陈柏宇

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陈柏宇，原名陈富华，冷爱(花镇联合创始人，guoneinanxingqingganzixundaoshi)diyiqi《qingganzixunshidiziban》dexueyuan，beishouyuqingganzixunshizhicheng。xianrenhuazhenliangxingguanxizhangqiweihu、wanhuileianzizixunshi，jianrenhuazhenvipxingxiangzhidaogongnengzhuanqubanzhu。

xianshangzixunshiyulaifangzhegoutongzhuyaokaowangluo，queshaomianduimiandejiaoliu，duilaifangzhedelejiezhinengkaodianhuaheduifangtianxiededangan。chenboyuchengweizixunshibujiu，tajiedaoleyigewanhuiqinggandedianxinganli。

yiduiqinglvfenshouhou，nvshengyiranaizheduifang，xiwangfuhe，danzheishi，tadeqiannanyouyijinglingxunxinhuanle。dianhuagoutongzhihou，chenboyufaxianlaifangzhejiangshudeshihoujingshenhuanghuerqiejiangshuneirongzixiangmaodun。duibikehufalaidezhaopianyudisanzhedezhaopian，chenboyuyouxiepale，“woyikaishizhendeyiweitafacuole，woshuonizenmefazijidezhaopianni”。zhaopianshangdelianggenvsheng，shenfenxinxijingrendexiangsi，xiangjindelianbutezheng，tongyangdemogutou，tongyangdexingzuo，zhishichuanzheyousuoqubie，mingzizhiyouyizizhicha。danlaifangzheyikouyaodingzheishilianggeren，chenboyuyishidaozheigenvshenghenyoukenengshiyiweirengefenliehuanzhe。

jiezhenvshengxiaoshile，zaitadeganqingwentihaimeiyoujiejuedeqingkuangxia。chenboyuhetadetongshimenjianchimeizhoudoudadianhuajizheigenvsheng，“wochuguole，dengwohuilaizailianxi”，laifangzhejiboyudeqqliuyan，yuedingdeshijiandaole，danchenboyuhaishilianxibudaota。lianzhehenduotian，chenboyudouyinweizheigenvshengshimian，ganggangchengweizixunshihaicongweipengguozheileixingkehudechenboyuyouzhongshuobuchudekongju。

zhichengchenboyuzoudaojintiande，shitadegerenxingqu。

daxueshiqidechenboyufuxiuxinlixue，changchanghuikanyixiexinlixuefangmiandeshu。yiciourandejihui，talejiedaoyouqingganzixunzheifangmiandezhiye，chenboyuciqulezijidediyifengongzuo，yifenhedaxuezhuxiuzhuanyeduikoudeshoushishejigongzuo，tiaocaodaolehuazhen。tajiarulehuazhendeqingganzixunshipeixunban，chengweidiyipixueyuan，neishihoudegongsihaishigangqibudejieduan。

yikaishi，chenboyuzuogongsideguwen，yixiaoshouweizhu，xiaoshoudechanpinshigongsigeweiqingganzixunshideshijianhezhidao。daduoshulaifangzhedoushizaigongsidewangzhanshangliuxialianxifangshi，chenboyumeitianyaojitamendadianhualejieqingkuang，ruguojiejuelezenyangzhuinvshengdewenti，laifangzheyoudadianhualaiwenzenyangyuehuidewenti，laifangzhedewentixiangjiucaiyiyangkanleyouzhang，yudaozheiyang“jiucaixingwenti”delaifangzhe，chenboyuhuiyindaotamenfufeijinxinggengjinyibudexitongdejiejue。

congguwendaozixunshixuyaokaoquhunyinjiatingzixunshidezhengshu，binghuodegongsiderenke。laifangzhedemanyiduhechenboyuduikehudetaidujunweipingpanbiaozhun——gongsitongguotingboyuhelaifangzhededianhualuyin，lejieboyuduilaifangzhederenzhenduheguanxindu，pandingshifoudaodagongsidejizhunxian，gongzuoyinianhou，chenboyuzhengshizhuanzhichengweiyimingzixunshi。

hunyinjiatingzixunshidegongzuoheqingganyouguan，xuyaojigeyuedeshijianlaijiejuewenti，yikaozixunshidetongqingxinhetonglixin，yulaifangzhejinxingxinyuxindejiaoliu。

chenboyusuozaidegongsiliyou17weiqingganzixunshi，hechenboyuyiyangzhuyaofuzewanhuiganqingdezixunshihaiyouyiwei，tadetudi，tamenzhuyaofuzexianshangdelaifangzhe，shangwang、faweixin、dadianhuashitamengongzuodechangtai。

chenboyujinnian25sui，ertazuixiaodekehu29sui。kehumenjingchanghuibanianlinggenzhuanyechengdulianxizaiyiqi，tamenrenweiyiyige25suinanshengdeyueli，buzuyijiejuezijijizanjishiniandeganqingwenti。“meiyoudiercidejihuijibierenliuxiadiyiyinxiang”，suoyichenboyuhenzhuzhongzijidewaixing，sixiaxihuanchuanyundongyidedananhaigongzuoshihuichuanshangzhengshidefuzhuang。

chenboyujingchangyongqingjingmonidefangshigenkehugoutong，tahuihekehuzhongxianyubanlvjianxiangchudechangjing，chenboyubanyanlaifangzhedejiaose，laifangzhebanyanbanlv。laifangzheqinzitiyanzijiduibanlvshuohuadeshentai、yuqi，dagailianggechangjingzhihou，laifangzhejiugantongshenshoule，“tashuotahennanshou，yuanlaishizheiyangdeyizhongganjue，danshitayiqianconglaimeiyoujuedezijishuodehuayouwenti，”laifangzhecongyigeqingbaigandezhuangtaidaokuijiugandezhuangtai，takaishilijiezijidelingyiban。

qingjingmonishiranglaifangzhelijiebanlvdedefangshi，danguadiaodianhuahoudechenboyuqueyouxienanyichuxi。laifangzhepingshiduibanlvshuohuadetaidu，shichenboyushoudaofumianqingxudeyingxiang，“wochangchangzijidairuzheigejiaose，youshihouqueshijuedezijibianchengneigerenle。”xiabanzhihouboyudaizheyixiekuangzao。

youyizhenzi，tameitianyigerenquqingba，yaokaohejiucainengrushui。youyugongzuodeguanxi，chenboyuhebamaxiangchushijianhenshao。xushidangjuzhemipangguanzheqingdekunju，yourenyouyudijiejuetarenqingganchongtudechenboyu，quewufahuajiejiatingmaodun，bamachaojia，tawufahenhaodidiaojie，zhinengtongguofenbiehebamadandudegoutonglaihuanjie，zheirangchenboyuhennanguo。sihusuoyoudeshiqingdougentazuodui，hechenboyuyiqishenghuodeyigeyaohaodepengyouyinweifazhandewentiyaolikaiguangzhoule，tashaolekeyiqingsudeduixiang。

bangbudaolaifangzhedezize，wufahuajiedebamademaodun，pengyoudelikai。neixietian，takuangzao、shimian、jiaolv，fanfusikaozheishibushizijixiangyaode。congzheishihoukaishi，chenboyumeilianggeyuedingqiqukanyicixinliyisheng，fuyijianshendengfangshilaidiaojiezijidexinqing。

chenboyudezhiyexingzhi，cenglingtadenvpengyousangshianquangan。tahendanxinqitadenvsheng，shenzhishizijideguimi，hechenboyujiechuguoderendouhenxihuanta，jishirenshishijianbuzhangyehuihenshu。chenboyuweileanfunvyou，chulekehudegerenxinxiwai，chenboyuhuigennvyoutanbaizijifuzedeanzi，gaosutazijixuyaozuoxieshenme。

jinnianshiyue，chenboyuqiuhunchenggong。youkehuwenta：nimingmingkeyipaohenduonvsheng，weishenmezheimezaojiubeiyigenvshengbangsi。zaichenboyukanlai，tarujindechengjiuzhengdeyiyutayouyiduanzhangqijiankangdeguanxi，“wulunshiwodeshouru，renyuan，shenglixinlijiankangdoushiwodeweihunqidaijiwode。”

zheifengongzuoyelingchenboyuyuelaiyuedongnvpengyoudexin，tachanghuicaidaonvpengyouzaixiangshenme，bimianbubiyaodezhengchao。“wozijizaichengzhang，wozhidaotameigejieduandouyaoshenmele，jiuxiangxianzaiwojuedezijiyinggaijitayigejiaodai。”