发现老公多次外遇,聪明的女人都这么做

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一、发现老公多次外遇，千万要稳住。

 qianmianshuole，xianzaiwangluomeitineimefada，bushuoninengbunengdadeguodisanzhe，jiusuandadeguo，beirenpaixiashipinchuandaowangshang，chuletuzengbierendefanhoutanzi，yingxiangzishenxingxiangyiwai，jibenmeiyoubiedezuoyongle。dadeguodisanzhe，nanrenjiuhuiguaiguaihuidaonishenbianma？zheishihunyin，bushikongshoudaobisai。

 zheigeshihou，nizuiyinggaizuodejiushiwenzhuzijideqingxu，jinkenengdezhidaoshiqingdezhenxiang，nongqingchudaodishinizijiwuzhongshengyouhaishiqueyouqishi。fouze，baibaiwuhuilezijilaogongbushuo，hainongdezijimingshengsaodi，jiutaichongdongle。

二、发现老公多次外遇时应该准确分析事情的经过。

如果你确定了你老公真的出轨了，这时你的愤怒是可以理解的，但是这还不是你可以发怒的时机。现在你应该忍住你所有的负面情绪，精心思考你的老公为什么会出轨。很多时候男人出轨都是因为自己的婚姻有问题，发现老公嫖娼加外遇是你没有给到他想要的生活。如果问题出在你身上，那你应该好好的自我反思了。如果老公是真心爱你的，那么当你提升自己，改掉所有错误行为，他也会回到你身边的。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

三、发现老公再次有外遇时这是你做决定的时候了。

 dangnifaxianlaogongchuguibushiyinweinideyuanyin，faxianlaogongpiaochangjiawaiyushitaderenpinyouwenti，neinijiugaixiadingjuexin。yaomeshuangkuailihun，yaomechuyuaiyuanliangtazheiyici，danshiyaotabaozhengmeiyouxiayici，zaiyoujiuguoduanlihun。zuozheijianshideshihouyaoyansuguoduan，ranglaogongbeinideqichangzhenshedao，congcibuganzailuanlai。

四、发现老公外遇如果他屡教不改，那么就收起你的心软吧。

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五、关于调查婚外情取证问题。

1、自家取证

 zijiachuangshang“zhuojian”paizhaohefayouxiao。ruguojinruzijiachuangbian，juqishexiangji“kaca”paixiachuangshangshikuang，zhaopianbeifayuanrendingdekenengxingjiaoda。

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2、“别人家”取证

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3、公共场所取证

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4、sirenzhentan、diaochagongsidequzheng

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