当老公外遇妻子的心态

 waiyuzheiyigecisheidoubuxiangfashengzaizijideshenbian，talizijishiyueyuanyuehao。danshi，youxieshibushinibuxiangtatajiubuhuilaide，ruguozhiyaoyouyifangbachibuzhu，jiukenengfancuo，jintianjiulaishuoshuodanglaogongyoulewaiyuzheigehuati。

一、当老公外遇妻子的心态

danglaogongwaiyuqizidexintaifanying：6zhong

第一种：质疑心态

 congqinmidelianren，daoenaidefuqi。buruhunyindenvrendouyiweizijizhaodaolexingfudegangwan，shenbiandeairenjiushipeitayiqimanmanbianlaoderen。

zaiaideyaolanlizuozhexingfumeimengdeqi，zenhuiqingyixiangxinshenbiandenanrenhuiyiqingbielianni?

jihusuoyounvrenzaidedaozheigexiaoxishi，douhuijuedebukezhixin，huozheshigenbenbuyuanyixiangxin。

第二种：自卑心态

qizizaibuyuanxiangxin，buyuanchengren，yebukenengyongyuanziwoqipian。cankudeshishijiubaizaineili，buyounitaobi。

 dangzhidaolaogongchuguiyichengshishi，dangzhidaolaogongxinliyouyoulebiedenvren，shenshendeshiluoganbianhuixiongyongerlai，suizhierlaidehaiyouqiangliedezibeixintai。

nvrenhuixiang：nandaowobuzaiyouxiyinlile。

第三种：怨恨心态

 laogongyoudisanzhe，meiyounagenvrenhainengqidingshenxian。cengjingdeshiyansuifengqu，zhenshideganqingbianlezhi，yiqiedefuchucaolaodoubaifei。

 mianduicanpodeganqing，yaoyaoyuzhuidehunyin，qizihuibaonu、huikuqi、huiyuanhen。shoushangdeqiziyuanlaogong、hendisanzhe，shenzhixiangneiduiwochuodenannvfachuedudezuzhou!

bunengbushuo，beiyuanhenjiuchandenvren，kelian，yekepa。

第四种：报复心态

xinzhongyounuqi，youyuanhen，baofudexintaijiuziranerranchanshengle。zheiyeshizaoyubeipandenvrenzuizhengchangdexintaifanying。

yibanlaishuo，baofushouduanyouliangzhong。yishizhenduidisanzhede：da，ma，jiefa，fanzhengjiushirangtabuhaoguo;

 ershizhenduilaogongde，damazheidoubusuansha。nanrenchugui，nvrenyekeyichugui，jilaogongdaidianlv，nvrendexintaiyejiupinghengle。

 bizheigegengshende，shicaiyongbaolishouduan，youxieqizizailaogongchuguihou，huiqi“shafu”deniantou。xinghao，zheitongchangzhitingliuzaixiangxiangjieduan……

第五种：蔑视心态

mianduilaogongchuguinengyongyouzheizhongxintaidenvren，qineixinshibijiaoqiangdade，tongchangyebijiaoyouxinxin。

 nvrencengjingrendingde、zhenshidenanren，rujinqueluchulezhenmianmu。yuanlaitayebuguoruci，yuwaibiandenanrenmeishenmebenzhiqubie。

qiziziranhuichanshengkantouyiqiedemieshixintai。erzheizhongxintainengrangnvrenbiandegengjianqiang，yegengyizouchuqinggankunjing。

第六种：自强心态

nengyongyouzheiyixintaidenvrenzhidezanshang。nengzhenzhengzaixintaishangzuodaobuyifuyunanrendenvren，shizaibuduo。

 doushuonanerdangziqiang，qishizheijuhuatongyangshiyongyunvren。yigeshenxianzibei、yuanhen、baofuzheixiefumianqingxuzhongdenvren，zhudingdebudaoxingfu。

zhiyouganzouneixiehuaiqingxu，yongyouzizunzixinziliziqiangdenvrencainengchuangzaozhenzhengdexingfushenghuo。

二、当老公有了外遇怎么办 聪明女人应该这么做

 danglaogongyoulewaiyuwogaizenmeban?nanrenchuguibingbuyiweizhewanquandebeipan，zuoweiqizishouxianyaobaochilizhi，jiusuanjiejubutaihao，yebuzhiyutainankan。xiamianjiujiaonichulilaogongwaiyudesigebuzhou。

laogongyouwaiyulewogaizenmeban(ting，kan，ting，ranhoujinshendifuzhuxingdong)

 laogongyouwaiyulewogaizenmeban?ruguoniyongyixieshijianhaohaodixiangxiangzijidehunyin，hezijijiujingyouheqiwangyuxuyao，nijiuhuizhaodaoshihezijidedaan。zheimezuoyexuyaohuashangyixieshijian，erqiekenenghuishifentongku，danshizheiyiqiedouyaokaonizijilaizuojueding——yigenixinganqingyuandejueding。youtaiduodenvrenzaizuojuedingshi，xiguantingmingyuzhangfuhuoqitayouquanweideren，xianzaizheigejuedingkenengshitamenzixingzuochudediyigedajueding。

laogongyouwaiyulewogaizenmeban(aiziji，yueshishiyiyueshiyaogengjiaaiziji)

 zhideqiangdiaodeshi，yigelianzijidoubuaidenvren，shimeiyouquanliqudedaonanrengengduohegengjiachijiudeaide。dangran，wozheiyangshuobingbushirangnvrenmendouquzisi，buguanbierendesihuo。ershijiaotamenyaozilian、zixinheziwotigao，yaoshishichuchuxinzhongdouyouziji，bingbushiyumeidibazijizuoweinanrendefushupin。

 nvrenhunyindebuxingyouxiangdangbilidoushiyoutamenbugouaizijierzaochenghuozheshiyingxiangde。tebieshidangnanrenduitashaoweibiaoshichuyizhongxiedaihuozheshilengmozhishi，tahuigengjiabudongdeaiziji。neixinhuibiandemangran，huigengjiabuzixin，yushipoguanziposhuai，buxiubianfu，pengtougoumian，congerjiasuzijidelaohua，jiaqiangzijizainanrenxinmuzhong“yanjuan”dexinhao。ruciyilai，bianxingchengyizhongexingxunhuan，buyongwaimiandedisanzhechushou，zijiyehuibeizijidabai。

laogongyouwaiyulewogaizenmeban(fahuiqizideyoulidishi，yiyishouweigong)

 laogongchuguilewogaizenmeban?hewaimiandedisanzhexiangbi，woyizhirenweiqiziwuluncongqinggan、shehuihaishicongshijianluojishangdouzhanjinletianshidilirenhe。yibanqingkuangxia，zhiyaonengjishixuanzhunyoulidixing，buqingyiqichengjingong，ruoshiyishouweigongdehua，duobanshikeyishengquanzaiwode。pajiupaneixiechenbuzhuqi，qituxiwang“yilifuren”he“yiqishiyaren”denvren，biaomianshangkanlaikeyidashengrangjiju，relaiyixierendeweiguan，dedaojigerendetongqinghezhichi，qishitaqueshiquzuiweizhongyaodeyigerenhezuiweizhongyaodeyigediwei，zheigerenjiushitadelaogong，zheigediweijiushitazuoweiqizidehaoranhekuanrong。ruciyinao，youlijiubianchenglemeili，ziweijiubianchenglegongji，houguowangwangshirenweinanyukongzhide。

laogongyouwaiyulewogaizenmeban(zongjiejingyan，kaiduanxinrizi)

 wulunshizhongguiyuhao，rengshihaojuhaosan，douyaocongtouhuiguyixiagongzuodeguocheng，zongjiejingyan。zheimezuodehaochujiuzaiyu，wanghouduidaihaoqinghuiyujiadelixing，zhujiandongdeduifangdexinsi，lejiedaoleduifangdexintai，biannenggouzuodaoyoudefangshi，tuijinhaoqingrizideyoushan。lianggerenzaiyiqi，bubidingyaozuodaodongduifang，danshiyourenhedegongzuoqiejiqueshaojiaoliu。jiaoliushirenyurenzhijiandeqiaoliang，zhiyaotongchangcainenggoukehuadiaohedeqingganguanxi。danglinghuidaolezhiqianlvlidequanbu，bianshouchengdaolezhuyaoderenshenglvli，zaodaozheimedezhiyin，duijianglaiderizifaxiandewentinenggouzuodaofanghuanyuweiran，dongdezenmefangzhilaogongyouwaiyudeyixiejiqiao：guanyuzhongguiyuhaodehaoqing，wanghoulianggerendeguanxinenggouyuelaiyueyanmi;guanyuyipailiangsandehaoqing，shiduoyixiaqianhaodexinjing，jiangtamentongtongdiudiao，quchixuxunmiyiduanxindehaoqingba。

 xiaobianzongjie：guanjianshikannigerenganjueba。ruguoqueshijieshoubulewaiyu，neijiuxuanzelihun，ruguohaishiaizheta，neijiuyuanliangtayici。danglaogongyoulewaiyubugai，zheiyangdenanrenjiusuanleba。danglaogongyoulewaiyubugai，zheiyangdenanrenhaiyoushenmezhideniliuliandeni。