zenmewanhuilaopodexin,rutongyijizhongquanzadaoxiongfu——tong、huang、naonu、buganxin,haixiangmashangsipolianpi。
danjingxiaxinlaixiangzhe,nizhenxiangchedishiqutama?jiarudaanshikendingde,“zenmewanhuichuguilaopodeneixin”yejiuchenglezuiguanjiandewenti。
yidingyaojizhu:hunyinwentibushizhongdian,zhixufangfadedang,niyirancunzaiqidaizaicihuodetadexin。
cikejiusuannizhejidixiangwanhuita,zheishiyebiebububijin。neimedaodigaizenmezuoni?
一、调整情绪,筑起沟通交流基石
henduonanshidangdezhilaopochuguihou,yaobuyoukuyounao,qingxubengkui,yaomexuanzelengbaoli,xiaochenduobi,erzheiyizuofatongchangzhihuibaxifuyuetuiyueyuan。
zheishi,xianguqieyayiganzhuxinlizhiyiyuchizedexiangfa,jizijiliudianchujitianpingjingxialai。
suihouzhenxinchengyigentashuo:“womingbaishieryexuyidianzhongzhong,dengwomendoupingjingxialai,zailiaoyiliao。”
shishishang,qingxuwendingderengengrongyizhangkongjushi。nilizhifanerhuirangtaxinshengneijiu,congercujintashenshizijigerenxingwei。
ciwai,tongshiyeweinizaojiuleziwofanshengdejihui。yongxinhuiguzijizaihunyinlidezhuduozhuyaobiaoxian,renzhensikaoshibushizaibuzhibujuezhonghushileduifangdeganshou,zainaxiefangmianzuodebugouhaojishi。
二、行为高于一切,重建信任公路桥梁
zhishiduandaofuwuchengnuo“wonenggai”shibugoude,ruoyaowanliuchuguilaopodeneixin,wubifuzhuyushishizaizaidexingdong。
zixihuixiangtacengmaiyuanwandeshier,lirujiawuhuofentanbujunyun,neimejiujijiduodanfujiawu;
zaitaxuyaobangzhushi,diyishijianfashengzaitashenpang。biru,dangtayingongzuopibeierxinqingdiluoshi,qingqingdigentashuo:“womingbainijinqileidegouqiang,woyizhizaizheili,zhiyaonixuyao,wowushiwukedouzai。”
renwangwanggengrongyiduibierenchixubuduandetouruchanshengyilai,dangtamanmanxiguannidebianhua,tadexindangranjiuhuimanmanxiangnikaolong。
三、造就专属回忆,重新点燃爱的火焰
yiqihuiguguowangzheixienanwangdehuiyi,gouqitaxinliduiyuganqingdezhenxi。
haikeyigongtongqujiechuxinshiwu,suzaoyigexindegerenaihao,zaojiuyigequanxindezhuanshuhuiyi。genjuerrendejiaoliuzhongtigaolianggerendeganqing,rangaidehuoyanzaiciranshaoqilai。
四、提升自己,提高自身风采
zenmewanhuilaopodexin,nenggouhuafeishijianyueduyixieyouguanfuqixiangchuzhidao、qingxukongzhifangmiandeshuji,congzhongjiquconghui,tigaojingyingganqingjiejuewentidenengli;jijicanyuxiuxianhuodong,kuozhanjiaojiquan,chongshizijirichangshenghuo。
ruciyilai,nibujinnengrangzijibiandegengjiachuse,haikeyiyizhanxindexingxiangchuxianzaixifuyanqian,huirangduifangduiniyouquanxinderenshihexinshang,zaicixiyinzhutademuguang。
yishang 4 zhongfangfa,congpingwenjushizhujian,daozhujiancaiquxiangyingxingwei,zhiyaoniyongxinqugan,jianchibuxiediqinfen,jianxintayidinghuikanjiannidegenggai,jinerweiwanhuiqizideneixinchuangzaoyoulitiaojian。
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