碰到爱情出轨，究竟媳妇能够怎样应对第三者

 wojiangzaiwoguo，jiaruyouyizhonggangweizuileizuiku，neizheileigangweiyidingbianshilaopo。wojuede，yingdangmeirendizhiba。shubuzhi，kuyulei，jinguanhuizhinvxingshenlei，danjiarulaogongkeyitxulaopo，lejienvxingdeburongyi，aiqingchuguineiyekeyijinijuedeneixinwennuande。jibian ouyoumaiyuan，xiangqizhangfudetengxinengjia，neiyezhile。danshi，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomatongchangzheiyishehuifazhanyeyoulingyigegangwei，huiranghunyinshenghuozhongdenvxingshenxinjiaocui，neibianshidisanzhe。neima，zuoweihunyinshenghuozhongchuyubeidongdenvxingyingdangzenyangyingduidisanzheni?

 shuodaozheiyihuatitaolun，woqingchudehaijideershichanshengzaigebidelinjudeyijianshi。linjuayisanshiliuqi，laogongsishichutou，yuyouyizi10sui，yinvwusui。yijiabenkekeqiqi，zhizhiyigenvrendechuxian，baituolebenlaideningjing。

 nvrensanshiyier，congxiaoduzichulveweituqideyifukuzi，nengkandechutaxianyoubeiyun。nvxingzourulegebilinjujiazhong，yaozhaodajiedelaogong。jiandaozheiyishengshudeliankong，zaijiandaolaogongshanduodemuguang，nvxingjimindediliugangaoqingchufashengshenmeshishi。naonu、xiuchigan、duji、aohuizhuduoqingyixiangjiaozaitaderendedanao，xintaishitaqueshilelixing，shunshoulunqijiazhongdeyigenmugun，zhongzhongdiwangzheiyishengshunvxingdeshenshangzaqu。nvxingduoshanbuji，yizhenluangunzhetiangaidiwangdeshenshangzalai，tazhilejienashoujingjudihuzhefuqiang，kanjianyipangshierbujiandenansheng，tapaichuleshangxindeyanlei。

 dajiejiandaoyipangdedaerzi，zhufutayiqilaianzheyanxiazheiyiwuchidenvxing。yinci，dajieyuerzibanvxinganzaidimianshang，daguobuqingchuduozhangshijian，zaipangbiandenanshengzeyishengbuhang。

 zheiyishierdejieguoshi：meinvbeisonglaidaoyiyuanmenzhen，guohoudajiejiapeilesanwanyuanqian。neishihoudesanwanbingbushiyigexiaoshumu。

 rujinwohuixiangdaozheijianshiqing，qingjinghuanshijiyiyouxin。dajiejibaidisanzhelemeiyou?shide，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomatajibailedisanzhe。dantadezuofa，queshizuifengxiande。jiaruhuanyigeqiangshiyidiandenansheng，tadezuofahaowuyiwenhuidebuchangshi。neima，yaoxiangjibaidisanzhe，zuishidudezuofashishenmeni?zheisangeliucheng，nixuyaolejie。

搜集直接证据以不变应万变

 weiheyaoxiansoujizhijiezhengju，yibubianyingwanbianni?zheijiuxuyaocongwoguodehunyinfalvjiqidaodelunliqujiangguo。pochanfayaoqiu，youzhixiqinshuzheyubierentongjushenghuozaocheng liyide，wuguocuofangyouquanyaoqiusunshipeichang。ciwai，lingyifangchuguile，nideyaoyouzhijiezhengju，meiyouzhijiezhengjubianshuotawaiyu，tarenruhelaijianxinnilei?

 yeyouyidianhenzhongyaodebianshi，woguojiatinghunyin，beiwaiyudeyifangtongchangshichuyubeidongdeyifang，erchuyubeidongjiufeichangrongyibeidaizhezou，yinci ，nisoujidaozhijiezhengjuyihou，jiukeyihuachuyubeidongweijiji，buguannixianglihunhuanshizhengjiuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，duinieryanquanshiyoudaliangyichude。

先礼后兵决不手抽筋

 diyibugaohaoyihou，zaiduinishuodezhangfujiqidisanzhe，nizaoyilejietamendeshier，erqieyoujutidezhijiezhengju，jitamenyicijihui。

 jiarutabulicaini，zaicitadechugui，niyejiujuebunengshouchoujin，yiqieyizhaoqiangshidezuofa，caozongtadehuiji，jiqitonggaoqinrenpenyou，qianqushangyizheijianshiqing，juebunengyouyuzaiyitadexingfudedingyi，ergubuzifeng。

自我反省提高认识

 xuduo qingkuangxia，nidenanrenhuiwaiyu，nixuyaoxiangyixiangzishendeshenshangyoumuyouyuangu。liru，nijitamendeshijiantaiguosuiyi，niduitaderichangshenghuowanzhangwodebuzu，jiqiweibawotadehuijidongtaixing。ziran，haiyaofangongzishengyixia，nishibushiduitabuzuhao，huanshijiwoduinideaijiqiguanzhubuzu。

 lingwaizhengquerenshixianjieduanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodetaishi，jiqilejietagendisanzhedeganqinglaidaoyigenaxiedeshuiping。aiqingchuguineiyangcaikeyitongguozhuangkuangkanshizhi，taweihewaiyu，ruhewanquanduanjuetawaiyudelumian。