zenmewanhuilaogongdexinzhongxinaishangni,zaiganqingli,henduoshihouhuiyinweiyixieyuanyinershiquleduifangdexin。danzhiyaowomenxiangyaoqinfenquwanliu,jiuyidingyouhenyoukenengzhongxindedaotamendeai。yixiashiyixiewanhuizhangfuxinfangshi:
1.真诚道歉并表达感受

zuixian,womenxuyaozhenxinchengyizhiqian。bingbuyiweizhenixuyaorenkequanbudebuzhengque,ershiyinggairenkezheixieduiyunimenguanlianzaochengshanghaideshier。yucitongshi,womenxuyaobiaodanideganshou,rangtamingbainiyeshizhenxinshiyixuyaoxiubuzheiduanganqing。keyigaozhitaniyouduoaita,baokuonixiwangtanenggoupeizainishenbian。keshibuyaotaiguoyuqingxubuwending,yaobaochilixinghelixing。
2.同理心了解对方心理差异
nanrennvrenxinlichayifeichangda,suoyinanrendesiweiluojiyunvrenshibuyiyangde,zheiyeshiweishenmehenduonvxingganjuewufalijienansheng。yiner,ruguonixiangrangnidelingyibanhehaoruchu,neimenixuyaodongdezhanzaitadejiaodusikaowenti,shizhelijietadexiangfaheganshou。neiyangnicaihuikeyigenghaodehetagoutongjiaoliu,erqiexunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。
3.复建自尊心并有效的沟通
zaiyiduanguanxizhong,ruguoyifangjuedebeihulvehuobubeizunzhong,neitamenwangwanghuixuanzeliquzheiduanganqing。yiner,ruguonixiangyaorangnidelingyibanhehaoruchu,neimenixuyaofujiantadezizunxin,rangrengandaozishenshihenzhongyaode。yucitongshi,niyexuyaoxuexipeixunruheyouxiaodihetagoutongjiaoliu,shitazhangwozijidexuqiuheqiwang。neiyangnimenzhijiandeganqingcaikeyigengjiankangzhangqiwending。
4.给与时间与空间
zenmewanhuilaogongdexinzhongxinaishangni,jinguannihenyoukenengxiangyaojinkuaidirangzhangfuhehaoruchu,dannibixumingbaizheixuyaoshijianhexixin。jitayixieshijianyukongjianlaisikaozheigewenti,erqieyerangninenggouqushenshizijigerenxingweihexingwei。neiyangnimenbicicaikeyigenghaodilejiebicizhijiandeyaoqiuheqidai,erqiexunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。
5.共同回忆和故事
gongtongdejingliyuzhuiyinenggoujiazhongrenyurendeqingganlianjie。ninenghetayiqihuailianguoqudemeihaohuiyi,huoshifanganyixiexindezhutihuodonglaijianligongtongdejiyi。zheiyangbujinnengrangnimenzhijiandeguanxigengjinmi,haikeyirangtayishidaonishiyigeyoupinweidenvzi。

ziran,wanliunanrenxinbingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing。zheixiangyaoniyouchongzudeyongqihedeyongqiyingjietiaozhan,bingyuanyifuzhunuliqubaituokunjing。ruguonizhenaitaerqiexiwangtanenggoupeizainishenbian,neimejiubixuzuochuyixieshizhishangdegenggailaishuomingnidechengxin。jilao,zuizhongyaodejiushiyaozhenxinchengyikandailianggerendeganqing,erqiezishizhizhongjianshoudaodedixian。weiyouruci,dajiacaikeyijianliqiyigeshenxinjiankang、xiangduiwendingdeguanlian。
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