男人变心，该怎么对待第三者

 doushuorendebenxingshijingbuzhumoliande，gengbieshuoshihunyinshenghuo。jiaruoyoudisanzhejiazajinqu，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomajiaruniyaoweichishahuhushanjierenyichoushen，neitongchangyehuibeicongmingrensuobiyi。nanrenbianxinzhendemengshi，yaoganmianduixiaotiaoderenshengdaolu。zuoweilaopo，weilegenghaodishouweizishenjianxinjianlidejiayuan，erbushiweitarenzuohunsha，haiyaoxiangyixianggaizenyangtupocaisuanshi。yingduidisanzhedejuejiedu，niwubimingbaiyierbuneng。

第一恶毒绝技：写匿名信给第三者

 jiaruniyaorangdisanzhecongcichebing，niwubiyaozuochuyixiexingdongbuneng。zuixianninengjidisanzhexieyifengnimingxin，xinliqueligaozhita，nizheijinjintishi，jiarulingyifangbuyuancongcibashou，haigennidelaogongjiuchanbuxiu，neimaniyejiuhuijiangzheishifabuyudisanzhedeqiyequanbupengyou，zhongjiuwuzhongkoushuojin，jihuixiaogu，rangdisanzhejianglaimeifazaiqiyelizuyu。erqienixuyaoranglingyifanglejienijuebushisongrentingwen，zhishinijuedehuodejiuzuodedao。yaocushinitingzhixingdong，neimajiexiaqujiukandisanzhedezhuyaobiaoxian。jiarudisanzhequeshijuededaohuangkongbuan，bianhuilejienibushishengyoudedengde，buhaorejiudeduo，jiudetao，nanrenbianxindangranhaipazaibahunwailianzuoweierxi。

第二恶毒绝技：让第三者给丈夫再扣顶戴绿帽

 jiranxiangyingduidisanzhe，neimazhiyingduitashibuhaode，yeyaojinizhangfucihoudiaozhengxintai。xiangbanfaqingrenshengchanzhizaoyixiehedisanzhehetarenpapadejushi，paichengxiangpian。suihoubujingyidifangdaonizhangfukeyikandedaodediqu，shitajuededaonvxingdeganqingbianhuaduoduanhekehen，shitalejiedisanzhejirannenggougensuimeiyouyaoduoshaoqiandeta，dangranjiukeyigensuijiagechudegaoxiedebiedenansheng，erbushiduitaqueshiyounaxiehuamiangan。baituonanshengxinlidenagepengdaodisanzhehaoxiangjiuxunzhaozhenzhengdeaiqingdemeng，rangnanshengconghunwailianzhongchoushenchuqu，chechuzheicihunwailianshoujiyouxi。erqierangnanshengcihouyegangkaishikandidisanzhedeweiren，buyuanyigendisanzhehaiyouyiqiedexiangjiao，neiyangjiukeyicongneiposuinanshengdehunwailian。

第三恶毒绝技：要让第三者难过失落

 xuduo disanzhewangwanglunluodisanzhe，zuizhongtongchangshiganqingheqiancaidenupu。nigenjukonghexinrangdisanzhelejieshenmeshiweibeiliangxinzezhuxin，meitianguodehuangkongbuandoushiyouyuzheiyiyoufunanshengsuoci。genjurangnanshengzhudongduanjuegendisanzhedelianluo，rangdisanzhelejienanshengdekehen，youqishiyihunnanrenzishenbianshibahunwailiandangyouxiyule，suiyiwanyiwanbale，rangtalejieyikaishibianshizishenjiuyouziqubunenghuo。zishenjinzaocongzheiyiduanqingganzhongchoushenshijishangduizishenyeshiyizhongbaituo。erjiuchanbuqingzongshiweizijichanshengdaliangdetongchu，hairangzishenzheiyishengqiongtumolu。yinci momodiliqucaisuanshidejieju。

 zuoweiyigelaopo，weimuzegang，zuoshizeqiang。weilegenghaodibaohuzijidejiayuan，shouweizishendeganqing，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomacaihuiduizhangfudenianhuarecaoyijuposui，jinguanfangshiguoduqiangshileyixie，keshizheiyeshiyigelaopoduizishenganqingdezhengdangfangwei。youyuyijuposuidisanzhedegongji，caisuanshiduizishenhunyinshenghuodemanzuhekuanrong。