，youbianchenglebaituobuledeqiulao。

　　寻找事实真相痛苦

　　　　dangqiziyishidaolelaogongdebeipanshi，taxianrufeichangdadetongkuzhong。tawufaxiangxinzheigeshishi，doubuganjieshouzheizhongcankudezhenxiang。yiner，tajiukaishixunzhaozhijiezhengju，changshijiekaizheiyijiatingxiongyongbeihouzhenxiang。danmeiyicidexunmi，doulingtaxintongyici。zheitongkulvcheng，bujinjinshiduilaogongdebeipandejiekai，yeshiduizishenmeimeidebeipandejieshoubule。

　　破损的家庭

　　　　zheiyilingrenhaipadeyinmimanmanbeijiekai，rangjiatingxianrucuihuibianyuan。fuqijiandexinlaiyishunjianfenbenglixi，aiqingyuqinqingdeqiaoliangbeisipodeqianchuangbaikong。qiziduilaogongdeshiwanghexinhan，yuqinmeimeidebeipanhuxiangjiaocuo，cushitabuzhigairuhechengdanzheijidaxinliyali。erlaogonghemeimeizemianlinkuijiuhehouhuicuican，tamenzhengzhazaizizewukenaihedebianyan。quanbujiatingyinweizheibukeraoshudebeipanertubengwajie，jiatingzuyuanxianghuguanxiwufazaihuifuzhengchangcongqiandeyangzi。

　　复建与宽容的实践探索

　　　　mianduizheiyangdetongkudebeipan，jiatingzuyuanzhujianmianlinzheyigejiannandexuanze：shijixutongkudizhengchaobuxiu，huoshishizhefujianbengkuidejiating。zheiyiguochengbixumeigerentourufeichangdadeqinfen，youqishichuguizheyubeibeipanzhexianghuguanxigengxuyaoyiciyouyicidegoutongyulejie。erjiatingzuyuanjiandekuanrong，tebieshiduichuguizheheqinmeimeidekuanrong，gengjiashimodadeyongqihejianqiangdeyizhi。keshi，jinyoutongguozheixiejiankudequanguocheng，jiatingjiunenghuifujunhengyuwennuan。

　　思考与警告

　　　　zheigegushibudandanshiyiduanjiatingdebuxing，gengjiashizhenduishenghuodangzhongdehunyinhejiatingguanxidesikao。tagaojiewomenshizhongbaochiduijiarendeguanhuaixinlai，tongshihaiyaodangxinzijidejiarenshenxianbeipandewoxuan。zheigegushishiyigetongkudejingyanjiaoxun，qidaihenrongyiyinqirenmenduiyuqinqingheaiqingdeaixi，yijiduidaodeyuyiwudetansuoyuzunxun。

　　复建幸福和期待

　　laogongchuguizijimeimei，　　zuizhong，woxiwangzheiyijiatingkeyibaituokunjing，zaicizhaodaoxingfuhexiwang。suiranbeipanrangrennanyishihuai，danshitongguoxianghuzhijiandelijiekuanrong，yexutamenkeyizaicigoujianqijiatingdewenxinheyouqingdeqiaoliang，zaojiushuyuzijixingfujieju。zheijianghuixuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，danyexuzaimanmanzhanglufujiandaolushang，tamennengzhaodaoneixindeningjingbingmanzu。