老师原创：男友约过两次炮，我很介意怎么办

网友咨询：

 huazhennihao，woyizhidouyouguanzhunideweiwenda，danconglaidoumeiyoubeichouzhongguo，shangtianbaoyouwozheicinenggoubeichouzhongba！wodekunhuoshizheiyangde，woxianzai24sui，nanyou25，henshuai，tazhaonvpengyoudebiaozhunshi：tanguolianaihepiqihao，yangmaomeiyouguanxi。rangwohenjieyideshinanyouzai16suideshihoujiuheyigezijibuxihuandenvshengshangchuangle，ranhouzai20suideshihouyougenyigerenshiyitiandenvshengyueguoyicipao，tayizhishuotahenhouhui，shuozheiyangduiwohenbugongping，bingchengnuowoyihoudoubugenbierenyuepaole。youyuwochushengdejiatingshibijiaochuantongde，henfanduihunqianxingxingweizheizhongjudong，suoyizaiwomenchaojiadeshihouwohaishihuibatazheixieshinachulaishuo。zheijitiantadegemenhetayiqiandexingbanlvtanqilelianai，zaiwodeshenghuozhongyutayouguanxiderenyuelaiyueduo，wochangchangbeitixingwoxianzaidenanyoushiyigezenyangzenyangderen，zheiyangwofeichangfannao，chucizhiwaiwohaipawodenanyouhuibeizhewojixuhelingwaidenvrenyuepao，woxianzaixinqinghenjiujiea，huazhenwoxianzaiyinggaiyaoruhediaozhengzijidexinqingni？

老师的回复：

 nidenanpengyoushiyigeshizushide“jianzi”nishuota16suideshihoujiuhebuxihuanderenshangguochuangle，zheishuomingtazainianjiqingqingdeshihoujiuyourenduitatouhuaisongbao，ranhoutazai20suideshihouyouyicihebierenshangchuang，yibanlaishuoyige20suidenanshengdexiongxingjingzhenghaimeiyouwancheng，tachuquyuepaozihuizaodaobierendechaoxiao，dantaqueshizuodaole，haizuodaoliangci，zheishuomingtabujinshuai，haishiyigezuibahentiande“jianzi”。

 nishuotazhaonanpengyoudebiaozhunshi“tanguolianaihepiqihao，yangmaomeiyouguanxi”，tadezheijuhuawoqishibushihendong，nandaoninanpengyouzhixihuantanguolianaidenvhaima，haishishuotahaipahenvhaifashengguanxihoubeikukujiuchan？

 wojuedeba，xianzainihetadelianaiduanshuchajuhaishibijiaodade，hetazaiyiqijinianhouni100%huibianchengyigeyuanfu，suoyiwoquannihaishizaodianlikaitaweimiao。