如何让老公远离“出轨”

 sihuyizhiyouyizhongshuofa：nanrendeneixindouhuiyouchuguideyinzizaimengdong。suoyinvrencongjiehundeneiyikekaishi，jiuyizhidanjingshoupa，bingqiebaichuyifujianjueduikang laogongchugui detaidu。suirannanrenchuguibingburongyishoudaokongzhi，danshinvrenkeyitongguoyixiefangfa，yikaocongmingzhihuilairangzijidelaogongyuanli“chugui”。

Step 1 把握家庭财权，让老公知道出轨的后果

 nanrenchuguiwangwanghuixincunjiaoxing：“zhiyaowozuodeyanjin、zhoumi，jiubuhuibeifaxian。”huozheduizijishuo：“wozhishiwanwaneryi，buhuiyingxiangdaowendingdeganqingguanxi。”gengyouyixienanrenrenwei：“jiusuanlaopozhidaole，yenawomeibanfa，tahuiyinweihaizishebudelihun。”rangnanrenzengqiangzikongli，zaidongxindeshihouchache，shiyijiangaonandudeshiqing，tebieshidanglingyigenvrenduitazhudongjingongdeshihou，henshaoyounanrennengdikangdezhu。suoyi，nvrenyidingyaobawohaojiatingdecaizheng，rangtazhidaozijichuguibeijiechuandeyanzhonghouguo，biru“jingshenchuhu”、“minglishuangshi”deng。xiangbiwaiyudeyouhuo，caifuduiyigenanrenlaishuozirangengzhongyao。zheiyangyilai，ziranjiunengrangtazengqiangzikongli，yuanli“chugui”。

Step 2 保持警觉，发现情况及时警告

 nanrendewaiyujiuxiangfangzizhehuo，huoshiyidanmimankai，shihennanpumiede。zhiyouzaihuomiaoganggangranqideshihoujishipumie，cainengbasunshijiangdaozuidi。qingganzhuanjiabananrendechuguifazhanfenweiliugejieduan：qituqi、changshiqi、milianqi、wendingqi、chongtuqihejuedingqi。nvrenyaobaochijingjue，nengzaiqituqihechangshiqijiubalaogongchuguidehuomiaopumie。liru，takaishiwanguishenzhibugui，chuchajiabancishuzengduo，keyidianhuazengduo，zaijialixinbuzaiyandengdeng，zheixiedoushichuguidezhengzhao。dangnifaxianzijidelaogongchuxianyishangdeqingkuang，yaomashangjinggaoduifang，rangtajishishoulian。buyaojuedezhuiwenlaogonghuirangtaduinifangan，yinweizheishihoutajiyoukenengyijingfanxiacuowu。ruguotaxinxu，jiuzhengmingnidezhijueshizhengquede。 laogongchugui!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

Step 3 提前沟通好与异性关系的界限

 baochijingjue，yifanglaogongchuguibingbuyiweizhecaomujiebing。duiyulaogongyuyixingdezhengchangjiaowang，nvrenhaishibuyinggaiganshede。danzenyangcaisuanshi“zhengchangjiaowang”ni？zheijiuxuyaonimentiqiangoutong，mingqueyuyixingguanxidejiexian。biru，hetongshiyiqichifanshikeyide，danruguoshihemougenvtongshizaifeigongzuoxuyaodeshihoudanduchifan，jiubukeyile；hetongxuexujiushikeyide，danruguoshihemouweinvtongxuedanduxujiu、gongchuyishi，jiubukeyile；youyixingpengyoushizhengchangde，danruguozongshiyinweisishihezheigepengyoudadianhua、wangliao，shenzhibangtazuozheizuonei，jiububeiyunxule。yexunidelaogonghuishuo：“nibuyaodajingxiaoguai，womenzhijianshenmeyemeiyou。”niyebubifanu，xinpingqihedirangtahuanweisikaoyixia，ruguoniheqitananxingyezheiyang“hudong”youmeiyouguanxi。mingquelejiexianzhihou，chufeitayuejie，fouzenijiubuyaoganshela。

Step 4 多参与他的交际圈

 nihelaogongzhijiandejiaojiquanwanquanmeiyoujiaoji？nimendeaihaoyeyoutianrangzhibie？fanzhengnimendehunyinshenghuochulewanshangzaiyiqishuijueyiwai，jiumeiyoubiedeshikeyiyiqizuo？dangxin，yinweizheishuomingniduitadeshejiaoshenghuowanquanbulejie，yehennanzhidaotahuibuhuiyouchuguidejixiang！yaobimianzheizhongqingkuangfasheng，shouxianyaoshibushidichuxianzaitadetongshiquanhepengyouquanzhong，mingshinidelingdi。qici，yaojiarutadeyeyushenghuodangzhong，napanibuganxingqu，yekeyizaiyipangguanmo。lingwai，yaojingchanganpaiyitongchuxingdehuodong，rangtamanmanpeiyangqi“qunadouyaokaolvyixialaopo”deguannian。yexunanrenbenshendoushixihuanziyou，tianxingsanmande，danzhiyaotaxingchengrangnicanyutadejiaojiquandexiguan，niyehuizhujianzhangwodaotadeshenghuoguiji，jingjue“chugui”xianxiangdefasheng。

Step 5 做的自己

 yiduanganqingjinrupingwenqi，qishiyejiujinrulewaiyugaofaqi。youqidangnvrendaole30suizhi40 suizheigejieduan，waibiaoxiyinlidouhuizhujianxiajiang。dannihuibuhuiyiciweiliyou，fangqileduizijideyaoqiu？ruguonidewaibiaoxiyinlizaixiajiang，zhiyenengli、shejiaonenglidengdengdoumeiyoutigao，jiuyiweizhenidezhengtijiazhidouzaixiajiang。ernanrenzai30suizhi40suishi，wangwangshixinzhichengshu、shiyeyouchengdejieduan，zhengtijiazhiyizhitisheng。yushi，nihelaogongzhijianjiuhuichuxianlejiazhideluocha，erdaduoshuqingkuangxia，nanrendoushizaizheigejieduanchuguide。suoyi，yaoxiangzijidelaogongyuanli“chugui”，jiuyaonulitishengzishenjiazhiba，zuzhitazaiduibilaopoheqitanvrenjiazhideguochengzhongdapowendingguanxideniantou。