失恋了怎么办想挽回，挽回绝情的女人用这3招

 shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？zaiwuqingdenvren，fenshouhouyeyoufuhedeniantou。zhishinengbunenghuitou，jiukanniyoumeiyoudonglirangtahuitou。

 ruguoyigenvrenzhudonghenifenshou，zheiyiweizhetabuxiangjixuhenizaiyiqi。tarenweinibushihezaiyiqi。wulunshijiafenshouhaishizhenfenshou，wodoubuxiangzaifenshoudeneiyikejixuhenizaiyiqi。

 suirannvrengengganxing，yishichongdonghuishuohua，dannvrenyeyoulixingdeyimian。jingguozixikaolv，tahuiwuqingdilikaini。congyikaishi，chongmanqidai，manmankaishizhengchao.zhiyi，zuihouchedishiwang。

 ruguoyigenvrenxianglikaini，buguanniduitayouduohao，douhuichengweiyizhongfudan。youshihoufenshoubingbuyiweizhebuai，ershimeiyouliyouhedonglijianchixiaqu。

 nimenzhijiandemaodunyuelaiyueduo，nimendeguanxijibenshangchuyuweixianzhizhong，dannimencongweiyishidaobinghushibicideganqing。nimendouzaibuduandiceshibicidedixianhezunyan。zuihou，meiyourennengrenshouduifang，suoyinifenshoule。

 zaihuifuzhiqian，niyinggailejienimenzhijiandezhenzhengwenti，yijinimenweishenmehuidadaoxianzaideshuiping。zaihuifuzhiqian，niyinggaixuehuibimianzheixiecuowu，buyaozaijinuduifang。

 tongchang，fenshouhouzuihaodebanfashitongyiduifangdejueding，buyaoyizhijiuchanduifang。niyinggairangtajuedeniyijingjieshoulefenshoudeshishi，ranhoufangsongduinidejingti，zheiyangnijiukeyiyougengduodeshijianlaizhengjiuduifang。

 wolijieshilianhoudetongku，zhidaoganqingbushifangxia，danniyinggaimingbai，zanshidefangshoubushifangxia，ershizhihui。ruguonimenhuxiangjiuchan，nimendeguanxiyijingbiandejiangying，dannimenrengranbuxiangfangqi。

一.两人分手后的感情状态

被拉黑删除

 ruguonijixutongguojiuchanlaizhengjiuduifang，zuizaogaodejieguoshinibeiduifanglesuo.shanchu。shishishang，laheibingbuyiweizhebuaini，ershiyizhongtaobixingwei。

laheishuomingyoujizhongqingkuang：

1.taxinlihaizaihuni，weilewangjini，zhinengtongguolaheitaobi；

2.tarengranaini，danniyijingyingxiangletadeshenghuo；

 zhenzhengdefangxiashiwudongyuzhong，meiyouqingxubodong，tabuhuishanchu.laheilaiqieduannimenzhijiandeguanxi。danshirenhenengbanilaheideren.shanchu，shuomingtahaizaihuni，xinlifangbuxiani，xingweishangbudebulikaini。

 buyaozongshirenweiduifanglesuoniyiweizhenibuai，huozhenimenzhijianmeiyoujihuizhongguiyuhao。youshihou，jihuishinizijiyingdede，erbushibierenjinide。

可以正常聊天

 shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？jiarunimenzhijiankeyizhengchangliaotian，danshitaduinimeiyoujijidefanying，niyebuyaotainanguo，zhiyaonimenhaibaoliuzheduifangdelianxifangshi，nimenjiuyoukenengfuhe。

 taxianzaiduinilengdan，buyuanyihenishuohuashizhengchangde，yinweinibuzaishilianren，tameiyouyiwuhuifunidexinxi。gengzhongyaodeshi，nicengjingshiyiduifufu，zaifenshoushikenenghuibaoyuanni，suoyibutaikenenghuifuni。

suoyiniyaozuodejiushixianwendingduifang，ranhoumanmandixiaochuduifangduinidefumianyinxiang，manmandizainideguanxizhongjianliganqing。

二.高调挽回前任

 wulunnimenzhijianyoushenmewenti，shouxianyaolengjingdifenxiwenti，buyaochuliqingxuwenti。ruguonixianghuifunideganqing，niyinggaixuehuiyizhinideqingxu，buyaoxiangdangrandirenweizheishinizijidepiqi。suoyoudehuifubuzhoudoushijiyunikongzhiqingxudenengli。

1.shanyuliyongnvrendeneijiugan

 weishenmeyouxierenbuxiangfenshou？yinweizhudongfenshouderenziranhuijuedezijizuocuoleshenme。zhudongfenshouhou，yifangmian，tahuijuedenifenshoushitadecuo。taduinixianzaidebeishanggandaofeichangneijiu。lingyifangmian，nvrengengqingxuhua。dangtamenkandaonibeishangshi，tahuixinruan。yinci，niyinggaixuehuiliyongnvrendeneijiuhewenroulaizhengjiubici。

 zaizheigeshihou，henduorenhuifanyigecuowu，xihuanzaigezhongshejiaopingtaishangzhanshizijidebeicanshenghuo，fenxiangbeishangdeyinle.wenben，huofabushenyezuijiudedongtai，dengdeng。

 worenweiduifanghuizhudonghuitou。shishishang，zheizhongxingweikenenghuizaiyikaishijiuyinqiduifangdeneijiuhelianmin，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，dangtakanchuannidechangguibingxiguantashi，tabuhuitongqingni，danyehuirenweinizaidaodebangjia。

 zhenzhengdeneijiuganshijianlizaibubaoluzijixuqiuhebudaodebangjiadejichushangde。zhizaoneijiugandefangfashifanshengziji，huxiangdianbo。buyaozhijieledang。

反思自己

 diyidianshi，niyinggaishouxiankaishi，shouxianchengrennidecuowu。buyaodengdaoduifangzhichunidewenti，nicaikaishifansinidewenti。ruguonimeiyoubiaodanidebuman，niyijingyishidaonidewenti，neimenihuigengshufu。

 biruwomeixiangdaohuifenshou。zhenyihan。xianzaixiangxiang。woweinigandaonanguo。woyiqiantaiyiziwoweizhongxin，hulvelenideganshou。buxingdeshi，wolijiedetaiwanle，daijiataigaole。wozhendehenbaoqianrangnishouweiqu。

 zaizheijuhuazhong，nibujinfansinidewenti，haibiaodaniduitadeganjizhiqing。tingdaozheixie，taziranhuikaishifanshengziji，juedezijiyouwenti，nidebiaoxianhuirangtajuedenigaibianle，yishidaolenidecuowu。jishitaduiniyouhendadeyuanhen，tayehuizaitinglezheixiehuahouzhongxinsikaonimendeguanxi。

点拨对方

 zainiyishidaozijidewentihou，zhichuduifangdequedian。ruherangduifangrongyijieshouerbushengqishifeichangguanjiande。zhijieshuodangranbushi，taduiniyouyijian，jieguonikaishizemaduifangdequedian，zheibushihuoshangjiaoyouma？

 keyizheiyangshuo：“woyiqiangoutongbutaihao，nikenengbuxihuanzhudongshuo。wobuzhidaonineixindexiangfa。jieguo，wodeganqingmaodunmeiyoudedaohenhaodejiejue，daozhiyuelaiyueduodewenti。xianzaixiangqilaihennanguo。woshiqulewodehaoganqing。”

 jijujiandandehua，jibiaodalezijidequedian，yebiaodaleduifangdequedian，duifangtinglezhihouyehenrongyijieshou，rangtayishidaozijizaizheiduanganqingzhongyeyouwenti。

 huxiangzhichubingburongyi。xuduorenmeiyoubawozijidepanduanli，daozhiyuelaiyueyanzhongdeqingxuwenti。yinci，zaishiyongzheizhongfangfashi，niyinggaizhuyigenjuduifangdexinggehenideqingganjichulaishiying。

 yinci，huifubushibeiweidehepinghuolixing，ershifansizijidewenti，rangduifangyishidaozijidequedian。lianggebuwanmeiderenzhengzaihuxiangmibu。

2.chuangzaoluochagan，jianlixiyinli

 zaihuifuguochengzhong，ruguonimeitianzhunshijitafaxinxi，huozhezongshihuxiangyinghe。xiangfan，tahuiduinishiquxingqu。nihuifenshoude。taduinideyinxianghenzaogao。nimuqiandexingweibuhuigaibiantaduinidekanfa。

 ruguonixianghuxiangzhengjiu，niyinggaixuehuizhizaoyigequekou，rangtajuedeniyijingfangxiale。tabuzaishinixinzhongduyiwuerdecunzai。renxingshilianjiade。dangnibulitashi，takaishiduinihaoqi，shenzhidatingnidexiaoxi。

 guoqu，nijingchangjitafaxinxi。xianzainituranduitashiqulexingqu。zheizhongchajuganhuiyinqiduifangdezhuyi“tansuoyu”dangzheiyiqiedoubuzaitadekongzhizhixia，tahuiduinichanshengqiangliedehaoqixin。

 zhengjiuyigerenjiushizhongxinzhuiqiuyigerendeguocheng。nixuyaozuodebushiruhequyueta，ershizhonglixiyinli。ganqingyikaishiyidinghenyouxiyinli。niyoutaxihuandepinzhi，suoyiniyuanyizaiyiqi。

 nikeyigaibiannidezhezhuangfengge.jianshendengfangfakeyigaishanzijidewaibiao。xianrangtaduiniganxingqu，ranhouzaitingleliaotianrulejieneixindebianhua。

3.gongtongjinbu，gaibianziji

 xuduorenshilian，bushiyinweitamenbuai，ershiyinweitamendechengzhangsudubutong。tayizhizainulibiandegenghao，dannirengranzhanzhebudong。nimenzhijianyouhenduochaju。nimeiyouzhuita，tayemeiyoutingxialaidengni，suoyidangchajuzugoudashi，niziranhuifenshou。

suoyi，yaoxiangwanhuiduifang，jiuyaoxuehuibashijianhuazaizijishenshang，erbushiyonglaitaohaoduifang。

youhenduofangfakeyigaibianziji，guanjianshizhaochunimenfenshoudezhenzhengyuanyin，yijitazuiguanxindefangmian。

jiarutarenweinishiyigemeiyoushangjinxinderen，neimenikeyizhudongyuduifangfenxiangnidexingongzuo，houzhenizhengzaixuexixinjineng。

jiarutarenweinidesiweirenzhibuzaiyigegaodu，neimenikeyizaipengyouquanhuozhudongyuduifangfenxiangnizuijindeyibenshu。

 jianeryanzhi，jiushiyaozuoyixienengrangduifangduiniguamuxiangkandeshiqing。tongguorichangdejiechuhejiaoliu，zhujiandapoduifangduinideyuanyourenzhi。

 yourenshuo，aiqingdeduilimianbushichouhen，ershiyiwang。taduiniyuelengmo，jiuyuejujueni。xiangfan，zheizhongjiduandebiaoxianyinzangletaneixindebuqingyuan。yifangmian，taguanxinni，danlingyifangmian，tadanxinnihuizhongdaofuzhe。yexutabuzhidaoweishenmetahuiyiciyouyicidizheiyangzuo。

 shilianlezenmebanxiangwanhui？fenshoubingbuyiweizhenimenguanxidejieshu，yebuyiweizhenimenbunengfuhe。chengnianrenzhijiandeganqingsuishidouhuigaibian。guanjianshiniyoumeiyoudonglirangtahuitou。