男友背着我和其他女生交往 我想离开怎么办

　　dangwomenjinglileyiduanganqingdeliekai，fenshoulehaixiangtazenmeban？zheizhongqingkuangjingchangyingxiangzhehenduoren。fenshouzhihoudesinianxiangxijuanerlaiyonglai，qingganshangdefanzadanxinrangwomenwufashihuai。youderentiaoxuanchenmiyuzaihuiyizhong，bunengziba；youderenchangshizhaodaoxindeairenlaimibuneixinshenchudekumen。danshi，zhenzhengyiyishangdeduicequjueyumianduizijideqingxu，jienasangshibingheyiwangdaobie。dajiaxuyaoxuehuifangxiaguowangdekuchuyuhuailian，zhaodaoxinderenwuheshenghuodequdongli。weiyouruci，dajiacainengzuodaozhenzhengkaishixindeshenghuo，yinglaigengmeihaodeweilai。

　　fenshouhou，huailiantadejuedejingchanglingrenbeitongbuyi。zaizheishihou，womenyexurongyixianruqingganshangdekunhuoheyihuo，buzhidaoruhejiejue。danshi，mianduizheiyangdeshiqing，dajiaxuyaoxuehuizaizheilizhaodaobaituodebanfa，zaicijianliziwo，baituofenshouyinying。

　　1. 思考爱情，面对现实情况

　　fenshoulehaixiangtazenmeban，zaifenshouhou，womenwangwanghuichenjinyuzaiduifangdehuiyihexingfudeshiguangzhong，danzheizhongchenmiyuzhinengrangwomenwufazhenzhengmianduifenshouzheiyishishi。yiner，womenyinggaijiandingdishenshizijideaiqing，jienafenshouzheiyishishi，bingyishidaolexiufuziwogaibianshifeichangbiyaode。bunengtaobihuofouding，jinyoumianduishiji，dajiacainengzuodaozhenzhengkaishixindeshenghuo。

　　2. 接受和放下过往造成的伤害

　　fenshoudaibiaozhejieshuyiduanguanxi，zaiqizhonghenyoukenengyouweihai、xinhannaizhipanbian。weilenengjixuqianxing，womenyinggaixuehuiyuanliangbingxuehuifangxiazheizhongsunhai。huailianbingbudengyuhaifangbuxiata，fanershiduiyuguoqudelianlianbushe。genjujienaguoqudesunhai，womenkeyishifangchulaixinzhongdetongku，zhongxindedaoneixindeningjinghepinghengxiediao。

　　3. 复建自已的生活

　　fenshouhou，womenyinggaizaidingweiziyideshenghuo，zhaohuizijidekuaileyudandu。zheishiyigejiyu，shiwomenzhongxinshenshizijideyaoqiuhelixiang，bingweiciqinfennuli。nenggouzhaodaoxindexihao，jieshixinpengyou，chongshiziwoshijianhejingli。fujianziyideshenghuoshixiangqiantuijindeguanjiansuozai，tanengrangdajiazhongxinzhaodaozishen，bingriyijianshaoduiyutadesinian。

　　4. 倾吐和寻找适用

　　fenshouhou，neixinshenchudetongkuyuxiangniantongchangburongyimomochengshou。yiner，xunzhaoqingtuhehuodeshiyongshishifenzhongyaode。yuqinyougongxiangneixindexiangfa，xiangxinlixuezixunshihuozhuanyerenyuanqiuzhu，huozhejiarushiyongrenqun，zheixiedounengdaijiwomenanweishiyong。genjuqingtuhexunzhaoshiyong，womenkeyigenghaodiyingduishilianledefannao，jinerriyijianshaoduiyutadesinian。

　　5. 保持乐观的心态

　　buguanmianduinazhongkunjinghekaoyan，baochikaixinlianghaodexintaidoushizhiguanzhongyaode。fenshoubingbudengyuquanqiumori，fanguolai，takeyishidajiazhongxinsuzaozishen、zhuizhumengxiangdexinzhengcheng。xiangxinzijishuipingheweilaigailv，jijizhudongditanxunbenrenchengzhangdejihui。baochileguandexintai，dajiacainenggenghaodemianduizhuduozhuangkuang，riyijianshaoduiyutadesinian。

　　fenshoulehaixiangtazenmeban，zongdelaishuo，fenshouzhihouhaixiangtashizhengchang，danyidingyaoxuehuimianduibingjiejuezheizhongqinggan，fujianziyideshenghuo。genjusikaoaiqing、jieshouhefangxiaguowangzaochengdeshanghai、fujianziyideshenghuo、qingtuhexunzhaozhichiyijibaochileguandexintai，womenkeyiriyijianshaoduiyutadexiangnian，zaicizhaodaozijidexingfuhekuaile。shiwomenyingyongmiandui，yiwangwuqian。