老公出轨我该怎么办？怎么调整自己的心态？

 laogongchuguiwogaizenmeban？zenmediaozhengzijidexintai？zhenxihunyin，jiuyaohaohaoduidai，bawohaolianaidemeiyike。ganqingshifeilixingde，hunyinshilixingde。nikeyibaganxingdeshijieliuzaixinli，baoliuneixindeziyou，baoliuzijichaofandechuangzaoliheqinggandeganxing。hunyinyaolizhi，weihulianggerendegongtongliyi。

1、理性看待丈夫有外遇的事实。

 xinlixuejiayizhizaitixingnvxingjingtihunyinwenhuazhongdemeilihuangyan。bahunyinmiaoshuweimeihaodejiaotiao，huozheshuoyaoqiumeihaodehunyinyinggaishishenmeyangdejiaotiao，shiduhairen，shirenshiqujingti，shirenshiquxinlifangyunenglidedongxi。zhizheyumeidejiaoyi，zhinengrangrenyuelaiyuetuolixianshi。

2.婚姻只是生活的一部分，不是全部。

 hunyinzhishiniquanbuziwoshenghuodeyibufen，erbushiquanbu。aibuaidouyaobaochishenxindewanzheng。nanrenyouyizhongtianshengdexinliqingxiang，huibazijiaidenvrenbianchengzijidefushupin，huibuzijuedixueruonideshengcunnengli、rengedulishenzhijingshenjuewu。haoxiangtahenzaihuni，xiangzaigefangmianzhaoguni，dannicongzhongshiqudegengduo。

3.正确对待婚姻。

 zhenxihunyin，jiuyaohaohaoduidai，bawohaolianaidemeiyike。ganqingshifeilixingde，hunyinshilixingde。nikeyibaganxingdeshijieliuzaixinli，baoliuneixindeziyou，baoliuzijichaofandechuangzaoliheqinggandeganxing。hunyinyaolizhi，weihulianggerendegongtongliyi。

4.正确对待男人。

 suiranhunyinshiduibicifeichangzhengzhongdechengnuo，danneigenanrenbushiweizijiershengde。takenengzhihuipeiwoyiduanshijian。yexubiedenvren，yiwai，jibinghuibatacongwodeshenghuozhongdaizou。wohuiganjitayuanyipeiwo，napashihenduandeshijian。youyitiantaxuanzelikaiwo。wozhidaozheishitadequanli，wohuizhufuta。

5.正确对待道德。

 baochizhengchangdedaodexintaishifeichangzhongyaode。daodeshiyizhongziwoyueshu，keyizaibennengshangdizhifeilixingdedongxi，guihuaziwoxingwei。danshijiduandedaodehuashibukequde。shiyigeziwoxianjing，rangrenwufadongdan。womenkeyixuanzeyongdaodeyueshuziji，danbunengyongdaodeyueshubieren。