怀疑老公出轨第三者怎么办？老公有外遇如何应对？

 huaiyilaogongchuguidisanzhezenmeban？laogongyouwaiyuruheyingdui？diaozhengyixialvxingshijianhuozhehuangegongzuo。mianduijinqianhehunyin，sihulibukaijinqian，danlibukaihunyinhehaizi。zhaochutakenengchuguideyuanyin，ranhouduizhengxiayao，jishiwanjiutadexin。

首先，弄清真相。

 yaogaoqingchulaogongwaiyushikongxuelaifenghaishizhende。ruguozhishiyaoyanhuozhewuhui，qizidemangmuwenzexingweihuizaochengfuqizhijiandexinrenweiji，congerqianchedaofuqizhijiandezhuduomaodun，buliyuhunyinjiatingdejiankangfazhan。

2.当出轨是事实时，稳定自己的情绪。

 nizhangfudehunwaiqingduiniyidingshigehendadedaji。danshijizhuyijuhua，chongdongxingweiduishiqingdefazhanbingmeiyouhaochu。buguanfashengshenme，nidouyaoxianlengjingxialai，zixixiangxiang，yexunengzhaodaogenghaodejiejuebanfa。

第三，弄清丈夫外遇的根本原因。

 zhaochunizhangfuweishenmehuichugui，tashifouyourenhewenti。youxienanrenshixiabanshendongwu，zhangqibumanzu，henkenenghuichuqumishi。

 jianyinidiaozhengyixialvxingshijianhuozhehuangegongzuo。mianduijinqianhehunyin，sihulibukaijinqian，danlibukaihunyinhehaizi。zhaochutakenengchuguideyuanyin，ranhouduizhengxiayao，jishiwanjiutadexin。

第四，和老公心平气和的谈。

ruguonihenilaogonghaiyoubufenshoudeganqing，tanchengjiaoliuyexunengbangniwanhuiyicijihui。

 lixingsikaohou，keyihelaogonghaohaotanyitan，shizhelijieweishenmetalaogongzaiwaimianyoushi。ruguozhendeshizijidecuo，jiuyaotanranjieshou。

5.升级改变自己。

laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?huifudehaofangfazhiyijiushizhongxinfaxianzijidemeili，gaizhengzijihenjiumeiyouyishidaodewenti。

 hunyinshenghuojinvxingliuxialehenduojiduanqingxu，birupiqitaibaozao;zongshimangzhewushilaogongdeganshou;zijichulibuhaojiatingmaodun，ranglaogongbuzhisuocuo，zhinengxuanzetaobi。