家庭条件被婆家嫌弃，哭着挽回男友的话能挽回吗？

 xuduolianrendeqingganfazhanqushidaoyidingdeguochengzhongbianhuijindaoxiangqinjiehundehuanjie，erzaizheigeshihou，nvxingdejiatingtiaojianbeipopojiakanbushang，huiposhinanpengyouyunifenkai，nigaizenmeban？shiwanliutahuoshi？huozheyujiaposipolianpi？qiadangdefangshiyingdangyongziyideqinfenbaituonanpengyoujiaduinidechengjian，wanhuinanyou。zheishijieshangyouxierenshifushang，kuzhewanhuinanyoudehua，yeyouxierenshiqiongguangdan，bubiyouyuwuzhishenghuojiufourenyigeren。

1、要有自身单独经济发展收益

 yaoxiangdedaotarendezhongshi，jiuwubibaozhengdiyibububishenchushouxiangtarennaqian。nvxingzaoshounanpengyoujiakanbushangjiatingtiaojianbutaihao，yidingyaoweichizishendezijinshouyi，henanpengyouzaiyiqibubihuatadeqian，yutayiqichulaiyongcanyaobujiuaazhihuoshizheidunshitaqingle，xiayiciniqinghuita。neiyangdexingwei，yeshizaitaqinrenyanqianzhanxiannidezizun。huoxunidejiatingtiaojianshibutaihao，shiqiong，keshinizhibuduan。，neiyangdezuofa，keyihuodetamenduinidezhongshi。

2、确保不占有他们家的資源

 xuduopopojiakanbushangnvxingjiatingtiaojianbutaihaobianshihaibixubangchentaniangjiaren。huichangchangmaiyuanquleyigeqiongxifuer，shijianjiule，nanshengyehuichuxianrucideguandian，zheiduifuqiguanxishifenbuhao。nvxingchushengdejiatingtiaojianbutaihao，jiububiqidaiyouhenduodehuaxuewuzhiqiancaishentoudao，neiyanghuihuihuaifuqiguanxi。nvxingzishenniangjiarendeyiqihuaxiao，douxuyaobaozhengbushiyongnanxingjiadeziyuan，yaozishenchuli。jiarunvxingkeyibaozhengzhedian，neimapopojiayemeiyouliyouyaoshuonishenme，danyougujiyehuijiangdi。

3、自身要努力挣钱

 beipopojiakanbushangjiatingtiaojianbutaihao，zhuyaoyuanguyeshiyouyuqian。jiarushuangfangqingganfeichanghao，daolexiangqinjiehunhuanjiexianzaishishihou，popojiazhongtushachukanbushangjiatingtiaojianerbutongyinimenbiciwanhun，queshishihenbiequde。henduorendoushuo“gandehaoburujiadehao”，zheiyeshishuodebingbushiquanduide，yuqishuodenghouzheiyihaibibushangzishennulipinbo，haohaodichongshiziji，rangzishenbianqiangjing，zaigongzuocengmiangaohao，haohaodinulizhengqian。neiyangpopojiayehaipasuibiandihushini，yebuhuizainajiatingtiaojianlaizulannimendezaiyiqile。

 youdeqingkuangxia，renmenzaikanqianzheifangmianqueshihenzhongyao。kuzhewanhuinanyoudehua，jiurutongpopojiahuiyouyunvxingjiatingtiaojianbutaihaozulanlianggerenzaiyiqi。