聪明男人会这样做，当丈夫知道妻子有外遇后

 henduoshihouwomenzhishuonanrenyouwaiyu，danshiquehenshaoshuonvrenyouwaiyu，danglaogonghuaiyiqiziyouwaiyuhou，yibanhuizenmezuoni，dangzhangfuzhidaoqiziyouwaiyuhouyouhuizenmezuoni，xiamianjiulaikankanba

一、当老公怀疑妻子有外遇，妻子怎么做

 1、shouxian，niyaozhengshiziji：nilaogongshifouyizhishigekuanrongdaduderen，haishiyigeyixinbinghenzhongderen?ruguonilaogongyiguanduoyi，zhipingnilaogongmuqiandehuaiyishangqiebunengkendingnichuguile。

 ruguonilaogongyizhiduinihendadu，neimexiangxinlaogongzuoweizhangfudehuaiyiduoshaoyouxieliyou。neimeniyinggaijingjuele，nongqingchushishizhenxiangshibiyaode。

 2、dangran，youdeqizihuiyinweishoubuleliangxinqianzedejianaozhudongxiangzhangfutanbaide;yeyoudeyinweizhendeaishangleqingrenerbuguyiqiedeyaotanbaibingfangqizhangfude;danshishishangdaduoshuyoulewaiyudeqizizaizhangfumeiyouqueqiedezhengjuzhiqianbingbuhuichengren。yuanyinhenduo：a，qingrenyeyoujiating，bingbunengjitarenheweilai;b，rengranliulianzijidezhangfu;c，laizijiatingheshehuideyulunyali，yinweizuoweibeipandeyifang，tadebudaoyulundetongqing;d，jinjinshichuyuduiyuzhangfuyiwaidenanrendehaoqi;e，zhangfubunengzaixingshenghuoshangmanzuta，tazijiyegandaonanyiqichiqutouhuan。

 3、bixuyulaogongrenzhendetanpai，mingquenidetaidu;jishinilaogongzuoweizhangfunenggouyuanliangni，zheiyeshizuihoudejihui，nibixutanchengdedaoqian。

 dangran，yexunidehuidashi：naliyoua?nishishenjingbinga。ruguoshizheizhongtaidu，duitadeshanghaijiangshijudadeshenzhishinanyiwanhuide·yinweitameiyouzhengjushibuhuishuodehehuaiyi·

二、当丈夫知道妻子有外遇后，丈夫怎么做

diyi，jieshoushishi，lengjingmiandui，buxuanyangbubaofu。

 qizichuguizheizhongniyiqianhuoxucongweixiangguodeshiqing，fashengzainishenshang。zainiquedingzhichu，nanyizhixinshikendingde。danshiyouxieshiqing，fashenglejiushifashengle，buhuiyigerendeyizhierzhuanyi。xiangxinyehao，buxinyeba，zheijianshiqingdouyijingfasheng。zainiquerenqiziyijingchuguizheijianshishizhihou，nizuixiannengzuode，jiushijieshouzheigeshishi，chenzhelengjingmiandui。suhuashuodehao，jiachoubukewaiyang。qizichuguizheizhongshiqing，duinihetaeryan，doushijiweibuguangcaideshiqing。shiqingnaodahuozhejiangxiaoxixuanyangchuqu，taguranshishenbaiminglie，nizijidedaishang‘lvmaozi’deshiqing，yehuibianderenjinjiezhi。erqieyidanzheiyang，nidejiayejiuchediwandan，zaiwufuhekeneng。xiangxinzheizhongjieguo，juebushinixiangyaode。

 qizichugui，duiyunidedajikexiangerzhi。danshi，zuoweiyigenanren，yueshiyudaodashi，jiuyueyaolengjing。fouze，yidannibeizheigeshishidaji，congciweimibuzhen，neimezhinengbaibaibianyilebieren。erruguonirenbuzhuxintoudenuhuo，faxiebaofu，youshiweifanfalvdexingwei。bujinkenengweijitarenrenshenanquan，haikenenghuileniziji。yidannicaiquzheizhongbuhefadeshouduan，jiaporenwangjihushikeyixiangxiangdejieju。bunengbaofudisanzhe，tongyangbukebaofuqizi，baolidexingwei，henkenengjiangtachedituixiangduifang，jiangnizijisongjinjianyu。

dier，zixisikao，fenxiyuanyin。

 fanshiyouguobiyouyin，ruguofuqixiangchuhexie，taturanchuguidekenengxingjihumeiyou。rujinshiqingjiyifasheng，neimeshichubiranyouyin。qizichugui，guranshiqiancuowancuo。danshinizaisikaoyuanyindeshihou，xudexianjiangtadecuowufangdaoyibian，zixixiangxiangnimenguoqudexiangchu。nishifouzhangqipeibanzaitashenbian，duitagoubugouhao，aitagoubugouduo。haiyounidemeilishifouyijiu，niaitadefangshi，shibushitaxiangyaode。yibanlaishuo，nimencongxiangzhixiangliandaojiehun，ruguoniyidianwentidoubuchu，tayeyinggaibuhuihaowudaolidechugui。dangran，niyebunengwanquanpaichuzheizhongkeneng，bijingrenxinshigaibiande，nvrenyouqishanzhangbijiao。zheishijiemeiyouzuiyouxiuzhiyougengyouxiu。danshi，buguanshishenmeyuanyin，nidoudejinkuaizhaochuyuanyin。yinweiweiyouruci，cainengfangbiannijiexialaidejuedinghexingdong。

disan，kaowenbenxin，jinshenjueding

 qiziyijingchugui，hunyinshifouhaijixu?zheigewentixuyaonizijilaihuida。hunyinbushierxi，bushishuojiejiujie，shuolijiuli。hunyinshinimenliangrendeshiqing，danshilihunhuidiaodebujinzhiyounimendejiating，haihuishangjinimendeernv，shuangfangdefumu。fumunianmai，tamenyijingjingbuqinimensuiyidezheteng，ernvyeshiwugude。weileweilai，shihehaishili，yidingyaojinshenkaolv。

 zaizuochujuedingzhiqian，yexianhaohaoxiangxiangnimenzhijiandeganqing，kankanshifouhainengjixuxiangchuxiaqu。zhiyaohaiyouyisikeneng，neimejiujinliangbiefangqi。bijing，nimencongxiangzhixiangliandaojiehun，bingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，genghekuangnimenhaiyoujiatingqinren。ruguonijuedeyiqiehaiyoukeneng，niyeyuanyijixuxiaqu，neimejiuyaoquzuobaifenbaidenuli。

 qizichugui，duiyunieryandequeyouxienanyiyuanliang。danshi，shirendouyoufancuodeshihou，tabijingzhishiyigenvren，bushishengren。yexu，zuichudechugui，bingfeitadebenyi，youhuozhezhishihaoqixinzuosui，buxiaoxinwanhuoguodu。jieshoubingbaorongyigechuguideqiziduinieryan，dequebushiyijianrongyishi。danshi，jiranniyijingjuedingxiangchu，neimenidechangshizhequzuo，erqiejinliangyaozuohao。yucitongshi，nihaidejinlianggaibianziji，fengfushenghuo，tishengzijidemeili，genghaodexiyinta。

 erzaizuochuzheizhongjuedingdeshihou，niyebufangxinpingqihedehaohaoheqizitantan，kankanshiqingshifouhainengwanhui。ruguotahaixincunkuijiu，neimenijiuhaihenyoujihui;ruguotayijingtielexin，juewuwanhuidekeneng，neimenijiugaijinzaozuodasuan。lihunbiranshejijiachan，nidejinzaoshulihaojiachan，tongshijinliangxuanzehepingdefenshoufangshi，jianglihunduiqinrenmendeshanghaijiangdaozuidi。

buguo，zheiyezhishijuewukenengjixuguoxiaqudezuihuaidasuan，nengbuxuanzelihunjinliangbuyaoxuanze。

 shenchuzhizuijinmidedangjinshehui，henduorenzongshihuibuzijuedebeimileyan，zoushangwaiyudebuguilu。zuoweinanren，zuitongkudeshiqingdagaimoguoyubeidailvmaole，zunyansaodi、yanmianbucun……danshijinguanruci，henduobuweirenzhidexinsuanrangnanrenbudebudasuiyawangduliyan，jieshoulaopowaiyudezheigeshishi，kewangzhongxinfuhuolaopodexin，rangtahuixinzhuanyi。danglaopoyouwaiyu，zenyangrangtahuitouni?

 danglaopowaiyushi，nanrenkenengzhiguzheqianzehebaoyuanzijidelaopo，quehulvelelaopowaiyudezhenzhengyuanyin，henduorendoujuedenvrenwaiyushiyinweinvrentianshengshuixingyanghua，xihuanzaiwaimianzishi，danshijuyanjiubiaomingjiuchengnvrenwaiyushiyinweinanren，nanrenbujingyijiandeshangrenjudonghuohushihuirangnvrenzhaobudaoguishugan，zheigeshihounvrenshenbianruguochuxiannengjitaanquangandenanren，nvrenwangwangrongyibachibuzhu，congerniangchengwaiyudedahuo。chucizhiwai，nvrenwaiyushiweilebaofunanren，suoyinanrenxianziwofanshengyixia，zijishifouzuoleshenmeduibuqilaopodeshimeiyou。

 nvrenzaiduidaiwaiyushanggennanrendexiangfabuyiyang，nvrenyidantashangwaiyudelukenengjiuzhendeshihuochuquanbule，zaitachudiyibushijiuzuohaolerihouhuibeifaxiandezhunbei。duinvrenlaishuo，waiyukenengshicijide，jiuxiangkanleyibujingxianpian，xingfendewuyiyanbiao，zheizhongganjuemanmandehuiqinshidiaofuzuigan。henduoshihounvrengengjiayaoqiang，buhuiqingyiditou，yidanbeifaxian，nvrenhuizidongtuichu，yigaozitaijieshuzheiduanhunyin。ernanrenruguoxiangyaorangnvrenhuitou，bixurangnvrenxinfukoufu，errangnvrenxinfukoufudeweiyizhishengdianjiushinizugouainidelaopo。suoyinanrenxiangyaowanhuiwaiyudelaopo，zuizhongyaodeshiranglaopomingbaizijiduitadeaiyouduomeshen，rangtazhidaonibingbushiyinweipalihunerwanhuita，nisuozuodeyiqiedoushiyinweitaiaita，niyuanyijitamibuzijidejihui。

 chucizhiwai，nanrenxiangyaonvrenhuitou，mianduinvrenwaiyudezhengquechulifangshijiushibiaomingzijidetaidu，ranglaopozhidaozijizhendenengyuanliangtazhiqiandesuozuosuowei，baozhengrihoujuekoubuticishi，dangranqiantishilaopozhendenengshouxin，yerenshidaozijidecuowu。fuqixiangchuzuizhongyaodeshikuanronghexinren，jiranxuanzeyuanliangneimejiucongtouzailai，zuoweinanren，rucidadu，laopoyehuijinshouyandide，zicizhihouhuigengjiahaohaozhenxizheiduanhunyin。

 dangran，bingbushisuoyounvrenwaiyudougennanrenyouguanxi，bijinglinzidaleshenmeniaodouyou，nanrenyouhebidiaosizaiyikeshushangni，youshihouwaiyushikeyibeilijiede，danzheibunengzuoweiwaiyuzhehefadejiekou，bijingwaiyushiduihunyindedianwu，jishishuangfangnengbingshiqianxian，zhongxiujiuhao，danbahenyongyuandouhuizai，shangkouyongyuanwufamoqu。