男人变心，到底该怎么对待第三者

 disanzhe，tongchangshiyigejiazhongbuwendingdehuoyao，yibuxiaoxinjiukeyijianghaohaodidejiazhongcuihui。youyurendaonaonudeqingkuangxiashimeiyoushuobailedeqingshangzhishangde，jinyoubulizhixiadebuzhengquetiaoxuan。nanrenbianxinyinci yidannidejiazhongchuxianzheileinanti，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomaqianwanbiezishenzuofengbadao。shensishulvzenyangjibaiyaoyaoyuzhuidedisanzhe，zheicaijiushinidezhongzhongzhizhong。duiyuyikuernaosandiaosi，neijihudoubingbushiyigeyouzhujiandelaopodetiaoxuan。

第一步，收拢你的面色，击退对手是重要

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第二步，找技术专业的婚姻生活教练员来具体指导你

 rendeyishengbixuyouxiulaoshi，gengbixuyougaoshoudezhidao。nijintianganjueyaoyaoyuzhuidedisanzhejiushinirenshengdaoludeweixie，huoxumingriniyejiuganjueyuanxianzhenduirenshengdaoludejiannan，doushiyouyaokeyi。wangwangnengyouneiyangderenshengjingjie，nanrenbianxinguanjiansuozainiyizhizaiyoushenmewentideqingkuangxiazhaoduiren，zhaoduizhushou。yinci zainiyuebulizhideqingkuangxia，nijiuyaozhaojishuzhuanyedehunyinshenghuojiaolianyuanlaibangni，zheixierenburongyiquxiaonidejiazhongbuxing，genghuibaohunideyinsibaohu。lingwaihuirangnizhidinghelideliucheng，rangyaoyaoyuzhuidedisanzhecongzheidangzhongtunqu。jinguanniyaohuayixieqiancai，keshiyaolejiekeyihuaqianchulidenantiweilaidoubingbushinanti。jinriniyaodezhangjiu，mingridajiadehunyinshenghuocaikeyizoudezhangjiu。

第三步，要明白狠心嘴唇甜

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 hunyinshenghuozishenshiyoufengxianxingde，dangchuxianleyaoyaoyuzhuidedisanzhe，niquanbudehuolidouyingdangyongzaizenyangzhiqujibaidisanzhewanhuilaogongdexinshang，jinyouneiyang，caikeyibaituokunjing，zhuanbaiweisheng。butiaomaobing，keshijishibuhaipashi，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomazheicaisuanshiyigeyouzhujiandenvxingdedangdanhefengcai。