两个人在一起久了，没有话说怎么办？

lianggerenzaiyiqimeihuashuolezenmeban？

 yizhiyilaidouyoupengyouwenwozheigewenti，yifangmianweilianggerenxiangchudeweilaigandaojiaolv，yifangmianyoujuedeyinweimeihuashuofangqizheiduanguanxihenkexi，dandangnikandaoguogengduoqinglvdexiangchuzhuangkuanghou，nihuifaxianzheibushishaoshurendewenti，ershisuoyouqinglvdouhuimianlindeshiqing。

 ruguonizaiwoyiqianshaobugengshishiwenwozheigewenti，woyexuhuijiandingdihuida，“duifanggenniliaobulaidehua，yinggaibushiniduideren，quzhaoxiayigeba”。shijiezheimeda，nizongguiyaoqukankanma。

danxianzainirangwohuida，wohuisikaoyixia，ranhoujianyinizaijianchiyihui。

 gewei，wulunqunali，wulunzuoshenme，zhiyaogenxihuanderendaizaiyige，jiusuangezhetaipingyangliangkexinyeshijinjinlianjiezaiyiqi，zheibiqitashiwuzhongyaodeduo。

3、也许此刻我跟你没话说，但是日子我只想和你过。

youweiquanzhitaitaiduiwoshuo，“qishimeihuashuohenzhengchang，danbuyuanpeiniyidingbuzhengchang”。

 yeshi，nixiangxiangyixia，tazaishafashangwanshouyou，nitangzaitatuishangkanshu，yushangyixieduiyoudeshihoutagennitucaojiju，nikanzhetaweizheidianshishengqideyangzixiaoxiaojixukanshu。

 kuaidaofandiandeshihou，niqishenquchufangzuofan，tachuanhaoxiezichumenjiehaizi。meishenmekeshuode，danhaishizhufuleyiju，“kuaidianhuilaia”。tayemeishenmekeshuode，haishixiangyiwangyiyanghuidalesangezi，“zhidaole”。

zheiyangdeshenghuo，meishenmehua，dannimenbuhuijuedeleile，buaile。

aiqinghehunyinbuhuiyizhichongmanjingxi，nengguodelepingdande，cainengtanyongyuan。

dannibuyiyang，nihuigaosuwo，“buxiangshuojiubushuoleba”。

 qinglvdeyiyi，jiuzaiyuwokeyizainimianqianwuhuakeshuo，keyizhengyixiawuyijuhuadoubushuo，buyongtaohaosheiguyizhaoshenmehuati，bupagaliao。

meigerendouxiangzhaodaonengshishikekeliaodelaideban，danwogengxiwangnidong：

shijieshangdeaijiushibicizhijianmeiyoushufu，buqidaishenme，zhishijianbingjianyiqikanrichuyouriluo。

neime，qinglvzhijianzhaobudaohuashuolezenmebanni？youmeiyouyixiexiaoxijiehuozhexiaohuodongnenggaishanzheizhongqingkuangni？youde。

1、进行一次真诚的交谈

 henduoqinglvzhijianchanshengmaodun，wuhuideyuanyinjiushiqueshaojiaotan。meigerendouyouzijidexiangfa，danshilianggerendouhubujiaotan，zijihuozaizijideshijieli，bicibushufu。

woxiang，bufangshizhejinxingyicizhenchengdejiaotan，dajiatanchengxiangdui。

 niduiwoyoushenmebumanshuochulai，woduinidekanfayeshuochulai，duifangdoubunengshengqiyebuyongshengqi，womenxuyaodeshihaohaolingbicidexiangfa。

zhiyoulejieqingchuxianghudexiangfa，cainengzoujinlianggerendedeneixin。

tongguojiaotan，qinglvzhijiancaihuibingshiqianxianhuozhegengjialejie，zhiyouzheiyang，cainengzhaodaoxindehuati，cainenggengjialejiebici。

2、保持好奇心，尝试新事物

youxieshihoudebujiaotanshiyinweinimenzhangshijianjixiediguozhetongyangdeshenghuo，rucilewushengqurangnijuedejiaotanmeiyoubiyao。

 nixiang，ruguotiantianhuijiajiushigeziwanshoujidelianggerenjuedingyiqiqudianyingyuankandianying，zheibushiyizhonggaibianma？nimenhaihuimeiyoujiaoliuma？ qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

wojuedenimenkeyiyiqiquzuoyiqiyiqianmeiyouzuoguodeshiqing。

biruyiqiquguiwu，zaiguiwuhuibiciyouyilaigan，jueduihuizengjianimendeganqing。

zaibiruyiqiquhejiu，chenzheweixun，tantanzijidezhenshiganshou……

 yiqitihuiweicengzuoguodeshiqingrangshuangfangdoukeyihuodejidadexinxianganhekuailegan，huirangbicigengjialejieheqinglai，shuobudingnihaihuifaxianduixiangdeyouyishanguangdian。

3、男女角色互换

 zhiqianzaixiaoshipinshangkanguo，yiduiqinglvhuxiangjiaohuanshenfenyiduanshijian，biruyikaishishinvshenglicai，jiaoyounanshengguanliyiduanshijian，nvshengzuojiawuduoyidian，jiaohuanhourangnanshengtiyanyixia，wogerenjuedeshigehenyouqu，yehenyouxiaodexiaoyouxi。

henduoshihoulianggerenmeibanfaxianghulijie，shiyinweilianggerenzhandeweizhibuyiyang，meibanfazuodaojiangxinbixin。

ruguonimenrenweiduifangrangnishangxinnanguole，bufangnimenhuanhuanjiaose，laitiyanyixiaduifangdeganshou。

qishiwomenchangshuodehuanweisikaojiushizheiyangde，danshiwomenjihuzuobudao，womentaigujizijideganshoule。

 suoyiqinglvkeyihuhuanyixiajiaose。nanshengtiyanyixianvshengxuyaopeibandexinqing，yaodasaojiawu，yaoyingduigezhongxiaoshiqingdexinxu；nvshengtiyanyixiameitianxinkugongzuohaiyaopeinvshengguangjie，gongzibuduohaiyaogezhongsongliwu，bunengdayouxibunengchouyanhejiudeganshou……

 qishiwojuede，jiaohuanyixiajiaosezhendekeyirangnigengjiazhidaoduifangdeburongyi，lejiedaoduifangkunao，suoyicainenggouyougenghaodeanweixiaoguo。

zaiyiqijiulemeihuashuobukepa，kepadeshibuhuiquzuochugaibian。

 yiqitihuiweicengzuoguodeshiqingrangshuangfangdoukeyihuodejidadexinxianganhekuailegan，huirangbicigengjialejieheqinglai，shuobudingnihaihuifaxianduixiangdeyouyishanguangdian。zheiyanglianggerendeguanxihuigengjiaqinmi，shenghuodexingfuganhuigenggao。yuanmeigerendouzhaodaozijiderenshengbanlv。

文| 陈潮威