冷眼观爱：他当我是炮友，还是恋人？

　　nengrangchuguilaogongxingwudehua，genjuyifanchuzhongernuanxindehuihua，laopozhaodaokeyirangchuguidezhangfuzhongxinshenshideyanyu。zheihuazhenhantaneixinzuirouruandedifang，gouqitaduiganqingdeshimingganjiqiduilaoposhenqinghouyi。zheihuaruyizhanmingdeng，zhaoyaozhetacengmitudelutu，tuidongtafanhuizhenaidedaolushang。genjulaopozhihuiheyanyudenengliang，chunshuouranrangchuguidezhangfutisheng，aixiyanqiandexingfu，zhanshichuzhenzhengdegaibianhehuigai。

　　失去的东西并非唯一的忠实

　　nengrangchuguilaogongxingwudehua，zaiganqingzhangdaolushang，youshihouaidejiantoufuhaobeilileyundongguiji，waiyuchengweiyigewufataobitaolundehuati。dangzaoyuchuguidezhangfu，zenyangyongyijuhuahuanqitadeneixin，rangtazhongxinsikaoziyidexingwei，xingwulaini？xiabianweininzhanxianjileierrumuran、qiehexinxiandebanfa，bangzhuniwanchengzheiyimubiao。

　　1. 以爱打中她最疼的部位

　　aishiyizhongqiangjingershenmideliliang，danglaogongchennizaimoshengyinyoudangzhongshi，qiasiyizhanmingdeng，dajiayaoyongwennuanheguanhuaidianliangtaneixinzuirouruandedifangxiaojiaoluo。bulunshifengfuduoyangdekongchaolaorenyeli，huoshipingfandejiatingshenghuosuosui，dajiadounengtongguoyijuchongchizhezhenchengdehuayu，gouqitaduijiatingdezerenganyuwennuandehuiyi。renzhenjiangchuneiyijushitanuanxindehua，rangtazaiciyishidao，jiazhongcaisuanshitadezhenzhenzhengzhengguichu。

　　2. 对他说自己是个外遇的受害人

　　youshi，chuguidezhangfubingmeiyishidaotashanghaidaoduoshaogeren，tebieshizaijiushitasuoaizhiren。womenkeyigenjurangtaqinyankandaowomenzijidetongkuyunanguo，yongyigexinsuidejuzilaibiaoxianwomenzijideqingxu。rangtakandaowuyindekuchu，tihuidaodajiaduitapanbiandeshenshendixinhan。neiyangdeyijuhua，yexunengzaitaneixinzaochengfeichangdadezhenhanrenxin，rangtayishidaotayiyuanyuandibeilileduihunyindezeren。

　　3. 造成他内心隐秘的内疚

　　sangshidebujinshihunyinguanxiyuhunyinderenke，gengjiashitabenrenneixinyinmidechunzhenhezizunxin。danglaogongchennizaiwaiyudeyinyouzhong，youdeshihouhuihushizijideliangxinyudaode。womenkeyigenjuyijuhua，tanlverzhenqiediqiangdiaotadepianyi，rangtawufataobiziyidezuixingheneixinyinmideneijiu。neiyangdehuayukeyigouqiduizijiweifaxingweidesikao，bingjiqitazhudongxunmineixindeqingzheng。

　　4. 激起他对于我们自己的爱惜

　　dangzhangfuchuguishi，daduoshiyinweiduiwomengenrizhouzengdelingsuihesikongjianguanganqingzhujianbiandefamahehulve。womenkeyigenjuyijuyinrenshensidehua，qingqingdigaosutawomengongtongzouguodemeihaohuiyi，jiqitacengjiwomenniduiwodehao。yongneiyangdehuayuhuanqitaduiyuwomenzijideaixi，rangtagaoqingchu，dajiacaisuanshitazhenzhengxiangyaohaohaodezhenxiheshouweideren。

　　5. 替他指出回归路面

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，womenbuyinggaitingliuzairangtaxingwudeyanyushang，haiyaojitayigedejihuiyindao，rangtazaixuanzebingbuduanfanhuiwomendeshenghuozhong。zaiyuyanzhizhong，womenyinggaijiqitazhongxinshenshihunyindebenzhihemeihaodebenzhi，rangtagaoqingchu，zheishijieshangyoubipanbiangengbaoguidedongxi，zheiyoushuipingzhongshineigebeimitucengjingdeziji。neiyangdehuayu，cainengzuodaozhenzhengrangtacongmishizhongfanhuiwomenzijidehuaili。

　　结语

　　nengrangchuguilaogongxingwudehua，hunyinshenghuodehangxingzhong，chuguishiyidaobukehushinandian。danjiushitongguoyijukeyihuanqichuguilaogongneixindeyanyu，dajiacainenggouyindaotamenzhongxinsikaoziyidexingwei，xingwulai。bulunshiyiaiwenxintadeneixin，haishiyongzhenchengbiaoshugouqitaneijiu，zhongdianzaiyuzhaodaoyizhongkeyidadongtadeyanyuhefangfa。qidaizhishangzheixiefangfanengbangzhuniqudechenggongrangchuguidezhangfuzhongshihunyinshenghuodekeshouheaixi。