碰到爱情出轨，那么应对第三者的方式是啥

 jinrijiangyipianganhuozhishi，jiaruhunyinshenghuozhongchuxianledisanzhe，xiangwanhuihunyin，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomaeryoubuzhidaozenyangyingduidisanzhedehua，aiqingchuguininengshizheneiyangzuo：

你需要反复给男生传递：这一第三者哪层面都破破烂烂。

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举个非常简单的事例：

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因而要学好借势，借刀杀人。

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