男人变心，究竟该怎么对待第三者

 jinyoubunulidedisanzhe，meiyouwabudiaodeqiangjiao。zheijuhuafanyingchuledisanzhezaizheigeshehuifazhanzaojiubushishenmexinqideshile，yebiaominglenanshengyingduihunneichuguiyinyoudegailvyetisheng le，nanrenbianxinzaigezhonggeyangyinyoutishengdelingwai，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomananshengdedikangliyoumuyoutigaoni?wojuedebuyiding。

 huashuoqianjiriwopengdaoleyijianhenhaoxiaodeshier，zaigonggongqicheshang，wobianshangzuoleyigezhongniannvren。hurantadeshoujishanglailayigedianhua，tingtashuodehua，xiangtingchuquhaoxiangshiyigetuixiaochanpindianhua，shijideshimaifangde。zheiyinvxingjiuhetaliaoleqilai，wentafangwuzaishenmeweizhi，shishahuxing，shijinaxiejiagezheileide，yiqianliaodehaihenkaixin，danshidangxiaoshouyuanshuohebujiayixiatahetazhangfudeshoujiweixin，bashijidezhaopianfasongjitamencanzhaoyixia。

 shubuzhi，dangxiaoshouyuanyishuodaotadezhangfu，zheiyinvxinglikejiuxingfenleqilai，yudiaoyeyuelaiyuehennaonu，bingheshengshuodao，nijiawoweixinjiukeyile，nifeidejiawolaogongdeshoujiweixinganshenme，zheigefangwuwobuhuimailai。shuozhejiulikeguadiaodianhua，

 zaihenduorenlaikan，henyoukenengganjuezheiyinvxingyoudianhaoxiaole，henmeiyousuzhi，youdegumingdiaoyu，xinjingdanzhanle。keshi，conglingyifangmiankanlai，dajiahaikeyikandechuyigeyihunfunvdekebei，xianrujinrenlaozhuhuang，nanrenbianxintamenyaonanaxiequxiyinzishendezhangfu，younanaxiehewaibianzheixienianqingpiaoliangdedisanzhemendouni?

 danshi，keguanshishibianshikeguanshishi，tongchangxuduo delaopo，wulunnishizenmedefanghuanyuweiran，tixindiaodanzaijiashenzhongshifen，doubukeyizudanglaogongchuguidejiaobu。

neima，dangneiyangdeshierqueshifashengle，dajiagaizenyangrulini?yaozenmedeyingduidisanzhehedajiadeshuobailedehaonanren。

一，给第三者以遏制。

 xianghuihuaitarendejiazhong，cuihuitarendexingfudenvren，womendoushijueburaoshude，yewuxujitamennaxiemianzi，sheirangtamendangshizaidisanzhechazutarenjiazhongdeqingkuangxiabukaolvyixiabuliangyingxiangni?ninenglijixunzhaodisanzhe，hetachenqiliyubi，shuonishiburongyirenpingtahuzuofeiweide，gengbiexiangcongtadelaogongnaerhuodeshenmehaochu，zuoweilaopo，nishiburongyigenlaogongliyide，rangtasilezheikexinba。duiyujinqian，tagengburongyihuode，rujinnizaoyibawolelaogongchuguidezhijiezhengju，jiusuanshiliyi，yizhaofalvfaguideyiqiezhengchangfangshi，laogongyewufadedaoshiduoshaojinqian。zaishuole，nijuedewolaogonghuiweilegenghaodiyigeni，sheqijiazhong，sheqizhimingdu，yishijuedaduoshujinqianma?

xianwulunlaogongneili，zhuyaodebianshiyaobadisanzhejizhenya，yingduihaoladisanzhe，dajiazaitaolunyixialaogongzheili。

二，对老公恩威并施。

 jiaruniyeyouwanliudexin，neimajiukeyixianxianglaogongshiruan，quantajijideduanjuegendisanzhedeguanlian，ruguokeyigaiguozixin，jiahuanshijia，dajiahuanshidajia。danshi，jiarutahuijue，huoshijiushinibuyuanzaijianchixiaqule，neimayejianyi，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomaliyibei。haijidezheileiliyi，niyidingbubizaiyimianzi，zhaoyigehaodexingshibianhulvshi，zhengdelaogongjingshenchuhu，yinci duilaogongeryan，shiburongyimaozheimedadefengxianxingfangqinide。