老公背叛后怎样挽回

　　laogongbeipanhouzenyangwanhui，zaiaidexingganbushisaozhongyouranxiangqianshi，lingyibandepanbianyouruyichangturuqilaidekuangfengbaoyu，shunjianjiangpingjingdeshenghuohunongdebolanzhuangkuo。cengjingyiweiheairenyiqizouguodesuiyuewenrutaishan，quejingxingzheixielangmandewangriyexuzhishibuzhenshidepaomosuliao，yichuojipo。

　　niyexushiwuyijianqiaojianleneiyitiaoaimeiduanxiaoxi，zaizhiyishi，lingyifangduobideshenqinghaosilijianchuanxin;yexushikandaoleyuehuiyinhen，jingxinzhunbeidewanfanyishunjianmeiyouleweidao，jinshengxinlimanmandesuansuande。zheixiecheyenanmiandeyeli，yanleijinshilezhenxin，naozilichixuqiangtuizhezuichudemeihaochengnuoyuxianrujincankudeshishi，erzhongjiemianxiangfuxiangcheng，haosiyibadundaobuduanlachezhexinli，shinitongkubukan。naonu、youshang、bengkui、xiaojibeiguanqingxuyigunaodifuxianzaiyanqian，nianyeliduzipaihuai，xintoumangran，buzhidaohequhecong，kexinliqueyougeweiruodeshengyinzaijiaohan：woshibuganxinsheqizheifenganqing，woxianghehao。dan，daodigairuhemaikaizheijianxindediyibuni?

　　(一)确定挽留信心

　　zaibeibeipanjidadetongchulongzhaoxia，xiangwanhuideneixinkenengzhishiyishichongdong，yincidiyibujinliangjingxialai，zhongxinsikaozheifenganqingyuzijilaijiangdaodiyouduoguanjian。huishouguoqu，zheixieyiqihaibiandenghourichu，shoulazheshouzaihaitanshangliuyouhuoguochuanchuanzuyindeqingchen;weilenengjibiciqingshengri，qiaoqiaochouhuashuyue，kanjianlianrenyiwaijingxiliuleideyeli;yeyoushengbingdeshihou，lingyifangcheyenanmian、xixinzhaogu，yanliquanshixintongdeyike，zheiyizhuangzhuang、yimumu，jiushinimenaidebaoguipintutupian。ruozheizhongmeihaojiyidefenliangzuyihuanjiecishipanbianchanshengdeshangtong，shinixiangxinbicizhijiancengjingyoushenhouganqingjishi，neiyangwanliuyexuzhideyishi。

　　laogongbeipanhouzenyangwanhui，chukaiaiqingshenceng，jiazhongyeshibukehushideyaosu。ruodajiayixieshoubingjianburuhunyindediantang，jialilaorenyuhaizidejibanhaosijianyimianxian。laonianrenduonianyilaikanjiandajiajiatinghemu，xintougaoxing，xiaohaitianzhenwuxiedexiaorongli，yinzangzheduiwanshanjiazhongdexiangwang。xiangyaojijialirenyigeanwendeshenghuoziranhuanjing，buxuqinrenmenyinjiatingposuierxianruyoushang，yehuichengweinixiangwanhuideguanjiansuozaiqudongli。danshiruojiyishenchudaduoshizhengzhilengbaoli，jiatinghuanjingzaojiubingliangyayigan，zheishidewanliu，bianxuyaofeichangjinshenkaolv，zhongjiuzaicixiubuzhiliposuideaiqingjuefeiyishi，huafeidaliangshijianjinglihounengbunengshouhuoaiqing，huoshiweizhizhishu。

　　(二)分辨另一方心态

　　quedingbenshenxinxinhou，lingyifangduiyuganqingdexintaiyiyangzhiguanzhongyao。youyixiechuguizheguohouhuixianrushenshendeneijiu，tamenbugantaitoukannideshuangyan，yantanzhijianquanshihuihen，jijitiaomingwaiyuxiaoxijie，naizhiduanjueyudisanzhedeyiqiewanglaizhanghu，shoujijiesuomima、shejiaopingtaidouhaowubaoliudejiaojinishoushang，yongshijixingdongzhengshihuiguixinxin。duiyuzheiyanghaiyouliangxin、rencuoyuangaidongdeairen，wanliudeshengmingzhiguangzaoyizhaoliang，zhiyaoshuangfangzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，quanyuwaishang，zhongjianxinrenbingbushiwangchenmoji。