发现老公外遇的第三者不要慌

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一、发现老公外遇的最聪明处理办法

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如果老公的态度真诚并且决定痛改前非，在弄清楚老公出轨的前因后果下，可以酌情审理下。但不论怎么样，在第一时间抓到老公有外遇怎么办，不管在哪里即使当时你再生气都不要当着很多人的面大吵大闹，尤其是不要告诉男方的家人，若你的老公是一个孝顺的人，他肯定不想他的父母知道而批评他，为你们的事操心，他一心想做父母眼中的好孩子，如果你让他父母失望了对你也没有好处。毕竟老人也帮不到你什么，感情的事就应该自己解决。总之冲动是魔鬼，男人面子，哪怕是他犯错之后在最应该为他保留面子的时候你践踏了他的尊严，他会借这局势干脆和你一刀了断的，要是你不想挽留还好，若是你还想和他继续下去，那只会适得其反，让老公离你越来越远。所以，如果你对自己有足够的自信，老公被你逮个正着时，你要超乎平常的冷静，一切等到回家关上门再说。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

二、发现老公外遇的第三者怎么办？

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