总是怀疑老公出轨第三者怎么办？

 zongshihuaiyilaogongchuguidisanzhezenmeban？lengjingdian，biexianggeyiyangsaye。zheigeshihouyidingyaobaizhengzijidexinqing，yibuyibulai，bunengturanbaofa，zheiyangnilaogongzhihuijuedeniyoubing。dangnimendehunyinchuxianwentideshihou，niziranhuixiangdaonilaogongyoumeiyouchugui，ranhouzheiyangduidaiziji。

 kenengnilaogongqianduanshijianduinihenreqing。danshidaolehouqi，nilaogonghuiduinilengmo，buruyiqian，danshizheiyishenghuihenzhang，buhuihenduan。zheishihounilaogongkenenghuibanidangjiaren，yinweijiehunbudengyuzaitanlianai。zheishihouyidingyaojingxiaxinlai，fangsongxinqing，yinweinixianzaizhishihuaiyi。meiyoushishizhengming，buyaohuzuofeiwei。

 zheiyangzhihuirangnilaogongyuelaiyuefanziji。suoyizheigeshihou，yidingyaodandingdadu。ruguoyizhihuaiyi，keyitoutoudiaocha。danshibuyaopinfandiaocha。ruguonilaogongfaxianle，nizhihuijuedemomingqimiao。suoyizheigeshihouyaolengjing。buyaozuorangduifangyihuodeshiqing。

把事实搞清楚。

 ruguoniyizhihuaiyiduifangchugui，nikeyichayixiatazuijinyoumeiyoujiechuguoshenmenvren。yibannilaogongdouhuiranglaopokanshouji。nikeyikankantadeshouji，ranhoulejietadegongzuohetongshi。nikeyizhaochushishi，ranhouhetazhenglun。yinweiyidannimeizuochengshiqingjiuhelaogongchaojia，laogongzhihuijuedenimomingqimiaodeyaoqiuninachuzhengju，erzheiyicinimeiyouzhengjujiugangale。suoyizheigeshihou，nibixuxiangaoqingchushishi，cainenghelaogongtan。buyaochongdong，zuihoushoushangdezhiyouziji。

提升自己，让对方关注自己。

 zheigeshihoukenengshiyinweizijineixinzibei，duishenbiandenvrenzibei，ranhouzonghuaiyiduifanghuichugui。suoyizheigeshihouyaozhuyitishengziji，rangduifangdezhuyilijizhongzaizijishenshang。wogaizenmetishengziji，jiushizuoyixieduitayoubangzhudeshiqing，tahuijuedeniduitadegongzuohuozheyiqiedouyoubangzhu，huizhujianyilaini。suoyizheigeshihoubuyaozonghuaiyilaogong，xuyaogaibiandekenengshini。suoyi，jinlitishengzijiyehenzhongyao。

做些其他有意义的事情来分散自己的注意力。

 zheigeshihounizonghuihuaiyilaogongshibushichuguile。nibufangweizijihuojiarenzuoyixieyouyiyideshi。zheiyangzhihuirangniyuelaiyuezixin。zixindenvrenzuimei，laogongziranhuiduinihao。